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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
Another preference question
Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
Just for fun poll
Did you ever
Long term relationship
Which is more exciting for you\8b
Since standard members can't see my profile, I have included it within my blog.
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Too busy to play games...
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Posted:Oct 20, 2008 7:02 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2010 9:04 am
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Had a very nice email the other day... from someone who was reasonably close by, and sounded interested in meeting Carol.
I sent him an email to try to get to know him better and he sent another, more detailed message. So, I opened up to him... told him of our interest, a bit about Carol's schedule and near term availablility, etc. Those whom we have exchanged emails and those whom we have invited over to the house get similar communications from us although I typically don't send 'as much' info as I did with this person because I really thought he was going to be a nice person for us to meet.
Got this back... name removed however...
"Sir, Altough I think your wife is a desirable women I will not lower my standards by playing games. Simply put, you give me a time, a place, and I will be there. If we click, we click, but as a supervising professional of more than 300 people I will not play games. Sincerely XXXXX".
What's with that? Jeez, Carol isn't a walking sperm depository. If a guy wants to meet her, he is going to have to 'dance' a little to get her attention and rise himself from the 90% of the people on here who are just fakes and wannabees.
Well, I wished him well in his on-going pursuits on here 'elsewhere' than with us. We don't have time for people who are so cold blooded about this that they care nothing about 'meeting' Carol or meeting us... they just want to come over... stick in their dicks and move on.
They should save their money on Senior Sizzle and just go get a . Faster, and cheaper and damn sure 'No Strings Attached'.
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Posted:Oct 18, 2008 6:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2008 4:11 am
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Strangely quite this AM... it is near 9AM and I've been surfing the net, sending some intro emails here on Senior Sizzle and monitoring Yahoo IM. Usually get at least SOME contacts on days like this but this morning... NA DA!
Carol should be waking up soon and when she does and has her coffee, we need to do a quick search and cleanup around the house due to the unexpected (until last night) arrival of one of our daughters.
The todo list includes: Making sure no scrapes of paper are laying around where Carol has made notes about how big his dick is. Making sure the condoms are all well hidden. Verifying that no pictures remain on the camera. Changing my screen saver timeout to 1 or 2 minutes instead of being mostly off. Turning off her pic on Yahoo IM in case I forget to turn off Yahoo IM altogether. Turning OFF her phone and hiding it least the wonder who all the calls are from.
I must admit... we are both still shaken by the fact that it was by sheer luck that we found out she was arriving today. We feel that our lifestyle is none of our 's business. We enjoy it and love talking to people (who know the score) about it but shouldn't be a part of their parents sex lives.
Once, someone on Yahoo IM made a comment about our daughters. They asked if either of them had ever been with black men. My answer was that yes, at least one of them had a boyfriend who was racially mixed for a while. But, from there... his comments started going down hill fast. By the time I blocked this asshole, he was making comments about how we must think that black men arn't good enough for our daughters. Oh well, there are definitely jerks in the world.
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Under the radar, again!
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Posted:Oct 17, 2008 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2008 3:43 pm
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Wow... just got the SHIT scared out of us.
We have two daughters (27 and 20) and both of them are AWAY in the military. We love them and love seeing them but we definitely can't PLAY when they are around. It would be back to meetings in obscure resturants and clubs and parking lots and paying for motel rooms.
We've really gotten spoiled by being able to allow incoming phone calls (mostly to Carol's cell phone) and being able to simply invite people over her to play.
Well, this morning, I was checking the balance of our youngest 's account. I do so because I move some of her paycheck over into other accounts and also neither of them ash that much easy access to online stuff. Well, there was an airline charge that showed up this morning. I was afraid our 's account had been hacked and someone had used her debot card to buy a plane ticket. So, I called her!
She was 'pissed off' that we found out about her trip! She had wanted to somply knock on the door and say "I'm Back!". She arrives in less than 18 hours! Well, we like surprises as much as the next guy but.. in our situation, a surprise like that could have been disasterous. Carol might very well have been NAKED, giving a naked black man a blow job in the living room when she arrived!
It has been almost 9 months since she was home... she was supposed to have been home several months ago but things happened that prohibited that. This will be her first trip home since going in so, of course... we're excited, she's excited but damn girl... you gotta give us some notice!
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Posted:Oct 15, 2008 4:26 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2014 5:34 pm
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Hello, I am an older white lady, been married for many years. My husband (who is straight) loves it when I invite single black men to meet me.
New Note: Just added women to the list of people I wish to meet. Let me add that I am at best, passively bi-sexual. However, I would love to meet local ladies who are into some of the things I am into.
Here is a big tip for you... people who contact me... if you haven't read our profile and at least some of our blog entries... your starting out with 2 strikes against you. Find out who I am, my likes and dislikes. Then you will have a better idea if your wasting our time as well as yours.
Special note: I have a blog whitewhife4black that my husband has been posting to. You will find a variety of additional information about me and there are several polls included that we can have some fun with. Be sure and visit it. blog whitewhife4black
I enjoy entertaining in my home and I also love it when a gentleman asks me out on a date to go listen to music and dance. Dinners and movies are fun, bowling, whatever! I especially enjoy being invited out to enjoy things that maybe I don't do myself all the time. Or, maybe we can just talk a walk at the mall and Window shop. You decide!
I work a really weird schedule (in a resturant) so my days off and shift hours vary every week. In fact, I can never make plans beyond the next coming Friday because I won't know my schedule until Thursday night.
I can meet sometimes during the day when my husband is at work however I typically prefer that at least my initial meeting with someone is when he can meet and get to know us both.
My husband is very active in helping me the lifestyle and in fact usually does all the computer side stuff (chatting, email, etc) for me. I much prefer to talk to my guys over the phone (or in person).
If there is one major piece of advice I can offer, it is to have patients when trying to hook up with me. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and although I do like variety in my life... I already have a number of very close friends who I see now and then and sometimes, you have to go out of your way and make sure they are taken care of.
As to what I am into... well, first off, although I am not 'exclusive' to black men... if your not black... your chances are slim. Opps... change that... let's just say I am 100% exclusive to black. I love the skin contrast and I love the way 'most' black men treat me and respect my permenent relationship with my husband.
I'm not into anal so don't even bring it up. Also, not into B&D or S&M although I have played a couple of games blindfolded before.
I'm not a BBW but certainly not a Barbie either. I'm ok with oral but I don't like making a night of just that. If I have a passion, it is full body massage. I love getting them and like to recipricate back. Frankly, some of my favorite times in the lifestyle is when my husband and I are setting around watching television, and I have a friend over and I'm getting a foot massage during the show.
My husband doesn't participate usually... he enjoys watching or at least hearing about my activities later. He says he found out he loved seeing me receive pleasure so long ago he forgot when it was.
We are real people and probably some of you on this web site already know us. The one thing I will stress is that being a no-show is a great way to get totally off our 'possibles' list permenantly.
No-shows and fakes are by far the worst thing in this lifestyle. It especially makes it hard on the single guys to meet single ladies and willing wives or couples. I know, some ladies and couples are also fakes and no-show 'regulars' but that's not us.
We rarely travel so if you are beyond maybe 35 miles of us... be prepared to come here. Also, if you are more than an hour by car from us... with today's gas prices and just the cost of time itself... you may find me a bit reluctant to schedule. I've found that 95% of people at 100 miles or more will be no-shows. And, with my work schedule and the conflicting schedule of my husband... I can't afford to make plans with someone and have them bum out on us.
Feel free to ask us any questions you might have or suggest fantasies. Nothing is taboo to ask. One of my all time fantasies was to recently experienced which was to have an experience in the sleeper cab of a big rig.
Carol :
Ideal person?
Well, I would say it would be someone who lives close by, is black of course, single, maybe 38 to 60... who would enjoy a quiet evening setting around visiting with my husband and I regardless if we have sex.
This person should be a master at giving massage and loves to give me full body and foot massages.
My husband says that he should be someone who is not afriad or shy to give me affection... both in public and when we are just chilling. And that he should understand that we are 100% sure in our relationship and that this lifestyle simply gives us the freedom to have good times with other.
He should also be someone who wants more than just coming over now and then for a quickie. I like to get out and do things and go places.
I like to be treated like a single lady (most of the time) but my guys need to understand that this is a friends with benefits thing for us. I have no plans to change husbands,
I like to be seduced! I'd rather that a man who meets me come to the table with seduction in mind rather than thinking he is simply guaranteed to 'get me'.
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And, the phone number is...
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Posted:Oct 14, 2008 9:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2010 9:04 am
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Was responding to a nice lady today via email and the subject was the people on here who are just in their own 'fantasy' world and for us, total time waisters.
I wanted to pass on some comments I made to her about how normally, I do the initial communications with people who email or message us because Carol prefers to talk on the phone or meet face to face and is mostly bored with this message stuff. Also, the sheer number of guys that contact us would totally overwhelm her. It does ME in fact.
The thing is, I am usually willing to give someone her phone number and we offer numerous tips both in our profile and in this blog that will help a guy achieve a meeting (and more) with her. But, of all the times I give someone her number... is is amazing how few call. And, of those that do call... it is amazing the percentage of them that if offered a meet... always seem to have some reason they can't meet right then. And, of course much worse is the number of guys who agree to meet yet that is the last one ever hears from them.
The main piece of advise I can give a guy who is interested in meeting with Carol is to be persistant. Carol always tries her best to meet someone if there is any kind of chemistry between the man and her on the phone. But, her schedule permits her to meet perhaps one guy per week. But, the more chances you give her to set up a meeting... by calling her and letting her know when you are available... the higher your chance gets that she will be able to connect with you.
It is ALL about timing. She prefers to not schedule further out than maybe 48 hours. She is diabetic so this can slow her down at times and sometimes she can schedule, sometimes the schedule is already set with work or guys from here an other similar sites as well as existing 'fuck buddies'.
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When dogs ruled the world!
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Posted:Oct 12, 2008 4:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2008 2:11 pm
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Many years ago, before mankind took over, Dogs ruled the world.
That's where the phrase Top originated. Dogs back then were very proud of themselves and unfortunately boastful. Their most prized position was their tails and they wagged them incessently and boasted about how beutiful they were.
All this swaggering and boasting by the dogs upset God and one day he had enough of it and reached down and took ALL their tails away from them!
The dogs were so embarrased. They wept and pleaded with God to restore them. They promised to NEVER boast or act so prideful about thier tales ever again and God listened.
At first, he resisted their pleas and looked the other way but his heart softened as he heard their whins and welps. Finally, he relented and in one single gesture, tossed down all of the tails into a big pile and told the dogs to watch their steps from here on.
The dogs rejoiced but unfortunately, there were so many dogs and so many tails that none of them could find their own tail.
And, to this day... that is the reason why when dogs first meet... they immediately go to the other dog's south end and sniff... in the hopes that MAYBE... this has their tail.
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How to meet Carol
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Posted:Oct 12, 2008 3:29 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2011 5:38 am
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Guess what guys... there are 100 of you (at least) and one of Carol.
Most of the guys who contact her via email NEVER meet her. The obvious reason is that many are here in secret and simply get their jollies off if a woman or a couple responds to their email message and they have no interest in actually meeting anyone.
Just wish that group would go elsewhere!
The next largest group is the ones that call but are very reluctant to meet. They end up using a lot of Carol's available time to chat on the phone and although she may enjoy some of those calls... it takes away form her time to actually meet someone face to face. You guys who are real should wish they would go elsewhere.
Our biggest problem is that guys who actually do want to meet and are not so far away that even a one time fuck is like a mini-vacation... often get discouraged too quickly.
Carol plays as often as 3 times per week sometimes however she prefers something closer to about a week between encounters. I mean, you can only eat STEAK so often for dinner. If she maintains a little time between encounters then she avoids burnout and enjoys the encounters a whole lot more.
Another problem is that when a guy contacts Carol and has a good chat... he doesn't take into consideration all the OTHER guys who are trying to meet her. They tell her or send us a message saying 'Contact me when you have some time to meet.'. Well, that isn't going to happen... there are new guys joining this site everyday and the number of incoming calls never really slows down. No matter how great your chat with Carol is on the phone... it will fade from memory quickly because of the next 10 phone calls that come in over the next 3 days.
Carol can never schedule past the next coming Friday because she only gets her work schedule once a week. And, her available times to meet vary every day, every week. Also, she rarely makes plans further out that 48 hours.
A lot of guys have called and on that first call, made plans to meet and did. A lot of other guys, it takes 2 or 3 or 7 or 8 calls to finally have an available time where she is available AND interested in meeting (i.e. playing). When she agrees to meet, she usually schedules it when playing is highly possible I might add.
The last piece of advise I can offer is that when you get that chance to chat with her on the phone... make sure you establish 'comminication'. Tell her about yourself, your interest, and inquire about the same things with her. Get her laughing and enjoying the conversation. And, ALWAYS... if you call her... have a suggestion for meeting... preferably within hours or at most the next day. If she likes you and can meet... she will. If she likes you and can't... she will often suggest that you call her in a couple of days. She HATES to turn people down when she has gotten her curiosity aroused by someone. And, lastly... if you want to guarantee that you will meet her... establish that 'connection' on the phone and keep on trying by calling her and suggesting 'when'. It WILL happen.
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Under the radar this weekend
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Posted:Oct 12, 2008 2:53 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2008 4:21 am
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One of our daughters is home this weekend so keeping a low profile. Carol gets so many calls from guys these days that we simply had to turn off her cell phone and hide it in a drawer. So, if you tried to call Carol this weekend... that's why no answer.
In these days of cell phones, one historically major fear of Carol's (the unexpected drop-in) is mostly a thing of the past although it did happen once which I mentioned in a recent blog posting.
However, we actually did INVITE one of her boy friends over this weekend. He and I have also become friends and he came over to watch the football game. I'll admit I worried a little while he and Carol sat side by side on the love seat while I was in my regular recliner and our was on the sofa. I was afraid that somebody would forget for a moment and either he or her would reach down and take each other's hand or worse still... that Carol would lay her hand on his leg just above his crotch as she so often does when the 3 of us are just setting around. Or that he would get an erection visible to all when she sat next to him.
Occasionally, one of our daughters will call on the phone when Carol has company. Once, one called and says "Where's Mom?" and wicked me I replied, "Oh, she's upstairs fucking around.". Another time I replied "She's gone to bed!" and another time, she was having a very slow and relaxed fuck and was able to chat with her at the same time.
The leaves sometime early afternoon Monday. There is one guy who she has talked to who is supposed to pass nearby Monday evening. If he calls, he may be in for a treat.
He next party opportunities are Thursday and Friday. I'm sure that one of these days will be given over to party time.
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Friends Network
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Posted:Oct 11, 2008 4:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2008 3:18 pm
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Been thinking about this...
Trying to decide if we are using it the best way possible. In the beginning, we turned down offers to accept invitations when the person didn't fit our preferences for race and within reasonable distance form us. Then, went through a period of allowing ANY to join on the basis of it giving us more exposure.
At some point, we are likely to REALLY thin it out on the basis of those who are not contacting us, at least via email messages simply ought to be GONE.
One thing I wish they would change as far as "Friends" is the network bullitin feature... I don't think ANYONE hardly ever looks at those. We would love to be able to send out a single message announcing 'availability' for a given date/time.
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Oklahoma / Texas
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Posted:Oct 10, 2008 5:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2008 3:26 am
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Being originally from Oklahoma, tommorrow is an exciting day for me when OU plays Texas. The teams are ranked First and Fifth and both 5-0 so far this season.
Other news, we have our staying with us this weekend who also attended OU for a while a few years back so we're sort of off the radar. Carol gets so many phone calls from horney black men these days that when one of our daughters is home we simply turn off her phone and hide it away.
Regarding our recent anniversary... yes, Carol had a GREAT afternoon with one of the guys from here on Senior Sizzle. I got home in time to meet him before he left. Very nice guy. Wish ALL the people here on Senior Sizzle was as nice as he was. I suspect that he will be able to 'claim' Carol anytime he wants her work schedule permitting.
There is a chance that someone we know of... from his party hosting days, will be driving through late Monday but his 'pleasure' will depend upon what time it is and whether our has headed back to Virginia by then.
Well, enough for now...
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Our Anniversary
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Posted:Oct 8, 2008 9:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2008 4:52 am
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Oh yeah... today is our 37th anniversary. And, who says the lifestyle can be detrimental to a relationship?
Carol is really planning on a first today. If memory serves, she has NEVER fucked another man on our wedding anniverary other than me. Kind of naughty isn't it! 
What makes it perhaps even more deliciously naughty is that I won't even be here to see it happen. But, I'm sure I will hear all the sweaty details later this evening.
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Posted:Oct 7, 2008 10:09 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 11:21 am
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Woke up... needed a glass of milk to settle my stomach after the pizza arrived in it a few hours ago.
Carol had a guest last Sunday morning that she had been with once before about 6 months ago. Likeable chap, hope he gets her more often in the future.
She has someone coming over around noon tomorrow. Hopefully, since that's around the time I get home for lunch, I will get to meet him. She never 'promices' anyone but the way she talks... looks good for the man involved. First time meet so there is always a little doubt but I'd say playtime was his to loose.
Well, not going to write a novel tonight. I was surprised I didn't get a lot of responses and comments on my blog entry on OJ just before this.
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O.J. Simpson guilty of armed robbery, kidnapping
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Posted:Oct 4, 2008 8:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2008 9:07 am
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Just read this on CNN...
I for one, am not sorry to see this guy finally convicted. His previous trial for murder was, in my opinion... ome of the biggest setbacks in racial affairs this country has had for a hundred years.
When you look back at other 'heros' to the black community such as Dr. King and Rosa Parks... it it a DAMN SHAME that so many members of the black community favored and cheers his aquital simply because he was a black man.
I will NEVER forget that side by side TV blip showing a room full of African Americans on one side and a room full of similarly aged White Americans on the other as the OJ verdict was read. As a white man... that scene terrified me.
I know that a lot of it was all about how many (both white and black) feel that the American Justice System is leveraged against blacks in this country. But it was a shame that they focused their displeasure with it by rooting for this man.
Am I 100% convinced OJ was guilty of the murders? No, not 100%. 99% maybe because there was and always will be some people in power who like the idea of shaking the rich and famous. However, when OJ did that 'confession' book title "If I...", then that last 1% went out the window for me.
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