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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b
Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.
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Nightmare of the week!
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Posted:Jul 2, 2009 12:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2010 7:14 am
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Here is a thought for everyone who lives in THIS little world of fuckin' and being fucked...
We're always hearing about the latest computer virus that is out there lurking around. Which, by the way... if if were not for the anti-virus and other protective software we have to run, and the spyware shit that we can never seem to get rid of completely... all are PCs would run 10 times faster.
Anyway, for those who don't know... one of the things I do in my life is write computer software applications. So, although I would NEVER write any kind of virus or worm program... I can't help but occasionally wonder 'what if'. What WOULD I have a sneaky, no-good of a bitch bastard program do to some poor slob if I REALLY wanted to fuck him over?
Historically... my answer would have been to have this nastyware modify the files on your computer, one byte (that's one character) at a time... one file per day. Now, what would that do? Well, it would destroy some files immediately because they HAVE to be formatted out in special ways... others, like your spreadsheets and documents... a subtle one character change may simply substract a decimal point to your tax forms. Thir trick being that even if you were a deligent person and backed up your files every day... it could take months before you know they were slowly being fucked up.
Well, today... I thought of a MUCH nastier stunt for a virus to pull. And, that is back to what I said at the top of this blog entry...
...a thought for everyone who lives in THIS little world of fuckin' and being fucked...
What if the nastyware sent a copy (with attachments) of EVERY email you have sent, and every email you have recieved that hasn't been deleted yet... to EVERYONE in your address book?
YIKES!
You mother gets to see you sucking a dick or being fucked, your brother hears how many people you have fucked, your boss finds out your wife is available to be fucked... just imagine!
Do me a favor... respond to this posting with... what would be the WORST current outbound email you ever sent... being sent to what specific person would be the biggest nightmare ever.
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July 18th Party - We will be there
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Posted:Jun 29, 2009 9:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2010 9:11 am
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We are attending LeClassic Touch's party in Charlotte on July 18th.
Anyone else going from around here?
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And, the flip side is...
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Posted:Jun 26, 2009 5:18 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2010 7:14 am
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Well, you should read the previous blog entry and then come back to this one if you want a real laugh.
Yesterday, we got contacted by a guy from another site who lives about 4 or 5 hundred miles away who is going to be traveling through our area on Sunday.
Basically, on the phone he made a point of telling Carol what local hotel he was going to be staying at suggesting that she meet him there. In otherwords, a pure, unadulterated, 100% Booty Call!
And, she said YES.
Well, she didn't quite say yes. She told him to get back with us as soon as he had everything confirmed. He had said there were some loose ends still plus her work schedule for Sunday totally doesn't make a Sunday evening meet that attractive for her. But, the overall tone in her dialogue with him was YES, we can meeet.
Normally, Carol would not be as accomidating to an invitation such as this however she recently has had some encounters away from home and I am sure she likes the 'variety' in playgrounds.
Two years ago, it was all motel rooms and in fact, we joked about wondering what the fate of the local Motel-6 would be once we started entertaining at home.
Will this meeting actually happen? Probably not... either he will be a total flake and no-show or Carol will chicken out. I hope she doesn't because she typically has a lot of fun when she follows the things that excite her.
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A quick overview...
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Posted:Jun 25, 2009 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2010 2:50 pm
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Carol asked me to put together a blog last night.
If you want to meet Carol, you really should pay attention to some of the items in this entry.
When you send us an email or if you happen to respond to one we might send you... 95% of the time the 'message' from us is Al speaking on Carol's behalf with her blessings. She prefers to chat with people on the phone so she leaves most of this online messaging and emailing to me, her husband.
If I think there is even a remote chance she will be interested in you, I will provide her phone number and usually some advice on when to call. Sometimes, even if I don't think there is a chance, I will call Carol over to review what you have sent and to read over your profile.
The first thing I want to suggest is THINK before picking up the phone and calling her. And, the first thing you should think about is that she won't know you from Adam. If you tell her you are from Senior Sizzle... she gets the picture real quick but it is very unlikely that she has seen any of the email exchanges or read your profile.
The reason for this is that for every 5 people I provide her phone number for, 1 will call. And, for every 5 that call, 1 will call back and actually try to develop a connection with Carol.
When you call, what won't work (99% of the time) is a full blown Booty Call! Maybe once a year you might call and say "Let's Fuck!" and her say "OK".
What also quickly makes your approach doomed to failure is to be evasive. If Carol were to ask... "What is your name?"... "Fred" is good enough. We don't need to see your driver's license or call your parents to check you out or even run a credit check. But, if you come off being so secretive that you hesitate or stutter just giving her something to call you and remember you by... well, she is going tio immediately TURN OFF and look elsewhere.
The thing is, there are LOTS of guys out there who are considerate enough to be friendly and cordial and try to make a connection. All of them won't be able to successfully allign the stars in such a way that schedules match and interest entwine. So, start off being a jerk, or impatient, or so afraid you can't even talk and you might as well save your time and call someone else.
Next, be truthful. Carol 'prefers' guys without wives and live-in or demanding girl friends but don't come off as if your totally single and unattached and then allow your subsequent actions to tell the truth. Subsequent actions like not able to entertain at home, reluctance to be seen in public, NEVER actually answering your phone, etc. If she knows your attached, then she is willing to work within your limitations as long as everything else is cool.
And, about truthful... another thing that bugs the shit out of me personnaly is when someone tels us their name and then several emails later and often even after a meet or two they send another email and forgot who they said they were and sign it with another name.
If you ask Carol something she isn't ready to tell you, such as where exactly do you work, she will tell you she isn't comfortable discussing that at the moment. You can do the same if she asks something too personal.
And if she asks you... "have you read over my profile?" and you stutter around and finally say "Oh, yeah I did!"... be prepared that her next question will be "Ok, what was it in my profile that attracted you to me?"
Well, enough about honesty.
Let's cover some other issues. Carol is not an inflatable cum depository at your beck and call. Sure, she is on here to fuck people just like you are... but, she is a woman and she CARES about who fucks her. As her husband, yeah I know that sometimes it is just about getting your rocks off and who and where is immaterial but... THAT WON'T SUCCEED WITH CAROL. She is too many existing friends and a continued supply of new guys hiting her up who are willing to show some commitment toward experiencing each other as people and not as masterbation devices.
Earlier, I suggested THINKING before you call. You should know in advance how open about who you are and what your situation is so you don't have to think about it when it comes up in the conversation. If your one of the people who are just on here to put another notch on your belt... just move on and save both of you some time because Carol prefers fucking people she likes and, unless you ar willing to meet and get to know her, you and her will never know if you like each other or not.
Think about the key areas that need to be discussed. Since most of the time, you are contacting her because you discovered her her on line... make sure you know what she likes. Read the profile. Read the blog. Especially real some of the higlighted blog entries listed at the top.
Think about what you want that first meeting to be like. I can tell you up front that she is usually going to demand that a first face to face meeting has to occur with her husband present. Once she gets comfortable with someone, she is more open to solo meets.
Perhaps one of the best ways to handle a first meet is to have a good phone chat or two or three with her, work out scheduling when you can meet, and then come here to meet us. Taking her out later for a drink, just thw two of you, is also a good second step and can occur the same evening you first meet her.
Well, running out of time here... have to get back to work. But, wanted to mention a couple of last things. In case you don't know it... Carol LOVES massage. She loves getting them and giving them. It is her foreplay and its good both before, after, and during the rest of the play time. Carol also likes to experience new things. She likes to be taken out. She especially likes to experience the things you like to experience... especially if it is something that may be a bit new or unusual for her. Recently, someone asked her to go bowling and she hadn't been bowling for years and she loved it. Get the picture?
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I'm not changing my life, I'm just...
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Posted:Jun 23, 2009 4:04 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 6:27 pm
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Whats the deal with this phrase? I'll bet I've seen dozens of profiles with this same sentence as part of the description.
In fact, I've seen it so much that... if I had it on my profile I'd take it off for fear people would think I just copied it from some other person because I'm too stupid to come up with my own description.
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I have some questions...
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Posted:Jun 9, 2009 8:53 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2010 8:02 am
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Didn't really want to make this a 'poll question'... and feel free to respond here in the blog or to answer privately via email.
Here is a question if you are a man:
What do you see as the pros and cons of 'dating' Carol. By that, I mean occasionally going out to dinner or a movie or any of a thousand other activities 'friends' do? The obvious background here being she is married, will stay married, so nothing other than spending time together will ever happen.
Here is a question if you are a woman:
Do you see 'problems' for Carol, her husband, or 'the guy' that you think out-weigh the 'benefits' of the open relationship we have where she is allowed to date, have solos, even travel occasionally?
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Date Night
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Posted:May 30, 2009 1:19 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 6:27 pm
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Well, today has turned very interesting. A gentleman from up Virginia Way came down to visit and surprised Carol as we were all setting around getting aquianted by asking her out to dinner.
So many guys just want to come over, spend a little time just chatting but then they want to fuck and get on with their lives and... in many case that is just fine with Carol and I as well. But, it is also nice to get past 'just fucking' now and then. After all, they call this Friends with Benifits right? The 'Friends' part is kinda supposed to be more important than anything 'WITH'!
So, guess I'll head out to grab some dinner myself. This is one of those times I need a local lady myself to take out and wine and dine. Any ladies out there who want to be my lady while my lady is out?
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Activity peaking somewhat...
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Posted:May 29, 2009 9:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2010 8:07 am
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Carol had someone over on Tuesday and someone over on Thursday.
She has plans for someone Saturday and a probable thing next Thursday. And... I wouldn't be surprised if Monday evening turned into something.
Of the two gentlemen already this week... Both of them really took the time to give Carol a Great massage. She really loves those. Lately, I referred to her as a 'massage '. She laughed when I said it. But, I better not try that too often 
Anyway... wonderful weather outside... just need it to dry out enough to cut the grass. Carol is off doing I don't know what at the moment. I know she has to go to work around 5PM this evening. I think she is out running errands. I know she had to go by the bank.
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No Show in the Making
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Posted:May 8, 2009 10:37 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2010 10:39 am
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Well, I'm about 99% sure that Carol's weekend guest is going to be a no-show.
This particular person was actually taken OFF THE LIST once before but managed to beg and plead his way back into being considered.
If he doesn't show up tomorrow as planned, he is definitely out of our lives for good and it will keep us from changing our minds about people in the future once they stand us up once.
So, my advice... if you manage to get a date with Carol or receive and accept an invitation to our home... you better make it else forget about future get togethers.
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Playtime!
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Posted:May 1, 2009 10:47 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2010 2:59 pm
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Had a great time last night! Thank you for coming over (you know who you were). Please come over again soon!
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Wow, been over a month since our last post!
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Posted:Apr 26, 2009 6:24 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2010 2:59 pm
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Lots of things going on and for the most part, not lifestyle related. Carol has been suffering a lot this year from colds/flu and sinus issues. She had problems like this last year also.
We also had family visiting and then was away for a few days on vacation. Plus, I've been offline a lot doing some work on the computer and when I'm working, I disable all the instant messaging stuff and emails etc.
But, things are starting to settle down, Carol's feeling better... I think it just depends upon who calls her first, says the right things, about the right day and he will have her happym;
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The importance of Massage
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Posted:Mar 18, 2009 9:27 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2010 2:59 pm
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Carol asked me to post something about this the other night... she was right in the middle of getting a nice massage from one of her guy friends right there on a blanket on the living room floor.
The thing is, if there is anything that will excite Carol more than anything else... it is the prospect of getting a nice, relaxing overall body massage.
Carol 'turns on' by physical touch. She likes to give a massage as much as get one. It is just something about having your hands on someone, gently moving your hand over their body and especially over body areas usually covered by clothing that makes her want to become intimate.
Of course, one thing that is obvious with Carol... she especially likes the feel and texture of an African American's skin.
Perhaps the most significant advice I can offer anyone who wants to get with Carol is to offer massage as the primary thing on the agenda. Just be sure and follow through with it. Also, doing her 'between' sexual encounters is a great way to have additional encounters.
Once you have been with her once and there was a good time the first time... there isn't a much better way to seduce her into another meeting than simply asking her... "Would you like a massage?"
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Saturday Morning Again! But It's March and spring is coming soon!
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Posted:Mar 7, 2009 5:13 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2009 4:09 am
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Things have been going slowly of late. Because of everything from family visits by our daughters, work schedule, health issues, etc... Carol hasn't played nearly as much this year as she did by this time last year.
Also, her growing tendency to keep her playtimes with on-going friends is constantly growing.
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