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A quick overview...
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A quick overview... Carol asked me to put together a blog last night. If you want to meet Carol, you really should pay attention to some of the items in this entry. When you send us an email or if you happen to respond to one we might send you... 95% of the time the 'message' from us is Al speaking on Carol's behalf with her blessings. She prefers to chat with people on the phone so she leaves most of this online messaging and emailing to me, her husband. If I think there is even a remote chance she will be interested in you, I will provide her phone number and usually some advice on when to call. Sometimes, even if I don't think there is a chance, I will call Carol over to review what you have sent and to read over your profile. The first thing I want to suggest is THINK before picking up the phone and calling her. And, the first thing you should think about is that she won't know you from Adam. If you tell her you are from Senior Sizzle... she gets the picture real quick but it is very unlikely that she has seen any of the email exchanges or read your profile. The reason for this is that for every 5 people I provide her phone number for, 1 will call. And, for every 5 that call, 1 will call back and actually try to develop a connection with Carol. When you call, what won't work (99% of the time) is a full blown Booty Call! Maybe once a year you might call and say "Let's Fuck!" and her say "OK". What also quickly makes your approach doomed to failure is to be evasive. If Carol were to ask... "What is your name?"... "Fred" is good enough. We don't need to see your driver's license or call your parents to check you out or even run a credit check. But, if you come off being so secretive that you hesitate or stutter just giving her something to call you and remember you by... well, she is going tio immediately TURN OFF and look elsewhere. The thing is, there are LOTS of guys out there who are considerate enough to be friendly and cordial and try to make a connection. All of them won't be able to successfully allign the stars in such a way that schedules match and interest entwine. So, start off being a jerk, or impatient, or so afraid you can't even talk and you might as well save your time and call someone else. Next, be truthful. Carol 'prefers' guys without wives and live-in or demanding girl friends but don't come off as if your totally single and unattached and then allow your subsequent actions to tell the truth. Subsequent actions like not able to entertain at home, reluctance to be seen in public, NEVER actually answering your phone, etc. If she knows your attached, then she is willing to work within your limitations as long as everything else is cool. And, about truthful... another thing that bugs the shit out of me personnaly is when someone tels us their name and then several emails later and often even after a meet or two they send another email and forgot who they said they were and sign it with another name. If you ask Carol something she isn't ready to tell you, such as where exactly do you work, she will tell you she isn't comfortable discussing that at the moment. You can do the same if she asks something too personal. And if she asks you... "have you read over my profile?" and you stutter around and finally say "Oh, yeah I did!"... be prepared that her next question will be "Ok, what was it in my profile that attracted you to me?" Well, enough about honesty. Let's cover some other issues. Carol is not an inflatable cum depository at your beck and call. Sure, she is on here to fuck people just like you are... but, she is a woman and she CARES about who fucks her. As her husband, yeah I know that sometimes it is just about getting your rocks off and who and where is immaterial but... THAT WON'T SUCCEED WITH CAROL. She is too many existing friends and a continued supply of new guys hiting her up who are willing to show some commitment toward experiencing each other as people and not as masterbation devices. Earlier, I suggested THINKING before you call. You should know in advance how open about who you are and what your situation is so you don't have to think about it when it comes up in the conversation. If your one of the people who are just on here to put another notch on your belt... just move on and save both of you some time because Carol prefers fucking people she likes and, unless you ar willing to meet and get to know her, you and her will never know if you like each other or not. Think about the key areas that need to be discussed. Since most of the time, you are contacting her because you discovered her her on line... make sure you know what she likes. Read the profile. Read the blog. Especially real some of the higlighted blog entries listed at the top. Think about what you want that first meeting to be like. I can tell you up front that she is usually going to demand that a first face to face meeting has to occur with her husband present. Once she gets comfortable with someone, she is more open to solo meets. Perhaps one of the best ways to handle a first meet is to have a good phone chat or two or three with her, work out scheduling when you can meet, and then come here to meet us. Taking her out later for a drink, just thw two of you, is also a good second step and can occur the same evening you first meet her. Well, running out of time here... have to get back to work. But, wanted to mention a couple of last things. In case you don't know it... Carol LOVES massage. She loves getting them and giving them. It is her foreplay and its good both before, after, and during the rest of the play time. Carol also likes to experience new things. She likes to be taken out. She especially likes to experience the things you like to experience... especially if it is something that may be a bit new or unusual for her. Recently, someone asked her to go bowling and she hadn't been bowling for years and she loved it. Get the picture? |
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Great Blog!! It's funny because I too have written a blog on how a guy can increase his chances with me.
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