Boobie Blues...
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Posted:Feb 13, 2013 7:41 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2013 3:53 pm
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I have no ass. Ok, technically we all do, but mine’s flat. I’m mostly ok with that. I’m built rather like a block on sticks. Seriously, I have a square torso on long skinny legs. When I was in high school, I was a pale twig with glasses . So what, you might be wondering, does this have to do with jugs? Well, here’s the thing, I lost 15 lbs. towards summer’s end (2012), and am now in the BEST shape of my life! But can you guess where most of it went from? You betcha! My happy hooters. Let me tell you, this hasn’t been an easy pill for me to swallow. When I was that twig I mentioned, the thing I most longed for was a nice rack. All I ever wanted was a nice pair of squeezables. Out of high school and 50 lbs. later, I was ecstatic over my luscious C cups. For quite some time, it didn't matter that I was a bit overweight and out of shape, I had TITS! And OH! how I loved my finally-full fun bags ( isn't that an AWFUL term for them? LOL ). Among other reasons, I felt like a woman. I finally had something men could ogle! The first time a guy looked down my cleavage, it was incredibly validating- yes, I AM desirable! Woo hoo!
Let’s face it, culturally, both sexes value the ta tas. Women want to own them, men want to fondle them.(OK, some women want to fondle them too- thank goodness! ) And, as usual, bigger is generally thought better… At least that is what most girls grow up believing. Why else would we spend so freaking much to lift, separate, and enhance them? How much is the bra industry worth?? But you know what? There is some sort of cosmic balance going on with the way our headlamps work. Rosie O’Donnell said it best in her rant in the movie “Beautiful Girls.” Go Youtube that sucker. Its brilliant. Essentially, it breaks down like this: bigger girls have bigger girls. Skinny minis have itty bitty titties. So… every time I put on weight, I’ll have nicer knockers. And every time I lose it, the pillows de-plump. Sigh…. What a conundrum!
Thankfully, I am blessed with a man who loves all humdingers- be they niblets, coconuts, howitzers or mounds. He just loves all breasts! (But then,he adores women in general,so boobage isn't a fixation for him.) So, despite not having the honkers I’d prefer, at least I can keep up with the love of my life on his runs (when he’s going slow  ) AND feel good about myself otherwise. He’s so good about uplifting me… so my over-the-shoulder-boulder-holder doesn't have to!! It’s wonderful to know that I’m always as sexy as ever to him …
So just in case any of you see me naked on cam or in person (  ) and I don’t appear to be quite as stacked as I do in some of our older pics, you’ll know why. Fitness has trumped fullness... Oh, and by the way, there are OODLES of names for breasts. One list I found had 262!!! And another fun fact: if you listen to Bette Midler’s “Memories,” I swear it sounds like she’s saying “mammaries.” Really… You’ll never hear it any other way now! *snicker*
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Anticipation
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Posted:Feb 1, 2013 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2013 7:36 pm
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Their hands were joined, pinky locked with pinky, and their shoulders were just close enough to touch, giving a sense of closeness to the watchful couple. They sat cuddled together at the back of the Starbucks in the comfy chairs, but pulled a little closer together.They had chosen this particular spot for many reasons, but discretion and a view of the door were the foremost. Even after years of "adventures" they still liked to keep themselves inconspicuous, but did want to see everyone entering the coffee bar as soon as possible.
He looked over at her, smiling, and twisting her finger a little tighter in his grasp. He knew that this was harder on her than it was for him, and wanted to reassure her with his touch and smile. Of the two of them, he was easily the more sociable, so in a situation like this, he felt obliged to lessen her stress whenever possible. This bemused him, since he knew that he felt almost the same level of anticipation as her, though she never really believed him when he said so.
"How are you doing Sweetie?" he asked, touching her shoulder softly.
"I'm fine", she replied, smiling back at him,"Just a little nervous maybe."
"I'm sure they'll be here soon, they said 10:30...maybe traffic..."
He leaned across between the two chairs and gave her a little peck on the cheek, feeling the heat in her skin, and let go of her pinky to take a hold of her entire hand. He gave it a quick squeeze while he watched the rising and falling of her breasts.They were perfectly shaped, with tasty dark nipples, and he relished the thrill of seeing them expand and contract within her delicate bra. There was more than just nervousness in the speed of her respiration, he guessed. There was arousal as well, or so he hoped .
They were awaiting the arrival of a couple from further South of their home. They had been chatting for several weeks now, as was their normal pace when trying to find suitable playmates. They had found that, unlike the solo days before they met, trying to find new friends that pleased both of them was more challenging. So, they agreed, a little work was required, both on their own part, and from anybody who wanted to be with them as well. Hence, the time spent getting to know this couple. The usual exchange of IMs, giving out of regular email addresses, conversations, looking at tastefully censored pics, similar camming, and then FINALLY.. today's meet. Worth the effort?? They certainly hoped so.
It would be an overstatement to say they were frustrated with the process, but the amount of false starts and disappointments brought on by Fakes, Flakes, and people who just didn't really KNOW what they were looking for had led to some exasperation. Hopefully today would be different, especially because he too was starting to get a few butterflies in his stomach. Not because of any qualms over running this risk of a letdown, but rather because of the building arousal he was feeling between his legs. He quite liked what he had seen, and heard, and read, and experienced from this latest couple, and was quite prepared to be stood up in the quest to find something real that he and his Love might share in.
"It will be what it will be", he thought," But I DO wish they'd hurry up..."
He glanced over once again at the woman he'd waited so long to find, trying to gauge where her mind was at. He knew she was as libidinous as himself, that's why they had clicked right from day one, but he also was aware that she needed to feel completely comfortable with anyone they shared some time and a bed with. She WANTED the adventure, the excitement, the passion, the sex..just didn't care for the whole "meeting strangers" procedure, the waiting and hoping. He liked the anticipation, and enjoyed the fullness in his groin that it was bringing about. He wondered if she was getting wet. He would've liked to have moved her hand into his lap, but it WAS a small town, with small town morals, and a tendency towards judgmental gossip.
"Do you think they'll be as nice in person as they've been on the IM?" he queried, trying to give her something other than the time and her jitters to consider.
" It might be hard," she smiled, "they've been so nice up until now. I DO hope they are, I'm starting to really like the idea of sharing a bed with them...especially HER!"
Well...THAT was certainly encouraging. At least her nervousness was only running along on the surface. Good to see that good old-fashioned Bisexual desire was winning out inside.
He felt a cool breeze and realized that the door was open and a couple had entered the Starbucks. Too bad, too young, he thought,regretfully, because they were a darn good looking pair. The young lady would have suited his own rather well... OUR couple will be closer to middle age he thought, resisting the urge to lift his sleeve and glance at his watch. It would just increase both of their stress levels to keep track of every passing minute. He took a peek at his Ex-Unicorn Lover and could clearly see some lust in her eyes while she considered the girl placing her drink order. He appreciated the unknowing gift that had just walked through the door. Anything to distract her from her nerves. He rubbed her thigh, just to enhance the moment. She gave out a little purr, as he felt a rewarding feeling of self-satisfaction.
He was about to give her a proverbial poke in the ribs over this when the door opened again. He felt a hole drop out of his stomach, and heard a sharp intake of breath from his partner in lust. Into the Starbucks had marched a couple generally matching the height, and age, and hair colour statistics that they had been awaiting, but attached to two of the most unattractive specimens of humankind that either of them had ever beheld. He felt his Lady squeeze his hand in a near panic induced manner, and he found that he himself was having difficulty composing himself as well.It's not that they were overweight, it's not that they had unkempt hair, it's not that they were dressed in sloppy clothes, it's not that they were talking way too loudly, it was ALL of the above, and the fact that they clearly didn't care about any one of these pertinent factors! An overwhelming urge to jump up and run seized him as they approached their table, but he wasn't sure he'd be able to pull his girlfriend out fast enough to avoid them as well...maybe just leave her behind?? The couple continued their approach, until, at the last minute, they piped up with an overly rambunctious greeting for the young couple who had entered the shop just before them. Twin exhalations of breath echoed in stereo from the relieved couple.
"Maybe we should just forget this and head home", she said to him, trying to grin, but clearly shaken. " They're way late, and I REALLY don't want to be disappointed again".
"Ok, Sweetie", he replied, a little sad over this loss as well, "I truly thought this was going to be a great situation for us, and that we'd found a nice compatible couple we could both enjoy".
" I did too Honey, but let's not let it get us down. We've met good people before, I'm sure we can again. All this anticipation has just left me a little short-fused, I'm afraid", she confessed as she gathered up their belongings.
"I was literally wet with excitement, and I could feel your erection swelling in your jeans, so I thought I could hang in there. I like meeting new people as much as you do, especially possible playmates, but I am getting tired of waiting"
He looked at her long and hard, once again entranced by her ability to surprise him. Despite knowing that she was uncomfortable in unknown social settings, or perhaps because of that knowledge, he had mistaken her appetite for playtime with one of apprehension. He felt taken down a peg, since he always considered himself both the hornier, and the more empathetic one of their pair. He gazed at her throwing her purse over her shoulder, smiling knowingly at him, with unbounded affection. How he adored this complicated woman, and how he wanted to share all of her with the world, so that they could also know the joy that he received from her.
He wrapped his arm around her slender waist, feeling both proud of her, and aroused by her.He kissed her cheek again. They smiled at each other once more, turned together towards the exit, and almost bounced off a very good looking middle aged couple who were standing by their table.
" You must be Prime and Siren", said the distinguished gentleman , reaching out his hand. His partner, a Lovely blonde with a twinkle in her eye bussed Siren's cheek as she said,
" Sorry we're so late, traffic was a nightmare".....
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Have I Told You About Siren? ;)
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Posted:Jan 29, 2013 10:17 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2013 1:49 pm
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The Lady of our pair is a unique example of what can happen when life represses you for too many years. One's sexuality, even within a vanilla marriage, is stifled, and the passion that simmers just beneath the skin percolates along, building, and growing, until eventually it finds a means to escape.
Siren found herself in that position, but got herself free, with a resultant explosion of sexuality, exploration, discovery, and desire. And I, for one, am extremely glad that she did! There's something sweetly enhanced in a slut who never went through the cynicism-inducing years of dating, fumbling, rejection, protection, and eventual misanthropy. Would that more of us were able to maintain that fresh-bloomed optimism, the naivety that makes the world seem a better place, no matter what your real situation might be.
So my own luck had to be on a massive upswing when I came in contact with my Lovely Siren. Amazing what one can find on a sex site, especially when not looking particularly hard. Even though we do have a shared interest in our similar religious viewpoint, there's still a LOT to be said about the concept of Serendipity, or even Karma. Right place at the right time seems to be something we've all experienced, and that was certainly true for me....And it was indeed one of those wonderful moments that we all long for, when EVERYthing just seems to happen with a purpose, all leading towards a set of circumstances that your Grandchildren would find too far-fetched to be believable. ( IF you ever dared to tell them the EXACT details). Because of a meeting with someone I probably didn't click particularly well with, I was introduced to the website where I would eventually begin a discussion on music with a Lady much younger than myself, with a profile that looked like it held very little to match the parameters I had set out for finding a mate...
And the rest, as they say, is history. NOW, I am blessed with a partner who is perpetually sunny, who constantly sees the positive in everyone, who supports me in all my vanilla efforts, who matches my love for exercise, who helps me manage my rather messy abode, and who is SO perfect for me in every way that I am constantly amazed at my good fortune in finding her.
Oh, and did I mention sexy as Hell? That repression mentioned earlier served as a breeding ground for a libido as large as a football field, while still allowing her natural tendency towards subservience to remain intact.( for ME...) And the exploration that occurred once the bonds that held her down were released merely reinforced the bisexuality that had been an inner part of Siren since the day she was born. So, as well as having someone in my life who takes care of me in day to day matters, I ALSO have someone willing to do pretty much ANYthing to please herself and her Man,up to, and including, sharing me with other Ladies. Man! I have SUCH a tough life!!! *wink!*
But, as those of you who are blessed to share time with a Sub are aware, with that uncompromising fidelity, comes a great responsibility. Though she might do whatever I request, my Love for Siren is such that I would and could never ask her to do anything that wouldn't giver her as much pleasure as it gives to me. Hence our rather particular principles for playtime with friends. Both of us share a hunger for the Ladies, but we'll also delve into couple play IF the right people present themselves. But despite her obsequiousness, I would never ask Siren to "Take One For The Team" . With us, it's evolved into a particular need for a four way connection. Without that, I have no desire to see Siren in a sensual situation. And of course, with each of us having our particular likes and dislikes, that becomes a chore, but one we're both willing to undertake, because we DO like to play....Just don't look to have me push the Love of my Life into something unpalatable because I'd like some fresh ass....
Having said all that, you REALLY should come say HI sometime when we're on Cam or IM. Siren is incredibly sociable ( as long as you remember you manners...) and she thoroughly enjoys good conversation with good people. You have to decide if you're good people, we can't do everything!! Having spent so many years keeping both her sexuality AND her bisexuality submerged, she now enjoys free-flowing discussions on all of those subjects with any and all ( as long as they remember their manners! ) Both of us are communicators, poets, writers { Oh Really? }so it's a great delight for us to have those types of chats with anyone, no matter where it might end up. If knowledge is power, sexual knowledge can only power a more complete and fulfilling experience the next time one does decide to share your flesh.
But Please!! If you are going to chat with us, DO make the time to have a good conversation. One-liners and here and then not here just doesn't lend itself to a good time for Ms. Siren. She likes to talk, Not mutter and run.
So....there you are, a bit about the woman of my dreams.Beautiful, Sensual, Caring, Affectionate,Giving, Sexual... I've probably done her a great disservice by writing this in a free-flowing manner, and should have spent far more time in effusive praise, but Believe me when I say to you Ladies and Couples, you would do very well to share some time with her, either in a sociable or sexual situation ( Though you'll be stuck with me at the same time...LOL ) It's not the easiest thing to accomplish, because just like everyone here on Senior Sizzle she and I have standards and thirsts that we won't deviate from, but nonetheless, IF the right set of circumstances come along, there will be pleasure enough for all. And at the very least, because she lived in her vanilla shell for so very long, The Lovely Siren understands that it's all about finding one's true place in life, so she puts herself out there on the net to give people at least a chance to see who she is. If you like her anywhere near as much as I do, we'll all have a fine commonality to grow our friendship from...
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Aahhh, That Girl-Girl Action....
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Posted:Jan 28, 2013 11:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2013 12:39 pm
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...or rather, INTERaction. It's been a little while since I, Siren, posted anything so I thought I'd weigh in on a matter of particular interest to me: girl-girl relations. Bi-secting this subject, because I'm a bi-sexual (har har, bad pun), into IN and OUT of bed....
IN the Bedroom:
I am fully bisexual... so when we're perusing couples' profiles, we're interested in ones that, at minimum, have a bi-curious F in them. For me, I'd ideally like that curiosity to involve ALL aspects of F/F play- however I DO understand and appreciate the apprehension one could feel when beginning to explore your own gender. Within that apprehension, one could even be unsure of what your own particular tastes might be. So, it's not like I would expect a woman to instantaneously drop to her knees to dive into my private parts! {not that I'd mind  } What I'm getting at here is that I know it can be intimidating to be new and unsure of not only what you want for yourself, but what you think others might want from you. So I wouldn't mind taking it slow, helping you figure out what floats your boat... That being said, I know what floats MY boat, and I know I won't be happy without SOME kind of reciprocal attention- not necessarily any specific act, but a general exchange of affection between the two women. Ask me about having been the odd gal out sometime... The key to not having an awkward situation like that develop is going to be for us women to be open and talk about what we both like, and what we're both interested in experiencing. Which brings me to....
OUT of the Bedroom:
Now, we GET that we're not the norm when it comes to our preferences- we're not looking for a "hey lets meet to fuck" kind of experience. We seek a slower, and to us, more sensual adventure. Being a woman, I think it's slightly more important to appeal to my whole being, than it might be for a man (though it is important to Prime as well). That concept of turning on my mind, to arouse my body is a true reality for me. I'm far more likely to want to get into bed with someone if they've spent some time wooing me. If I feel someone is only interested in getting into my underwear, I'm WAY less likely to drop my panties.
We believe the easiest way to develop the rapport we seek is to chat with us- either here or on our personal IMs. We have separate IMs to allow everyone the best chance possible of connecting (conference IMs are just about as close to in-person chatting as you can get). As we've said on many occasions, we're not looking to become your new BFF, or move into the spare room! But we'd like a sort of friendship, to feel comfortable in your presence. Life being what it is, logistics dictate that its unlikely we're going to be getting together for coffee dates every week til all the bases have been covered. SO.... doesn't it make logical sense to spend a modicum of time on IM to accomplish this getting-to-know-you phase? Now, I know people are busy... but if you're truly looking for a great encounter, wouldn't it behoove you to MAKE some time? And frankly, I'm just as busy as the rest of you women- I manage the same family, friends, work, school, etc., then throw in 1 or 2 hours of working out 5 days a week. I understand busy. However, being that I am fully involved in our adventure seeking, I make time to be available when it seems we have a possible connection developing. I would be ecstatic if the woman in the other couple showed as much interest in connecting with me, as I have with her! Let us get to know each other, at a pace that is comfortable for all. Talking with the male half of the couple is all fine and good, but I need some interaction with the woman as well! In fact, if we only talk to the guy, its very unlikely anything more will come of it.
So, after all of that, if you think we're too much work, we can appreciate that, and wish you all the best in finding exactly what you seek. If, on the other hand, the above sounds reasonable... well, what are you waiting for- come find us on IM!!
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The Whole "Friend Invite" Issue
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Posted:Jan 25, 2013 10:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2013 12:48 pm
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Hmmm.....Maybe I'll try to do THIS particular blog in Less than a 1,000,000,000 words, just as an exercise in self-discipline ( beats the heck out of self-flagellating....)
Sooooo.....Here's the thing. Very often, especially after the two of us have shared a romp on cam, people send us "Friend Requests". Just so we don't offend ANYone ( something we always try not to do...), we'd like to let everyone know our personal view on this.
It would be very rare for us to accept friend requests from people we haven't at the least spent some time chatting with. For us, this whole sexual adventure is based on the premise of developing friendships with people who MAY become our playmates. Therefore, we like to have spent some time getting to know people before we metaphorically invite them into our home. Even in cases where some small contact has been established, we prefer to see where things are going before accepting new "friends". Sadly, there are some bad people in the world, not just here on Senior Sizzle, but throughout the entire virtual universe. Unfortunately, caution is a requirement online these days.
While that may remove some of the spontaneity from our fun, that's the policy we've chosen to maintain. In a classic case of "better safe than sorry" it just seems to be the wisest course. Now having said all that, we DO like to find new people to chat-email-cam-know- and possibly even meet. That's why we've consistently said that we're open to new connections,and that's as true as it ever has been. But, as standard members here, we'd need YOU to make the first move; and views,and flirts, and hotlisting just doesn't do anything to move us any closer to ACTUAL contact. A good email from any of you with Gold or Silver Balls is always a far better place to begin to establish the rapport necessary to for any intimate relationships to develop.
Wheeeew! Wonder what the word count on THIS one was...
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Numbers And Red X's
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Posted:Jan 16, 2013 8:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2013 10:43 am
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One can be constantly baffled by the fuzziness of the standards that folk on sex sites use to determine potential friends. Our most common "Red X's", the things which seem to displease others about us, are Distance and Age. Occasionally, the Smoking issue gets us X'd, but we're not taking up that particular bad habit just for a date or two. And we giggle like schoolgirls ( Ooops! My feminine side coming out! ) when we find ourselves X'd and rejected because of Body Type. Since we're both listed as "athletic" { and actually ARE...}, are we being refused because we're in shape? Should we spend Less time in the gym in order to try to fit in...? What are these people looking for? It can be a tad confusing.
By far and away, we see Distance and Age Red X'd on the profiles we glance at. Distance seems like a standard that's an either you are or you are not. Some people just want to have their playmates close at hand, within arm's reach as it were. A quick phone call, plans made, and instant gratification is literally around the corner. Or you're not. Fair deal, that's a relatively non-contentious issue.
But OH! How we wonder {and sometimes simmer}, over some of those other Red X's! Of course we realize that these are standards that everyone has a right to impose, this isn't Kindergarten, where EVERYone has the "right to play". Nobody, least of all your humble sirenprime, should ever dispute anyone's right to set their own criterion for playtime. We mentally set parameters ourselves, including age itself on occasion. ( Siren is a mere 37; when people in their 70`s look at us, it DOES give us pause...) No, where the confusion sets in, is when we can`t tell whether we`re being X'd out of contention because I'm too old, or she's too young, too friendly or not friendly enough, too skinny, or not buff enough...
We strive to remain as open minded as possible when we put aside some time to seriously view profiles we might be interested in. With that in mind, we have left OUR benchmarks somewhat loose. We can find ourselves viewing 20 somethings,or 60 somethings, lean and muscular people, or curvy and well-padded, single females or couples, (married or committed),tall or short, well educated or street smart. To be frank, we look at just about anybody who's within a days drive {or so} who might pique our interest. We like to READ the profiles ( not so easy since we went standard, but we make the effort ) and then, IF the profile is interesting enough, give them a smile or wave in the hopes that some connection might be established. In fact, we'll often times give someone a smile, just to show we liked what they had to SAY, not necessarily because we think we're a perfect match. But, one never knows... So...with such an abundance of the public to be interested in, we find ourselves thoroughly entranced at what might come from these smiles, only to notice upon reflection that we have a Red X in the age box, or some other, near the bottom of the profile. And we often, in the interest of not offending someone with no interest in US, forgo the sending of a smile. Which might be a massive tragedy for all concerned.
Because it's been our experience here on Senior Sizzle that finding people that one clicks with can be far more daunting than we presumed when first filling out our profile. As a reasonably nice looking,in shape, well maintained, thoughtful and considerate couple ( did I mention modest?? )we THOUGHT we'd have an plethora of interested parties from which to gather a coterie of confidants. While we have had the good fortune to make some very solid friendships, getting to that point proved a bit more frustrating than we'd imagined. And we believe a large amount of that frustration stems from having so many of our community set their criteria too narrowly. And we find that sad.
We're probably screaming into the face of a hurricane, and we don't actually expect that anything will change in this regard,since people are creatures of habit, who like what they like, and enjoy doing things in the way they've always done them. We just feel drawn to express an opinion based upon our experiences here. And that is; wouldn't all of our pursuits of fun be so much more exhilarating if we waited til AFTER we looked at a profile to judge it's suitability, rather than by a predetermined set of numbers? We're not suggesting that anyone on Senior Sizzle or elsewhere needs to allow just any and all into their actual bedrooms, but shouldn't we be freer with our standards than to arbitrarily pick a number, and put aside anyone beyond that in either direction without first having a look at WHO they are?? As we've said in the past, we believe that people who follow the "Lifestyle" should be the most open and non-judgmental society on the planet. We've already removed ourselves from the general public with our sexual choices, who are we then to judge others only by some random numbers? Especially when one's numbers range leave a mixed age couple such as ourselves unsure as to whether we`re too old or too young. Judgmental, AND perplexing!! *grin*
In a perfect world, all we'd want to see would be green checks in all the boxes at the bottom of profiles, rather than Red X`s. People could then make their friendship choices based on the quality of a person or person's character, rather than the year in which they were born, or the girth of their waist. Like shoe sizes, they`re all just numbers; the smart consumer actually tries things on to see how they fit, rather than only buying by a number on a box.
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Hard To Feel Sexy When....
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Posted:Jan 6, 2013 9:18 am
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2013 5:55 pm
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Well, Damn winter anyway! As the temperatures decrease, and the precipitation increases ( at least here in the Pacific NorthWest { or as we Non-American people prefer to refer to it; The Wet West Coast }), so too does the likelihood of illness and injury. Even when one is as health conscious and oriented as the two of us are, there still remains the greatest of possibilities of being laid low by either some strain or sprain. Or, worse still,by some microscopic bug which crawled inside you after you scratched your nose a mere second after releasing an infected door knob in a mall.Damn that WalMart cleaning staff too! Where were they in our hour of need??
While I'm sure that all of this illness and injury is hard on everyone who's forced to endure it, can I make a special note of the heartache it brings to lascivious dogs such as ourselves? The passion remains, the desire is as strong, the interest is as pressing...but who, in Heaven's name would feel like pursuing these things when they feel like a soggy dishrag that's been wiped over too many counter-tops?? Would one even dare to try to make new friends when they know they'll have to hobble into the coffee shop due to the sprained knee that slipping on icy steps has left them with? Will the initial meeting go as smoothly when your conversation is all but unintelligible because of the cement-like blockage in your nose?? Will you be able to truly learn about your new prospective playmates when you need to excuse yourself every ten minutes or so to rush off to the overcrowded and under-sanitised Starbucks washroom?? You might just return to some empty chairs and scattered paper cups after the fifth trip....
No, this time of year is hard on the tramps and trollops who populate our little community. Even when one pulls back a little, it still remains difficult to seek out new friends for fun. Siren & I have always enjoyed chatting with people while on cam, finding that it's a great ice-breaker, and certainly a good place to start off a potential relationship with. ( yup, it's ALL a relationship of one sort or another...)However....the whole cam thing just seems to lose it's sensual effect when the video is littered with pill-boxes, medicine jars, and scattered Kleenex tissues. There is just NOthing sexy about being sick, no matter how much appetite remains within the convalescent...
So....in case it hasn't yet occurred to you... we're under the weather. It IS hard, because as much as we remain Hounds ( in the most positive sense! ) we just can't REALLY get too worked up about anything "interesting" these days. We still peruse our "views", still leave the IM up when we're around, and ( as Standards ) are of course happy to ANSWER our emails when we RECEIVE them, but for the most part, we're down, we're in hibernation. However...just like Yogi The Bear And BooBoo, we CAN assure you, that when we DO awaken from our long winter nap, we'll be overcome with a hunger that might be more insatiable than it was going in. So, if you consider yourselves the carnal equivalent of a Picnic-Basket, Beware!... come Springtime, we'll be looking for YOU!!
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Encounter Etiquette ( Or... May I See Your Breasts,... PLEASE?...)
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Posted:Dec 28, 2012 8:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2012 1:06 pm
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Well....We have an exciting weekend planned, we're meeting up with a couple who we've been chatting with for a bit, our first face to face with them. As those of you who've read ANYthing posted by us on here might surmise, we're not heading out to play, but rather, just a coffee meet, at a local Starbucks actually. { Supporting the Corporate Monster, even when trying to get lucky...} In our case, we are adamant that there must be a connection before play, so a meeting like this is mandatory for our needs. As always with these sorts of things, we're quite excited by the prospect of saying hello to new friends, and are of course, a little bit anxious over the circumstances. { Ummm....we PRESUME everyone gets at least a little anxious about a new meeting...} Anticipation is the BEST of aphrodisiacs, even when served with a vanilla topping.
But here's the thing...just what is the accepted protocol for a meeting such as this? As people who tend to over-analyze just about every circumstance in our lives,{ Hey! We blog! Couldn't you tell we over-think things?? } we ARE comfortable with the way we've done things in the past, but remain curious as to how others carry out these rather important stepping stones towards sensual sybaritism. For instance...show up early to get ourselves comfortable, or later in order to see what's what? Kiss on the cheek for the initial greeting, or handshake? Hugs all around, or aloof hello's. Sit both of us to one side of the table, or mix up the couples randomly? Chatter on about vanilla subjects, or get down and dirty immediately? Have a set departure time in one's head, or let the conversation dictate the longevity?
Now, we ARE aware that all of this is probably determined on a case by case basis,as no two meetings have ever gone the same for us, and probably never will. In fact, we've pretty much done the same thing every time we've gotten together with any new prospective playmates, and are very pleased with the results of those actions so far. This is more of a curiosity indulgence than an advice request.{ Though...if we were to see something that sounded really cool, we would probably pinch it for our own use...} We've just always wondered about the circumstances of the other people here on Senior Sizzle, and other sex sites. Swingers are a different breed, after all, with their own peculiarities. Are most of them so over-powerfully confident, that none of this is really a concern? Are they all SO experienced in these sorts of things that they no longer feel any of the nervousness that we do? Do any of them still feel the same fluttery feelings about such meetings as us, or are we the exceptions? Do they have these quasi-vanilla meets at all,or do most just jump into the sack and have done with it...?
What about appearances? For our part, we don't spend a ton of time trying to gussy ourselves up for these rendezvous'. We prefer a "what you see, is what you get " attitude. Either you like us as we are, or you don't like us at all....Ok, we'll shave, comb our hair, and try to look presentable, but only insofar as we would for any public outing. We prefer to let our new friends see the "real" us, warts and all. { NO, we don't really have warts..a few blemishes maybe, but no warts! } But again, curiosity begs the question, what's everyone else doing? Fresh haircut? New makeup? Wardrobe designed to thrill, or is subtlety the word? Does ANYone still polish their shoes??? Can it end up like the dance you attend in your best new duds, while everyone else is in jeans and t-shirts?
Like all things "Lifestyle", we're bemused by the intricacies of these dynamics, and are always quizzical about how other folk are dealing with the same questions as we are. So please feel free to weigh in on this, we really are intrigued. No matter what your circumstances are, it'll be interesting in the extreme to hear some different points of view. And perhaps we'll find out that WE've been doing it ALL wrong all this time, and need to refresh our roundtable regimen. Don't think so,as we've always wanted to be Just Us, but one never can tell what wisdom is waiting right around the corner at the next blog comment....
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Manners From Our Perspective.
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Posted:Dec 20, 2012 8:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2012 9:30 pm
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So, we're sitting around this morning, perusing the profiles as we like to do, the IM up, just in case any ladies or couples in the local area felt like chatting, and we are struck once again by a certain detail endemic to sex sites. They're not the best place to inhabit if you're looking for good manners.
With us, it begins from the perpetual one-liners from single men on the IM. Now....we went back to look, and will admit that if one is a standard, and might therefore only be able to have a tiny peek into our profile, then we MAY not have left the "NO Single Men" caveat in plain enough view. But still, it doesn't take too much experience on a sex site to KNOW that couples generally need to be approached by single men with a modicum of propriety. So, we're baffled by the number of "wanna Fuck tonight?" messages we still receive. Does that EVER really work?. I suppose it must, perhaps by dint of sheer numbers and odds, but it still rankles us nonetheless. We might JUST be elitist snobs, but wouldn't life be SO much easier if one did a tiny bit of research to see if the people receiving your IM actually had ANY interest in replying to you?
Beyond the IM, there`s the incoming emails. Similar in nature to the IM irritant, is the one-liner email. "Nice bums", while certainly a true statement of the facts, does little to inform us of the nature of your desires. "Local Guy Looking To Fuck"only reinforces the fact that you didn't take the time or effort to READ our profile. And the mysterious "Hi, we th fh wled...", just leaves us puzzled and confused.... Again, PLEASE believe us, we are NOT so full of ourselves as to be offended by ANY interest. We appreciate all of it, we'd just like to feel it's directed at US, not just to any and all profiles within a certain mileage indicator on your cupid settings. Because we DO value each and every person who shows a genuine interest in us, we WILL reply to any and all...who have SOMEthing to say.Respect begets respect, regardless of gender. Even in the case of Single Men, if you show us you actually thought about why we might be a good match, we'll do the same in return, even if it's just to let you know that we disagree.
As for the comments while we`re on cam, well, the lovely Siren has already blogged extensively about that. But, we'll reiterate one thing. Say something stupid and you WILL get banned. ( Up to 632 the last time we checked the list....) We're still bewildered about what people actually get out of asking us if we've been fucking the lately, but to each their own, I suppose. We don't even have a dog! But, just as they are free to direct rude comments at us, we feel no compunction in exercising our freedom to ban them as well. We actually do get on cam to encourage open interaction, especially locally, but only in a respectful fashion.
And finally, in this discussion of manners on a sex site, could ANYthing be more discourteous than leaving a conversation mid-sentence, with no reference to the rather pertinent fact that you're gone?? We get that not everyone clicks, either right away, or even after some effort has been attempted. And, we even acknowledge that some folk MAY not find our countenances pleasing after we forward them a pic ( on those RARE occasions when we do...). But REALLY??? Just do the IM equivalent of hanging up on someone? No wait, at least when someone hangs up on you, there`s a click to let you know. With the IM, one just sits and waits..and waits...and wonders...and waits...and Finally, just has to accept that the conversation is over. We urge you to accept our word for this when we say, if we are rejected ( as EVERYone is at some point ) we do not weep, gnash our teeth, rend our clothes, or climb to the top of the nearest bridge tower. We accept it as part of the status quo of "dating"on a sex site, and move on. BUT...we WOULD like to be told that such is the case. We're not about to badger you with questions about the why's, we'd JUST like to be told, "Thanks , But No Thanks", so we can get on with our search. To the best of our recollection, we haven't yelled at anyone yet for not having an overwhelming desire for us. It's a part of the process....some like us, some don't. But in our case , at least, we try to gently inform those people who don't ring our bells of this fact. We don't simply stop talking and hope they go away. Which is doubly ironic, since in many cases, it was that other party that instigated the conversation in the first place.
Anyway, that's a few things we needed to get off our chests ( Her shapely one, mine hairy...) As in all of these blogs, we hope we didn't come off as sounding TOO pompous and self-centered. We DO like meeting and chatting with people on Senior Sizzle,and we'd surely like for it to a pleasant experience for all concerned. And as my Mamma always told me, "If you don't speak up, don't expect to get what you want". So now at least, we've taken care of that, can we expect NOthing but polite and charming interactions from this point forward??
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But....Will We LIKE Each Other ??
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Posted:Dec 19, 2012 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2013 1:00 am
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In the course of musing about all the things that go on while choosing potential playmates, one particular item keeps recurring. The Connection....OR, as we will often times refer to it, while declining the opportunity to send face pics out after ten seconds of IM, Some Kind Of Rapport. You see, we just don't feel the need to involve ourselves with every person who takes the time to contact us. ( Though we do ALWAYS appreciate the interest ) Sometimes it's just too obviously a fake, sometimes it's just too obviously someone we have no interest in, and sometimes it's just too obviously someone fishing for pics. We don't feel the need to pander to any of the above people. In our case, we prefer a much more gradual progression, from IM, to email,to cam-chats, to long conversations, to phone calls, to coffee dates, to dinners, to flirts and feels, and finally, IF the spark is there, to a tangle of bodies on a bed.
During the course of ALL of that, we, and we hope you as well, are attempting to assess whether or not there is more involved in this process than just a lust for attractive bodies, OR a need for physical gratification. Sure, we ALL get horny. Why else would we find ourselves here? I daresay that the people on Senior Sizzle are among the most advanced possessors of magnified libidos on the continent, if not the globe. We all want to get off, one way or the other. But, to do so with someone you have no fondness for, somehow strikes the two of us as duplicitous. In short, it could be referred to as using someone, and we neither want to do that to anyone, nor have it conferred upon ourselves. In our minds, the more pleasant alternative would be for four people to genuinely care for, and about each other, and the satisfaction they all might accrue from that four-way interaction.
But, having said all of that, how easy is it to attain that multiple person passion? Our experience so far has suggested that it's not anywhere as easy as we might've hoped for. Age, habits,body types,hair,interests,faces,time,locations,, morals,and a myriad of other factors go into developing an intimate friendship, and for all those factors and more to be cross-referenced in a quadruple interplay sometimes seems too large a barrier to overcome. BUT...we have done it on occasion, so we DO know it's not impossible. It just takes a bit of work. And time. And patience. And we believe, the reward justifies the effort. Let's just use one scenario of an example of how that bonanza might be felt....
How many of us have finished an evening of play, only to be looking around for the speediest of exit plans, because , in the end, you're actually not that fond of the person(s) you just had your romp with? Not that unthinkable a story is it?? Been there, done that?? Instead, imagine the warmth of four fully satiated nude bodies, still pressed together, hands and lips still caressing the other partners in one's revelry...No rush to disengage each other from the sweaty circle, no need to grab for extraneous clothing, no sense of urgency to depart....but rather, the calming and soothing sense of being entwined in the limbs of people who care about and for you, people who want the things that you want, people who feel the need to hold you near, and people who desire to be WITH you, not just to have your bodies as a vessel for their pleasure.
We KNOW which one of these ideas is closer to our ideal, and will continue to seek it out with all the appetite of a pair of lascivious zealots. And if we never find this kind of attachment from our prospective promiscuous peers again, so be it. Better indeed to go without, than to settle for something less than what we truly desire. There are no second bests in our delightful deviations, only first-class experiences shared by both of us, and the people who connect with us enough to intermesh their friendship and desires with our own.
Make the effort, if this sounds like something that would be pleasing to you, it WILL be it's own reward!
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Posted:Dec 9, 2012 1:10 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2012 9:04 pm
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There's a wonderful Simon & Garfunkel song that starts off with:
"Why don't you write me, I'm out in the jungle, I'm hungry to hear you
Send me a card, I am waiting so hard to be near you!"
What an incredibly appropriate song for people like us with profiles on Senior Sizzle! ( Especially the "so hard" part....) We're not sure just how well our peers here on the site are doing in the communication department, but we could sure use a little bit more of the old back and forth in our lives. NOT that we are desperate for conversation overall, we have family, friends, parents, , jobs and hobby's that allow for plenty of idle chit-chat. No, getting into a good chin-wag with any of those people can, and does satisfy us on a vanilla perspective. What we're talking about here are exchanges with people who have more of a multidimensional persuasion to their lives. In short, the community of potential playmates in the swinging world.
As anyone who's read our profile, looked at any of our previous blogs, or listened to what we have to say while on cam, can see, the whole idea of playing, for us, is based on the concept of developing a fairly deep-seated rapport, and then seeing where things might follow from there. To be frank, the idea of a one-night-stand is so completely foreign to our concept of quality playtime, that it seems almost repugnant. ( NO judgement, just our view of things...) To Siren and myself, it has always been more about allowing fresh and different types of people to join us in sensual adventures, and by doing so, hopefully enhancing the lives of everyone involved in a meaningful way. Too hoity-toity?? We don't think so, and it is OUR profile....
Of course, for that to happen, or even to develop a slightly more platonic version of the same notion, there has to be some initial contact, and that's where we are left wanting. You see, we're actually a very conversational couple. We like to talk.( Couldn't you guess?? )But beyond that, we like to listen, we like to explore, we like to examine, we like to review, we like to debate, we like to seduce, we like to be beguiled,we like to analyze, we like to laugh. We can, and have, had several discussions with several different folk about a wide variety of topics here on Senior Sizzle, both vanilla and sexual. But we can always use more. Call us greedy, but we just feel that one can never have enough input from the like-minded humanity that makes up the greater world of swingers. And of course, we do hope that in the course of developing these interactions, we might find a few gems that are worthy of mining, the better to enable us to choose who and when we might become playmates.
We're pretty open to just about anyone who cares to contact us, though of course, we have our own preferences. Chatting with us while we are on cam is our favorite ( though we like you to be on cam as well for that to work best! )interacting with our blog a close second,and emails a more time consuming, but probably the best long-term option. We have a desire for Ladies and Couples mostly, and will clearly give them precedence.A GENTLEMAN might be able to bemuse us, but the likelihood of it going any further than conversation WILL be slim. BUT....we are just talking about some emails here, not a lifetime commitment. And if someone contacts us and we don't feel that there's any point in carrying on a further dialogue, we'll probably just say so, though obviously, sometimes we'll just ignore the more ignorant corespondents.For us, it's all about engaging in some conversation with people who think the same way as we do, AND trying to get to know people who we MIGHT want to play with... All we really ask for in this matter is;
Be real ( we'll check! )
Be polite
Be prepared to engage in more than one-liners
Be Honest ( See-Be real above, but more-so )
Have SOMEthing to say
Be prepared for the chat to remain just chat
Do not ask deeply personal questions ( at first )
Do NOT seek the individual attention of either of us
Do NOT expect us to drop everything, just to talk you
Beyond all of that, the floor is open. Of course, if you're a standard member like we are, all of this might just remain moot, so I guess we're kind of talking to the Gold & Silver Balls in this matter.They're the only ones who can initiate the sort of interaction we're trying to elicit. Ah well, we're not snobs, we'll talk to anybody!
See you all in the ether....
Prime & Siren
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Why We Went Standard....
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Posted:Nov 17, 2012 5:04 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2012 10:03 pm
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Well, it was all a matter of numbers. We didn't feel , for instance, that enough people were giving us credit for having a lovely YOUNG Lady as part of our pair. We were viewed, over and over, both while on cam, and on the IM, by people old enough to be my parents, and her grandparents. And, as we stated in a previous blog,while we have no particular bias about anyone's age, neither were we prepared to limit ourselves to people in the older demographic. Especially since so many people on the downhill side of 50 choose NOT to have any kind of pic available, and a similar lack of information on their profile. While I too ( me being Prime ) am beyond the half-century mark, I LOVE to post pics of myself. Mostly because my vanity continues to convince me that I look OK for my chronological count...
As well as the age factor, we also felt that the number of Ladies viewing Siren as a potential playmate were way under where they might be. When we got into this wondrous adventure we all call swinging, it was MOSTLY to allow Ms. Siren to enjoy a taste of the type of flesh she hungers for. At first, like everybody else and their on here, we went searching for the Single Lady. Good luck with that! We KNOW they're out there ( Siren WAS one herself ) but they are rarer than hen's teeth, and we found that they were usually way above the 2 point difference rule ( fodder for yet another blog right there...)compared to us. We're OK looking, but some of those Unicorns are just stunning!! My male model days are long past me ( Kidding! )and though Siren is the most beautiful woman in the world to my eyes, we both admit to having incidental flaws that keep us from scoring a perfect ten on the looks department. Yup, we get pimples, we have hair in funny places, we see bulges in spots we'd prefer to keep flat, and our teeth look like they belong in people our age. OK? Now that I've scared EVERYbody away from ever contacting us, I'll continue. Despite all of that, we still felt that we were worthy enough of a more frequent viewing by the fairer sex, and thought that the tenor of our profile was too restrictive to entice more looks. Whatever the case, a change of direction seemed in order.
So......We let this profile wither on the vine as it were, allowed the paid membership to lapse. We WERE going to go looking for other websites to plant our sexual flag on, but decided, in the end, to create a new profile here, listing ourselves as a 37F instead of a 56C. Go look, you'll find us...
And so far so good, things do seem to have taken a jump into warmer waters. We've had lots , and LOTS more interactions with more appropriate profiles over there. Not to say that we don't still have issues; people with Gold Balls who can't , or won't read, and of course the ubiquitous Single Males, who simply don't care to read, if it says Female, they'll say Hi. But, by and large, we're pretty happy with the new us. As before, we have NO intention of jumping into bed with everyone who contacts us immediately, ( or ever, in most cases...) but the options are better suited to our needs now, and we've even found a few friends who are OK with the possibility of remaining just that. And we REALLY like that! Cause who doesn't like more friends??
But. we'll continue to check this profile out daily ( or so ), we have friends we don't want to lose over here too, and besides, we have a soft spot in our heads for sirenprime. It was our first taste of adventure TOGETHER, and that will always leave it special for the two of us. We're sentimental you see, that's why we look for some kind of romance in our sensual connections. Otherwise, you're not stretching your emotions, you're just stretching your genitals, and that is NOT what either of our profiles is ever going to be about.
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A Word to the Fellas...
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Posted:Oct 25, 2012 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 10:09 pm
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A brief suggestion about your briefs: Don't stick your junk out of them. Seriously. We know you think its sexy to hang your rod out of the pee hole, but its not. Really. Unless you are hung like a , it only makes you look puny (we know how you love that). And if you ARE a , well, it just looks like dick. I can't think of ANY woman who ever saw that and said "mmm now THAT is what I want." If you're going to haul it out, do it right. After all, you don't see us gals sticking just our lady lips out of a slit in our undies. Though, come to think of it, y'all might actually like that. Ugh. I foresee a new line of lingerie... Oh and while I am at it please, PLEASE take off your frickin' socks when you're getting busy! Have you ever seen a woman with socks on in the videos? Ya, not so much. I swear it is SO unsexy. Do yourselves a favor: when you strip, do it all the way. K? Think: "What would Channing Tatum do?"
Hm... come to think of it, maybe I wouldn't mind Channing Tatum's dick hanging out of his pants... I think we should rent Magic Mike... 
Siren
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