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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b
Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.
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Another Day, another Guy
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Posted:Oct 4, 2008 4:56 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2008 6:51 pm
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Well, yesterday turned out well. Carol surprised me minutes after I arrived home for lunch today to tell me one of the guys she has been chatting with on the phone was due any minute.
It was her (and my) first time to meet him face to face. He and I chatted about a variety of things while Carol fixed my lunch because I had to get back to work. Seemed like a nice guy, and I heard later that Carol enjoyed herself with him after I left.
Today, a friend of ours is coming to visit me to watch a college football game. He has been with Carol so many times and known us for so long that he and I have become friends as well. He doesn't even know Carol will be off work today while he is here.
Don't know if she will play with him today... she mentioned that maybe, she might get a date for today just to remind him not to always expect her to spread her legs when he is here. He-he.. this is actually the kind of thing we are both looking for. People (men, women, couples) who are as much friends with us both rather than just someone Carol fucks now and then. And, the thing is, this friend of ours DOESN'T expect to get his nuts off everytime we meet and that is a good thing because sometimes we just want to socialize and she is either too tired or sore from maybe a long night before.
His relationship with us, and her especially has grown to the point where sometimes, Carol will even be his 'partner' with another couple. We have also taken him as our guest to some full blown play parties. Sometimes, even when he knows Carol is at work, he will drop by for a drink and a chat and he is so 'welcome' by 'us' that such things as a long weekend mini-vacation (like to the beach) with just him and Carol is perfectly normal behavior for us.
So, it will be 'interesting' to see what happens today. Carol has to be at work at 5PM and the game starts around noon so her window to play with anyone today is short and my guess is that she will with him. She will probably just decide to come downstairs sometime in the late first quarter having just got out of the bath wearing just her towel. And then, act all nonchalant about the fact that she is virtually naked.
But on the flip side... I'm equally sure she would simply love to have a guy come to pick her up for a date while our friend is trying to focus on the game. Plus, she'd love to listen in on the conversation between her date and not just her husband.. but a second guy while she is putting on her makeup and stuff. And, what about the poor guy... setting there talking to both his date's husband and lover?
I think she will also end up making plans for Sunday as well. It isn't usual for Carol to be active 3 days in a row. But, we have family coming in for a long weekend next Thursday so... she may be TRYING to get overloaded this weekend.
Well, as this blog entry started with... 'Another day, another guy...'. Yesterday was the seond person she met from this site... and fucked.
There is one HUGE difference in the men she meets here on Senior Sizzle and our hstorically experiences on other sites where even the site name includes a reference to Swinging or Swingers. A much larger percentage of the guys here... this really isn't about meeting people in the 'lifestyle' for them. It is strickly about hooking up with an emphasis on One on One. What makes it interesting is that this is a very good fit for us at the moment. I asked Carol just last night what percentage of her 'encounters' whe wanted to have solo versus me around. Her answer didn't surprise me. The thing is, she is really two different people in this. If a guy were to ask me... "Which way would I have more fun with her? Alone or with you watching?"... my answer would be 'equally the same but totally different'.
When I am around, she tends to 'perform'... to put on a show for my benefit which... is not a bad experience for the guy. When she is with someone solo... it is for HER and she is more into it for her own reasons.
Well. enough for today... those of you who enjoy reading these ramblings... please do add a comment now and then. I like to hear if people are reading these entries and what they think of them.
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Posted:Oct 2, 2008 3:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2008 4:40 pm
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What can you say... we got contacted today by someone over Yahoo whom we originally encountered because there were plans to attend the same party in March of 2007. Since then, he has maybe called Carol a couple of times (doubt she remembers him) and IM'd me 30 times or so just to chat.
He lives 154.4 miles from us more or less... that is the distance betwene cities according to MapQuest.
And, he wants to come meet Carol. What do you say to that these days? If he gets 30 miles per gallon, that's $40 for gas alone and round trip.. he is talking at least 5 hours on the road.
Our no-show rate with those statistics IS 100%. Admittedly, we've met people who were passing through who lived that far away and even much further. But no one just gets in the car and drives that far in the hopes of getting some ass... and if they do... makes you wonder why they have to go that far in the first place.
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Posted:Oct 1, 2008 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2010 8:57 am
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Haven't posted in a few days. Carol finally got to meat and get down with someone she met first here on Senior Sizzle. She had a great time and although this is unusual... he even stayed the night with her.
So, [he-he], to you know who you were... congratulations on getting with Carol and thanks from us both!
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Upgraded to Gold
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Posted:Sep 28, 2008 7:44 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 6:59 am
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Got an offer of 20% off so... when ahead and signed up.
Just hope more of the people on here are real and willing to actually meet. So far, only met one or two people but have chatted on the phone with several.
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The infatuation with Anal Sex!
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Posted:Sep 27, 2008 4:21 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2008 9:24 am
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My goodness... I simply can't believe how many men contact us seeking to do anal sex.
First off, it sounds like a really 'shitty' thing to do in the first place.
Second, why in this age of Aids where rectal bleeding and fluid exchange... is ANYONE going near it with a ten foot pole valting pole let alone with their personal pole.
When people ask us if she likes anal... that is usually the point where her interest in them drops to zero. And, I certainly don't want her to take that 'added' risk.
What I do find hilarious is when I get an Instant Message over Yahoo and we're starting to discuss sexual interest and limits and such... when they ask if she likes Anal...my typical answer is that "You Bet! She LOVES getting out her strap-on and using it on a guy!".
This usually shuts them up... seems turnabout is not fair play to these guys.
And, a final thought... if a man likes to butt-fuck... what real difference does it make who's ass he has is dick in. If he got horney enough... maybe the fact that is partner's name might be FRED gets secondary consideration.
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HELP! Their loose!
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Posted:Sep 25, 2008 9:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2008 8:59 pm
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Today, I was looking at some of the groups we are in and saw a poll listed that I thought I'd check out. The title of the poll was:
"Why do wives humiliate white husbands with blk cock".
Well, we are definitely not into humilation. We gave a whole list of motivations that don't include THAT. But, it made me curious to go sewe what people might be suggesting to answer the question of "Why Do".
So, I drilled down to the poll and saw that there was actually a different question actually being asked and that the original "Why Do" was just the title of the poll. The real question was:
"Why does my wife love to make me wear panties for well hung black men".
Ah Geez! Give me a break! I wouldn't have even looked if I saw THAT as the poll question. But, it was too late. I had looked.
Then, it gets weird!
There were two possible responses to his question about "pamties" which of course... had nothing to do with either the poll title or the question itself.
[] how can i learn to take the black cock without pain
[] how big is too big
Ok, whatever... it just amazes me that there are people who are not only fucked up in the head, but can't even ask a question. All I can say is, thank goodness this person hasn't contacted us!
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Guess I'm the expert!
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Posted:Sep 22, 2008 9:58 am
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2008 1:48 pm
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Had another one of those yahoo IMs today from someone who was inquiring about our interracial activities.
Usually, and today was no exception, it is from a guy who says he wants to see his wife with a black man. And, as usual, during the chat I discover that she isn't even into swinging let alone interracial.
There is a very detailed blog entry here on line which is full of suggestions for turning your wife into a quote 'Black Cock Slut' that I suppose I should copy and forward when these conversations come up but I get somewhat amused by them so I tend to just wing it.
If I have the time... I try to get through to the husband that this is a sub-culture of the lifestyle that he needs to make 100% sure he can handle. White women being with Black men CAN become quite adictive for the lady and you better have your relationship on solid ground.
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Top 10 reasons
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Posted:Sep 21, 2008 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2010 7:04 am
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Listed below are the 10 ten reasons Carol will not agree to meet you. Some of the milder turn-offs won't ensure a NO answer, but it certainly doesn't help.
Of note: ALL of these have been said to her over the years.
10 I'm white
9 I live in [insert location here which is 250 miles away or more from her]
8 I've never been with a white woman.
7 Will your husband suck me off
6 I'm really into anal sex.
5 Can I bring a couple of my buddies?
4 I haven't been with a woman for 5 years
3 Can we meet without your husband knowing?
2 I'm just interested in getting a blow job.
AND... the number one way to guarantee you won't get to first base:
1 I'm married and my wife is too dumb to know I fuck around.
Special note: Leave a comment on this one to just say hello and let us know you've been reading our blog. And, we LOVE comments on individual blog entries.
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Anyone familiar with the 5th Season Club in Greensboro?
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Posted:Sep 21, 2008 9:09 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2010 7:04 am
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For those that don't... this is an upscale club located within the Sheridan 4 Seasons Hotel that is situated within the 4 Seasons Mall parking lot.
It isn't too expensive, the drink prices are about what one would expect (A beer is $3.75, a cocktail as mush as $7, and a $5 cover charge on weekend nights.
What my Carol and I enjoy about it is that they have a band on weekend nights and this is the most interracially friendly club we have ever seen.
The crowd is perhaps close to evenly distributed between whites and blacks. There is a fairly even distribution between singles and couples. And, there are probably more Mixed couples than there are either black or white couples.
As you look around, what you see obviously is more black men with white ladies then you do white men with black ladies.
Carol and I occasionally go there together... but, not REALLY together. She will walk in and find a perch somewhere and order her drink. I will set some distance away and watch the fun. I might add that NEVER has a white man approached her to dance or flirt which I find very interesting.
We tend to refer to evenings such as this as 'hunting in the wild'. Past experiences have taught us that this is a totally different situation then when we meet people through swinger and adult sites such as Senior Sizzle. Here on Senior Sizzle, you pretty much identify yourself and your interest and willingness and so forth. In a club atmosphere, when a man approaches a women... it is all a mystery and the conversations are totally different then when we give someone our phone number on here and the man dosn't concern himself if I happen to answer the phone. he simply asks to speak to Carol and there you go.
But, in the club environment... past experience has taught us that you can't just ask someone if they like your 'profile' or enjoyed her pictures. So, her method of operation is to keep the subject of my presence or her status or why she is even there off the table until she has a chance to get to know the person she is talking to.
She will usually admit that she is married however. And, when asked where her husband is...she will say something like 'Ladies night out'. And, of course I would NEVER come to her table while she is having a chat with someone and introduce myself. In fact, we typically don't talk or even exchange looks between the time I let her out of the car until the end of the evening when she leaves alone (if she does) and gets back into the car.
Our rules of engagement are, that she is free to make the call as she sees fit. She can either choose to make her 'date' aware of her situation, even wave me over, or... if she is interested enough but concerned about the man's reaction.. she can choose to stay 'single' with him all the way through to the end even if that ends with him letting her off in the morning back near the club's exit.
And we also definitely have some fun with all this too. Sometimes, she will find me setting at the bar and she will take a seat one away from where I am but we completely ignore each other. Also, we will use text messaging to stay in contact.
Unfortunately... there is a whole lot of WAITING involved. Frankly, I am shocked that she doesn't have a whole lot more guys approach her. Back when I was younger and out looking at a local club... I would have probably at least asked every woman there to dance or simply chat with them a moment to test the waters. These days, it seems that everyone is afraid to approach. Not sure if it is fear of rejection or what. One guy told me that he often goes out there and he 'watches' the ladies. He wants to see them come in a few times before he decides to make his approach. He wants to see (in the case of white ladies) if they are approachable by a black man. He even watches to see if they come in alone and leave with someone.
I would say that on average, over the 3 or 4 hours she is there on a given evening... maybe two guys will approach her or ask her to dance. And, she ends up playing perhaps one out of 5 times she goes. And, this is frustrating to us both!
When we first started going out there... I even considered having a 'ringer' involved... someone where he and I had pre-arranged for him to come out and I would point out where Carol was setting. Never did do this however, and one eveing I even told Carol I had considered it. She wasn't too keen on that idea because hse didn't like the idea of being fooled. Then, in that same conversation... we considered the idea of playing a double switcheroo... where, I would pre-arange with some man to try to pick her up but the JOKE would have been that she was fully in on the plan and was expecting his arrival. That she would play 'just hard enough to get' to make it interesting before agreeing to go play after. But then, the mnore we talked about it.. the funnier the idea got because sure enough.. a real stranger would approach and she would THINK it was the guy I had talked to.
As you can see... we do like to 'play games' and role play somewhat.
There was another idea we had where we would involve one of her existing friends. He would come to the club with one of his buddies and he would suggest to his friend that they approach Carol and see where it led. Almost did this one. The idea was that she would definitely flirt with this unknowing 3rd party guy and that ultimately, she would agree to accompany both of them back to our friend's house for a 3some. Then, to top it off, I would drop by shortly after they got there and Caorl and I would pretend that we didn't know each other.
Of course, we always intended to tell the 'patsy' about the joke at the end of the evening but what kept us from doing is is concerns that he might get totally freaked out about it since he wasn't really 'in the lifestyle'.
One role play we did do many years ago (when we were both in our 20s) is that we went to 'Campus Corner' in Normal Oklahoma (Go Sooners!). We sat at a large table where there were about 5 young men and she pretended to be my sister. And this prank went all the way. By the end of the evening, she had agreed to go to the lake nearby with 4 of them...to play. But, she wanted her brother to come along as her chaperone. She then proceeded to have a sequence of one on ones with each of the young men.
An old chunk of cardboard, like from a refrigerator package was found and lain just off the dirt road in the bushes. As she took each of them there, the others remained in our car and of course... we all chatted. They were really excited about this woman doing the thing with them all and also talked to me (the brother) about what was going on.
But, that evening... the REAL joke was on ALL who participated. Only I was spared. Seems as though in the dark, when placing the cardboard... no one took a good look at the surrounding vegitation. Poison Ivy! Carol had it all down her back and legs within about 48 hours or less. We also got a call from one of the boys who was worried that maybe he had caught something. Seems he had it ALL OVER his balls!
Anyway, if you happen to be at the 5th Season club, and maybe if you recognize Carol from some of her pictures... go ahead and make a run on her. I'll bet you get lucky!
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Interesting YouTube video
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Posted:Sep 19, 2008 5:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2008 5:31 am
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I received an email today which contained a link to some segments from one of those daytime shows which like to debate issues such as interracial dating and marriage. They bring on real people with diverse situations and points of view and let them debate it in front of a live audience. Not Jerry Springer by any means but there are still angry flare-ups.
This particular clip featured a black woman who lived next door to an interracial couple (black man, white woman) and the black woman was just filled with hate about it to the point where she was actually living signed notes on the black man's winshield denoucing what he was doing.
Carol has experienced such anger from black women herself although thankfully... not for many years. But, she has heard 'comments' behind her back spoken loud enough for her to be sure they we heard and once had her hair pulled by some woman.
The thing is, and what I truly believe is that this current time in history is a once in an evolutionary epic situation where we are able to sample different cultures and physical differences. Humanity has always been a huge mixing bowl where back before what I would refer to as the dawn of transportation... ethnic and racial groups were seperated by geography and if perhaps, a drop of chocolate was dropped into a bowl of white cake mix... it was rapidly obsorbed to the point where you didn't know it had ever existed.
Because of the historic 'distance' between cultural and ethnic groups, even when the ability for larger (more noticible) groups of one race mixed within the borders of another, they tended to retain their isolations either by choice or where 'confined' by the larger majority.
I grew up in a family where racism was there but my parents tended to hide it from me. My extended family (cousins, aunts and uncles) wern't as politicaly correct about it for sure and also the aquaintances and associations I had growing up made sure I got the same treatment about why I should be prejudiced.
I remember an incident when I was perhaps 6 or 7 years old where my mother and her sister took me and my cousin to the state fair in Oklahoma City. This was around 1955. We had taken the bus to get to the fair and as we prepared to leave around 10PM that night, we boarded another bus for the ride home. The bus was almost full we we boarded. The only available seats were in the back of the bus. Once seated, more people boarded to the point where many were standing. I looked up at thos standing and saw a black woman not too far from where I was seated.
My parents had told me that a 'gentleman' should offer his seat to a lady. My friends had informed me that black people were supposed to set in the back of the bus. These two rules of life that I had been taught made me give up my seat and offer it to the lady.
Afterwards, my cousin who had been setting next to me, had a look on his face that totally took me by surprise. He was only about a year older than I but the sneer and look of disdain on his face as he looked at this woman who was now setting next to him was shocking to me. Almost immediately, he also got up and went to set on his mother's lap. I could see him and his mother whispering back and forth obviously in an agitated state. I tried to ask my mother what was wrong and she just sort of shushed me.
I have a lot of memories of racially based incidents having grown up when I did. Things were different then but changing non the less. A few decades before, whites and blacks didn't even mix as much as sharing the same bus. Today, there is a lot of mixing of the races as the old taboos slowly become ignored and forgotten.
My father grew up in rural Tennessee and thought nothing of going out and hunting for meat in the forest. In my youth, there was no need of this with the grocery store just down the street and my own were literally horrified by stories from their grandpa about eating squirrels. Today, the number of people who still participate in hunting has dropped significantly and there will come a time in the future when the thought of eating the flesh of another creature will seem totally barbaric.
The same thing will happen with racism. I'm not sure exactly how it will turn out... in the end, there will either be a new 'race' which has been churned together from all the existing races or one race's physical attributes will tend to dominate. Regardless... there will not be 'different' races and the chance to learn and enjoy a different culture will be lost forever... at least until ET shows up.
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A one hour crisis!
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Posted:Sep 18, 2008 9:30 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2008 2:49 pm
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Wow... what a day yesterday was!
Carol work up yesterday morning about the time I was heading to work. When I left, all we knew was that there were two guys who had indicated that they would like to call her that morning and perhaps set up meeting for that day. Since Carol was off all day, she was very inclined to accept one of the inviations at least.
Well, at 9:30AM, a guy contacts her who lives just ooutside Charlotte and during their phone chat, it was agreed that he would come up to Burlington and take her out to lunch at noon. And, she accepted!
Next, about 10:30 AM, another guy called her and was somewhat pushy about meeting her today. She tried to explain she had plans but in the end, agreed to meet him for a quick face to face at the local Starbucks at 11:30AM. What she didn't know at the time was that I was highly suspicious of this individual because he had been trying to set up a meeting for months and at least once before, called and cancelled at the last minute or failed to call and confirm a meeting (at least twice) when he was supposed to.
Next, the unexpected happened. At 11AM, there was a man at the door and initially, Carol was confused and thought it was her 11:30 'early' and that she had mistakenly told him to come to the house. Or... it was her noon time meeting and he was WAY early. So, she opened the door and invited him in.
As he entered, he quickly embraced her and started kissing and touching. Now, even with people she knows very well... she doesn't expect this 'agressiveness' not does she like it. Anyway, she slowed him down and finally understood that he was a guy she had chatted with several times over the last few months and had even been with sexually once. But, she had not told him he could come over. He just dropped in!
Now, in all fairness... he did try to contact her on the phone about 5 times between 10:30 AM and 11;00 AM but he either caught her on the phone or listening to voice mails or she was too far away to hear the phone and when she tried to call this person back... same problem so they hadn't connected at all.
Well, unexpected drop-ins are a HUGE no-no with Carol. For one thing, we have two daughters who are in the military and at any given point in time, one or both of them could be home on leave. Additionally, one of them is stationed up in Virginia not far from us so her being home on a weekend is not unusual however in all of these instances of course... at least we would know when they are coming and would avoid telling guys they can come over.
And, back many years ago... before everyone carried cell phones, there was the same problem with unexpected guest. Carol always feared that either her mother or mine would be visiting when some guy (especially a black man) popped up on our doorstep wanting to 'get down again'. And, THIS also happend TWICE.
Well, to finish the story quickly, she sent Mr Surprise on his way as quickly as she could. Not saying she wouldn't have fucked under the right conditions but she was very upset about the surprise. Mr Doubful of course, cancelled (as I would have expected) however Mr Nooner was prompt and arrived as expected and she had an enjoyable evening.
The postscript to this story is, that she had Mr Surprise drive her over to her 11:30 meeting because she hadn't noticed the voice mail cancellation and she called me worried that she might not be here by the time her nooner arrived. So, she asked me to come home and be there over lunch to re-assure Mr Nooner that she wasn't standing him up which I did.
She did manage to get home in time however... but, she was so shook up by Mr Surprise and his initial agreesiveness and her confusion about who was who that she had me take off work for the rest of the afternoon while she entertained her guest. The timing for me couldn't have been worse as I was right in the middle of some things andin fact, was called back in to take care of an unexpected emergency later in the day.
Anyway... just another 'story' about what we get ourselves into and what is happening to and around us.
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