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Why We Went Standard....  

sirenprime 68M/49F  
97 posts
11/17/2012 5:04 pm
Why We Went Standard....


Well, it was all a matter of numbers. We didn't feel , for instance, that enough people were giving us credit for having a lovely YOUNG Lady as part of our pair. We were viewed, over and over, both while on cam, and on the IM, by people old enough to be my parents, and her grandparents. And, as we stated in a previous blog,while we have no particular bias about anyone's age, neither were we prepared to limit ourselves to people in the older demographic. Especially since so many people on the downhill side of 50 choose NOT to have any kind of pic available, and a similar lack of information on their profile. While I too ( me being Prime ) am beyond the half-century mark, I LOVE to post pics of myself. Mostly because my vanity continues to convince me that I look OK for my chronological count...
As well as the age factor, we also felt that the number of Ladies viewing Siren as a potential playmate were way under where they might be. When we got into this wondrous adventure we all call swinging, it was MOSTLY to allow Ms. Siren to enjoy a taste of the type of flesh she hungers for. At first, like everybody else and their on here, we went searching for the Single Lady. Good luck with that! We KNOW they're out there ( Siren WAS one herself ) but they are rarer than hen's teeth, and we found that they were usually way above the 2 point difference rule ( fodder for yet another blog right there...)compared to us. We're OK looking, but some of those Unicorns are just stunning!! My male model days are long past me ( Kidding! )and though Siren is the most beautiful woman in the world to my eyes, we both admit to having incidental flaws that keep us from scoring a perfect ten on the looks department. Yup, we get pimples, we have hair in funny places, we see bulges in spots we'd prefer to keep flat, and our teeth look like they belong in people our age. OK? Now that I've scared EVERYbody away from ever contacting us, I'll continue. Despite all of that, we still felt that we were worthy enough of a more frequent viewing by the fairer sex, and thought that the tenor of our profile was too restrictive to entice more looks. Whatever the case, a change of direction seemed in order.
So......We let this profile wither on the vine as it were, allowed the paid membership to lapse. We WERE going to go looking for other websites to plant our sexual flag on, but decided, in the end, to create a new profile here, listing ourselves as a 37F instead of a 56C. Go look, you'll find us...
And so far so good, things do seem to have taken a jump into warmer waters. We've had lots , and LOTS more interactions with more appropriate profiles over there. Not to say that we don't still have issues; people with Gold Balls who can't , or won't read, and of course the ubiquitous Single Males, who simply don't care to read, if it says Female, they'll say Hi. But, by and large, we're pretty happy with the new us. As before, we have NO intention of jumping into bed with everyone who contacts us immediately, ( or ever, in most cases...) but the options are better suited to our needs now, and we've even found a few friends who are OK with the possibility of remaining just that. And we REALLY like that! Cause who doesn't like more friends??
But. we'll continue to check this profile out daily ( or so ), we have friends we don't want to lose over here too, and besides, we have a soft spot in our heads for sirenprime. It was our first taste of adventure TOGETHER, and that will always leave it special for the two of us. We're sentimental you see, that's why we look for some kind of romance in our sensual connections. Otherwise, you're not stretching your emotions, you're just stretching your genitals, and that is NOT what either of our profiles is ever going to be about.

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