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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.

Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.

My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.



Enjoy!

Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.

Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date

And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient

Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b

Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.

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House Cleaning Day...
Posted:Feb 22, 2009 6:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2010 3:04 pm
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Did some house cleaning on our friends list today. With only a couple of exceptions... those people who are not at least within an adjoining state or haven't been on within 3 months were removed.

We also have two categories... the people Carol has been with and everyone else. At some point... people who are in our friends list that she hasn't met... will be gone also.
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Saturday Morning Again!
Posted:Feb 14, 2009 4:15 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2009 2:50 pm
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My how I love the weekends...

Got family again this weekend. Presidents Day Monday so for some it is a 3 day weekend. So, no playtime till next week.

Carol managed to play catch-up a little over the last week. She had an overnight here at the house with one of her most regular partners. First time this year with him however. Due to his availability and the fact that she has been fucking him since 2003... well, he will certainly be on the list many times this year.

Was looking over the list... thus far this year she has been with five different guys. Three of those encounters over over the last 7 days.

Two of them were first encounters. Of those two, one of them is likey to be on the list many times this year due to his availability and nearness to us. The other, I'd definitely say occasionally or at least a time or two before the end of the year.

There are still at least five other guys whom she has been with more than once who haven't bedded her down yet this year as well as perhaps 4 to 6 guys who we stay in contact with who have been with her before and are likely to be with her again.

For us... these numbers sound HIGH but the reality is, that it really isn't when you consider that typically... she rarely ends up being with a single individual even as much as once a month.

If you ask Carol what the perfect frequency is to meet with someone and have an experience... she'd likely comment 'about once a week'. What typically happens are weeks like the last ione where she meets with 3 different gentlemen but also, there are times when as much as 30 days passes between one encounter and the next. That has happened already just this year.

She definitely enjoys meeting someone new but her focus for sometime now has been on meeting 'friends' who are not going to just be a one night stand. Of course... the problem is... that the more guys she meets who become 'regulars'... the more she has to commit to them to keep them satisfied and keep their interest up and the harder it gets to enjoy the pleasures of one of those first time meetings.

Carol probably won't be pleased with me posting this but... the way things typically work around here... as far as new guys are concerned is that first off, she NEVER opens the door to let someone new in with the 'expectation' that it will include having a go at it. However, considering all that has to happen when we invite someone over is for everyone to be 'willing'... it almost ALWAYS does unless you happen to schedule at a time when recent encounters have zapped her out somewhat or her health problems preclude her from playing. However, if she can't play... she usually won't even schedule.

There is one gentleman who has visited us twice but unfortunately... both times were 'wrong'. He is a truck driver and he isn't in our area often but he has an open invitation to drop by (as long as he at least calls first) and he is at the top of her list to 'do'.

Anyway... back to the point I really wanted to make... if there is ONE single frustration I have... it is that she almost never gets dressed in 'fuck me' clothes when someone new comes over.

I personally find it very exciting when she dresses exotically for an initial meet. About the last time this happened... the guy talked to her on the phone and suggested to her that he would love it if she was wearing just bra, panties, and hose when he arrived. Now, this particular guy... she had never been with him however we met him about 18 to 24 months before for a drink one night and it wasn't a good night for Carol and he himself had leg problems due to a recent injury. But, at least she did remember that she was attracted to him even though she had virtually totally forgotten what he looked like.

Anyway... I opened the door to let him in... Carol was setting on the couch in the requested outfit and he was on her... kissing, fondling, etc within 15 seconds of walking in.

Of course... she knew she had every intention of fucking when the date was made. But he slid his arm around her and grabbed her brest before his butt even hit the couch. I could tell she was... well, overwhelmed at the rapidy of his advance but she quickly got over it and allowed him to continue 'taking her'.

As for her crop of regulars... depending on her mood... she will either dress provocatively or, she will just be wearing normal clothes knowing that whatever she wears won't delay or speed up the process. The sly ones... know that if THEY delay things... and limit physical contact to just taking her hand and even setting back and chilling while we watch a movie or a TV show... find out that she is even more excited by the time she suggests that they retire to the bedroom.
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It took nearly 3 weeks...
Posted:Feb 11, 2009 2:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2009 3:25 am
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... But the offensive poster who sent us the unsolicited, unprovoked hate mail is finally gone.

See An email we received

Good Riddence!
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Back in the saddle again
Posted:Feb 8, 2009 3:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2009 5:44 am
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Well, after a month of going without due to work schedules, family visits, and some health issues... Carol finally was able to get back down last night... and, in fact she is still in the spare bedroom with her partner enjoying some morning wood as we speak!
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Primal Fears
Posted:Jan 30, 2009 9:37 am
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2009 5:42 am
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This morning, as usual... I woke up, pee'd, and started the coffee and then came into where the computer was located and checked email while I awaited the Mr. Coffee to do it's magic 'enough' to pour that first cup.

Speaking of the "MAGIC"... almost without fail, Mr. Coffee's spew works wonders on my digestive track... and virtually every morning, I have to return to the bathroom and do the #2.

Well, this morning was like most mornings... I procrastinate, while the pressure builds until I have to stop mid-sentence in the current email I'm sending and make a mad dash.

This morning, now awake enough to SEE what was there in the bathroom waiting for me was... the PLUNGER!

You know, that THING that has a 'reverse tit' made out of rubber on one end and a long pole on the other.

As usually, it was positioned just close enough to the toilet bowl to give me the willies. When I have need for the damn thing, once finished... I make a point of putting it as far away as possible but Carol just plops it down anywhere and inevitably, it is always less than 12 inches away from the toilet seat.

In case you haven't figured out what I am SOOOOOO Afraid of... it is that somehow I will miss the correct targer when I set down to do my business. That I will just jar that pointed, 24 inch pole just enough so that it slides from the edge of my big butt to the center of it as I decend.

It hasn't happened YET... and as long as I just piss in the morning when I'm all groggy and half asleep, watch the amount of alcohol I consume, and ALWAYS turn on the damn light... I'll probably be OK.

So, what causes primal fears?

I once saw a documentary on one of those Science Channels on Cable that specifically talked about a time when life on earth was much different. It was just after the dinasaurs died out and most living creahers were little more than rodents. According to this show, the earth itself was radically different with regards the amount of oxygen and humidity, etc and that this time period favored insects and bugs. Those critters were MUCH larger then and it was not uncommon for a big-ass spider to grab one of those rodent ancestors of ours (if you believe in Darwin) and shoot him full of poison and suck out his liquified innards. And, THAT primitive memory and fear remains in our sub-consious memory. That is why we don't like spiders and other creepy crawlers.

As to my fear of that mobile (due to setting on that inverted rubber tit) pole... I can't figure out the connection but it's got to be something!
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An email we received
Posted:Jan 23, 2009 4:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2011 8:49 pm
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This is an email message that greeted me this morning when I signed onto the site. Normally, I would NEVER name names in this blog but... this was a reprehensible act. The first I ever reported for abuse. He is a Gold Membership holder living in Greensboro NC. rdu1221

It is obvious that you are a fat, ugy, nigger-cock-sucking cunt! Any black having anything to do with you, much less put his cock inside your rank ass cunt, only confirms what I have believed all of my life. ALL of them are as as sorry as any piece of rat shit lying in a field, and speaking of fields, why don't you get back into the pig pen where you were obviously conceived and born. Jesus, you are one ugly and sick cunt! I guarantee you that if you husband watches then he is as black as his dumbass hood bros.

You are one sick maggot!

This member has opted to turn off receiving mail at this time. Most times, this means that the member is taking a break from Senior Sizzle, only wishes to contact others, or visit people in the chatrooms.


I don't know what else to say other than perhaps this is one reason Carol no longer has interest in white men.
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How many times...
Posted:Jan 20, 2009 9:46 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2009 2:28 pm
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Now, that is a question I'd LOVE to know the answer to.

When Carol has a bedroom guest, sometimes she just fucks once... sometimes twice, sometimes more.
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A record encounter...
Posted:Jan 19, 2009 4:39 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 9:59 am
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One interesting observation from Carol's encounters list. There are a few times where she has had a guest who stayed overnight and managed to get their name on the list twice in a row.

By the way, I might mention that this list I keep, is mostly for my enjoyment... sort of like following baseball statistics. But, it also serves the purpose of keeping contact information as well as occasionally... Carol will ask about in because she wants to make sure she isn't neglicting one of her regulars.

Anyway, one guy managed to get his name in the list 3 times in a row. He made it for that initial day, stayed overnight and they enjoyed more of each other before he left... and then they managed to get together one more time a few days later without having anyone else get in the list between those encounters.

But, so far.. no one has ever gotten on the list for three straight days nor has anyone ever made the list more than 3 consecutive times.

Carol and I were talking about the future and what it holds the other day. We are both fairly certain that at some point, the list will narrow substancially... perhaps as low as only one man.

I have mixed emotions about that... obviously I feel safer with her maintaining some variety but on the flip side, even if she was exclusive to only one guy... at this point in our relationship... I really don't see that as a problem.

Getting down to one man... currently there are two who have been with her for more than 3 years... one of them over 5 years. There is two more who are likely to get on the list multiple times this year and perhaps two more who will get occasional listings. This year... I anticipate that those 6 will account for 90% of her encounters or at a minimum... perhaps one or two will fall by the wayside to someone else who by year end... will have become one of her 'very regulars'.

Looking at 2007 and 2008... 2008 had more total encounters but also definitely showed she was doing the same small group of men a lot. I don't know if 2009 will have more total encounters however I'm absolutely sure there will be a much lower number of different men.

Another thing that has always been a fantasy... was to have one of her regular guys living right next door or across the street. Another fantasy... but one I know Carol definitely doesn't want to see realized would be for her to have an 'affair' with a co-worker or boss where they spend a lot of time around each other at work which in turn leads to lots of after-work encounters.
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In the back of the truck
Posted:Jan 14, 2009 4:58 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 9:59 am
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Last year, Carol had one of her most desired fantasies realized. It was to experience an encounter in one of those sleeper compartments on an 18 wheeler.

It happened on a day when frankly, her desire to get intimate was at a real low point. She had recently played, and the evening before she had put in a very late shift and there were existing plans for the next day.

The guy initially contacted us on Swapper Net which is a similar site to this one. He and I had exchanged a couple of messages and knowing that he 'had truck, will travel' caused me to give him Carol's phone number perhaps a couple of weeks prior.

Anyway, he called that evening while Carol was still at work. She was supposed to get off around 9PM so I told him to call back a little after 9. He did, but she was still at work. He told me he was heading out early the next morning.

He called back, with my encouragement every 30 minutes until finally, at 11:45 or so, he called just after she finally got in after putting in at least a 10 hour day. When she talked to him, I listened to her side of the conversation and it was apparent that she did like the guy... but, she was just to exhausted to get back out.

Well, the next morning... while I was at work, he called her again just before noon. His departure had been delayed and he asked her to meet him for lunch (of course, at the truck stop) and she agreed.

She told me she had made a lunch date and I asked her if she was going to take advantage of the situation and get her fantasy resolved. She said no. That she had errands she had to run and didn't feel up to playing (and wasn't even the slightest bit... horny) and that this was just going to be a meet with the idea of making real plans the next time he passed through assuming she liked him and vice versa after that face to face meet.

What happened next I only got to hear about when I got off work later that day. Apparently the lunch meeting started off about as bad as it could. She got to the truck stop, called him to say she was in the parking lot only to find out he was hung up doing something with his truck but he should be free in another 15 minutes which turned into just over an hour.

But, they did meet. The lunch and conversation was more or less in the 'just OK' range. Which under normal circumstances meant that IF Carol was especially interested in some action where who didn't even matter that much... that playing would have been highly unlikely.

As the lunch wound down, he asked her if she would like to see his truck. And, I assume what was in her mind was that she would walk the 200 odd feet from the truck stop resturant to the truck and then she would head to her car to come home.

As they arrived at the vehicle, the man opened the cab's door and then he suggested to her "Go ahead and climb up and set inside.".

I heard later that as she started to climb into the cab... she thought to herself "I am so fucked!". And, well, the rest you can imagine.

What made me think about this event this morning is that there is another trucker who has made a great impression on her lately. With Carol... it is more about personality and how she gets along with someone first on the phone and then in person that is the determining factor. My own observations are pretty clear... if she agrees to meet someone at all... she is probably already interested enough to experiment sexually at least once.

So, I'm assuming that sometime in the next couple of weeks... as she climbs into that cab... she will be thinking to herself "I am so fucked... AGAIN!".

Also, since the fantasy of doing it in one of those big trucks has been realized already... it has been replaced by one where she gets invited on a road trip with a trucker. Of course, due to her job requirements, probably the most she could manage might be a trip where they leave early on morning and get back sometime the next day although I know she would like to do something longer that might be 3 to 5 nights on the road.

Of course, this fantasy is far less important than the original one of loosing her 'truck cherry' and probably won't happen. But, we both enjoy talking about her fantasies. Her biggest worry about actually doing a several day road trip? That I wouldn't feed our dogs regularly.
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Sunday Morning...
Posted:Jan 11, 2009 6:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2009 9:51 am
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We have one of our daughters here this weekend but she is still asleep so I have been looking over incoming messages and chatting some what over Yahoo this morning.

She leaves later today around 3 to 5pm.

Was thinking about the scenario I would love to see happen soon. It is rather specific but it is what is on my mind at the moment.

Anyway, it starts with someone calling Carol for the first time. He would be black of course, probably somewhere around 40 and up. He would be single and would have spent extensive time reading Carol's profile and our blog entries. He would also have to have experiences within the lifestyle and especially meeting couples. Lastly, he would need to be close enough where the drive here isn't a deterent.

He would call on a Thursday evening... when she would most likely know her schedule for the full weekend. The phone call would go GREAT. He would 'ask her out' for Friday night. The plan would simply be that he would come by, spend some time getting to know us both... and then he would be taking Carol over to the 5th Season Club to listen to music, have a couple of drinks, dance, etc.

No 'secondary' plans would be made for when they leave the club.

They would leave around 8 PM. Me being pretty much a 'day person', I'd likely call it a night around 11pm or so and go to bed. The next morning, I would see that she didn't come home. There would however be a text message that her and her date had decided to spend the night together. And, it could be either at his home or in a motel in Greensboro.

Later than morning... perhaps around 10AM... she would call and fill me in on the events thusfar. Of course, she will have had a great evening. She will also tell me that she is npot sure when she will be getting home as they are going to pal around and do things and see the sights for a while.

Later that day... probably around 5 or 6PM... she calls and tells me that she is still having fun with her 'date' and that she will be home Sunday.

Well, that is about it. Carol has yet to EVER have a 48 hour date either with the guy staying with us or her staying with the guy. I'm sure at some point, someone she already knows well will end up 'arranging' an extended date... either by getting a weekend invitation from Carol or him asking her to take a weekend beach trip or somehting. But, it would be 'exciting' to see it happen on a 'first' date.
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One year anniverary
Posted:Jan 10, 2009 4:44 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2009 4:58 am
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One thing we do is keep a list of who Carol has been with and when this occurred. It is kept in a spreadsheet which also contains a lot of our contact information.

At the end of the year, I looked back on it and saw that in 2008, Carol had only one encounter with a white guy and one with a guy from India. Neither of these two are likely to occur again due to lack of interest on both Carol's part as well as theirs, distance, etc.

All of the rest of the entries were with black men. And, once March 3rd arrives, no white guys for over a year and by April... ONLY black guys.

As to future entries in the list... I wouldn't be surprised of there were no additional entries for anyone but black guys EVER.

Why? Several reasons. First off, from reading her profile and blog entries... it is clear to most people that she has a decided preference for black men. A long time ago we started stating her preference simply to reduce the sheer number of people ( Horny Guys ) that were calling us and sending us messages. Black has been her preference for many years and the reasons for that are detailed in both her profile and in our blog entries and of course in the photos that are included on her profile.

But, probably a more important reason has to do with frequency. Looking over the list, and not for just the last year, but especially over just the last 6 months... the number of first time guys has dropped considerably. More and more of her encounters is with the same guys. You can also see that she was more active this year than ever before. I credit her switching from being mostly excited about meeting someone new to the pleasure and comfort she has discovered about getting closer with her regular guys.

Of course, we get contacted by people who have not met us before and if possible, she tries to meet them but as time goes on, there are likely to be no more than maybe 6 guys who account for 90% of her encounters and perhaps 2 or 3 of those being most of this.

Personally, I think this is great news. Without a doubt she is enjoying these closer relationships and I suspect some of them will go on for years... in fact, at least two of her guys have been part of her life for 3 to 5 years already.
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Friends Network and Testimonials
Posted:Jan 4, 2009 5:26 am
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2009 4:26 am
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While surfing the site this morning... came across a woman who had posted a testimonial on one of the guy's profiles we are intersted in meeting. It was the only one he had.

I often take a look at the profiles of the people who post testimoninals on possible future contacts. NOt that I place a lot of stock in them but... this woman had nearly 60 testimonials and over 2000 people in her 'friends' list.

Really makes one wonder whats up with that? None of the woman's testimonials that I read contained 'confirmation' that a meeting actually occurred. I suspect that many (if not all) of her testimonials were posted because she initially posted one on the guy's profile.

That, and inviting everyone in the country to your friends list is worse than useless. We have about 100 people in our friends list at present... that is way too many also considering only about 5 of them have actually met us.

When someone asks to be in our list... a lot will depend upon how closely they match our profile AND this definitely includes the distance.
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End of Year Rant...
Posted:Dec 31, 2008 9:33 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 9:59 am
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Got off at noon today... as I headed into the parking lot to find my car... this being New Year's Eve an all, got a bit nostalgic about the old days... back when I was a young around the late fifties, early sixties.

Now, where I work... the parking lot is small enough so that you normally don't make a mental note about where you parked like you might when you go to a big stadium or something like that.

But, it is large enough and there is actually a front and back half to it that, if you forget where you parked... you can definitely spend some time walking and looking around trying to spot your car.

The thing is, these days... the cars all look SOOOO much alike that it is impossible for me to even tell the difference between most makes and models (including what country they come from).

Plus... why is it that we only have White, Beige, Champaign, Silver, Black, and occasionally maroon colors these days? And, those Beige to Silver cars... not really any difference other than they aren't white or black.

When I was a ... I could instantly recognize the make, model and year of EVERY car on the road plus the colors were all over the spectrum.

Blue cars and yellow and brown and green... and even PINK were as common if any color out there and, back in the late fifties especially... many cars were even two-toned to boot!

Today's automotive problems? I think there simply isn't any difference between a 2003 Buick Century and dozens of other 2003 and later cars from all over the world. So, who needs to trade up for them?
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