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I had my first interracial encounter in the 70s. My husband is highly supportive of my activities. I like to go out on dates as well as spend evenings with my guys in the comfort of our own home.... and sometimes theirs.
Love seeing comments about our blog entries also. And, don't forget to add your votes to the various polls we have.
My husband [ who is straight ] does most of the posting here and you will find a lot of tips about improving your chances of meeting us here as well as all kinds of stories from our past and new things we decide to write about that are happening.
Enjoy!
Some blog entries that will help you when contacting me.
Tips on making it happen
Carol39s interest in Interracial
Members who are not real or sincere
The Perfect Date
And also... recently went CRAZY and posted a whole set of tips about meeting and getting with Carol. Hope you have some time to spend reading them. They are: One on One Play, Overnights, I promice, I won't cum in your mouth, Kiss me Baby, Bareback, I need to be descreet because I'm married, I'm white do I have a chance, Becoming a regular, and Being persistant and patient
Polls - We have several polls in our blog, be sure and cast your vote:
How far would you drive
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Are you into Interracial
How important is fucking on the first date
What's with all the polls
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Latest on roommate stuff
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Posted:Mar 4, 2011 9:45 am
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We belong to a few local interracial groups . yesterday, I posted that we were interested in discussing the possibility of a roommate. Of course, these groups are definitely lifestyle oriented and we probably had at least 6 people contact us.
My thoughts are, and Carol agrees... that finding someone she likes and then seeingif it is even feasiable for them to 'relocate' and move in was going to be impossible at best.
So, we decided to go the other route... find people interested in the IDEA of it, as well as capabile of it (job related issues, family, etc) and then see if there is a chemistry between the 3 of us that makes it work.
in less than 24 hours, we had more than a 1/2 dozen inquiries. We're meeting one of them this evening as well as another one in the morning.
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Posted:Feb 26, 2011 10:59 am
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This is the post I actually intended to make this morning and got side tracted with BACKGROUND info. If you like this post... definitely read the one just before.
This one is all about where we go from here regarding future roommates.
First off,and hate to bring back what previously happened, but the subject of someone moving in on an EXTENDED basis was discussed with Carol being included in the conversation for maybe 48 seconds before there was an agreement.
Her interest in having another roommate is HIGH. Maybe even higher than I think it is although there is a lower level that she is capable of actually expressing. But, pretty obvious to me that if the right person came along... she will do it.
So, one change is going on right now as far as getting to know you topics that get discussed. Even in the first phone chat. She doesn't hesitate to bring up the fact that we have already had a live-in once before. She/we get that out on the table. I've been wanting to mention this here on her blog for a couple of weeks now also.
Once she tells someone she/we have done the live-in thing, as subtly as possible she tries to gage the interest level that the guy has.
I sometimes think that maybe we should change her profile name to 'roommate wanted' just so we can get to that part of the chat quicker.
But this is what makes this all kinda weird. In the vanilla world, when a guy moves in with a girl... they are probably at least boy friend/girl friend. Her/our preference is that the arrangment is made on the basis of '3 friends living together'.
We want to find someone who is compatable with us both, where neither the roommate nor us feel like we have control over what the other 'half' does.
We want someone who sees and agrees that they can live cheaper living with us and that we can live cheaper with them. Now, this cost of living factor... with our previous live-in, he was retired and fairly handy at repair task in many areas. Although he sometimes picked up the grocery bill and other out of pocket expenses at times... we never set down and said your share of the water bill is X dollars. So, how it becomes beneficial to the back pocket for all concerned is really negotiable.
What we found we really liked was that all of us appeared to try to do better as far as responsibilites within the home. We liked having an additional voice in the conversation with views on things that were not what Caorl and I already knew about each others after 40 years together.
So, the single most important factor is selecting a future roommate needs to be the convienence of us all.
Now, especially since this is Senior Sizzle... its pretty obvious that any guy that became our roommate would also be getting 'benefits'... like Friend with benefits, but it becomes roommate with benefits. Sexual compatability and interest/desire will need to be one of the subjects covered in our search for a roommate.
One of the more interesting discussions Carol and I have had is about the posibility that our future roommate might be a woman. Maybe even a submissive male (and, no I'm not gay). Although Carol is primarily a submissive, and likes her guy friends to be in charge and take the lead, but it has taken me years and years to know when to take a dominent position with her. Most guys are somewhat DOM to begin with... this is probably the biggest problem with ANYONE moving in with us... figuring out when and how much to 'be the man' around her.
Will we let someone move in? Probably not. The perfect person probably doesn't exist... nor are we going to be exactly whta someone else is looking for.
But... let us know if you want to set down and chat about it.
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Latest stream of counciousness
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Posted:Feb 26, 2011 10:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2012 3:22 am
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Well, it is Saturday, getting close to noon. Carol has to work today for a while, she just left.. so rather than do HONEY DOs, I decided to spend some time writing up the latest news around this place.
As I mentioned earlier, we tried the experiment of having a live-in. Perhaps the biggest problems we had with it was first off, having never attempted such an arrangement before... we simply didn't know how to start it off the right way. Secondly, there was WAY to much confusion as well as debate about just what the hell our thing should be labeled as.
By labeled, well fuck.. you got to call it something. The best we could come up with was something like "Live-in Boyfried" or "Second Husband". But, she did NOT like the term 'second husband'. Not in the least, nor did she have any interest in the live-in becoming that. And, to be honest, "live-in boyfriend" was also much more than she actually felt.
While he was here, her level of affection and even dependence towards him increased, and it is only natural to assume that the relationship would continue to bring them closer over time.
Those that know me (in the lifestyle) and astute readers of this blog probably have figured out that I manipulate things around here somewhat. Of course I do... but what is really happening is that I manipulate 'events'. By events, I mean that I arrange for someone to make a connection with her. I arrange for there to be a meeting. Sometimes I'm subtle about it, sometimes I'm not. But I know that if I get her face to face with a guy, her own curiosity and interest are what often turns a meet and greet into a fuck session.
Her interest in an other man can also REALLY vary. There have been a few guys where I couldn't use a better description than that she was 'infatuated' with them. This is pretty rare however.
Our live-in resented that I manipulated events. His biggest mistake was that he absolutely knew that fact before he moved in and even took advantage of my help to get the live-in thing going. Why this became such a big issue finaly is a mystery to me. Somehow, in his mind, he became convinced that she was an unwilling participant in these lifestyle activities and virtually my victum.
Another issue was, that although he got in the front door the first time like all of her guy friends did, once he had a seat at the table, he totally didn't want her being with anyone else and I truly believed he convinced himself that his presence would eliminate her desires to be with others so his focus turned into anger with me that yes, I continued to give her phone number out to men who wanted to fuck her.
On what I will call 'last day', a sort of perfect storm occurred. It started with Carol making a comment regarding how things would be due to this 3-way living arrangement in 3 years... 3 YEARS? Thats a fucking lifetime when you think about it all... she was fully prepared and willing to discuss things years down the road with regards US.
Thats when the storm hit. It started when she got contacted by someone she had met once before and this meet had been one of her most fun/erotic/over the top events she had ever had and he wanted to meet that day. She was VERY excited by the prospect of having a repeat.
I'm going to guess that our former roommate may read this, and some of this is going to be news for hi, about what really happened.
It started with the 3 of us out to breakfast. Thats when the 3 years from now comment was made. Subsequently, we went over to the mall and while there, she got a call from the guy asking to meet. She told me about it and I could see the excitement in her eyes. I'm not sure when she told our roommate about it however. What I do know is that there was an additional errand that needed to be run but I didn't want to run errands plus I knew specifc arrangements on her meet needed to be setup.
So, I had them drop me off at the house where I contacted the guy and setup the time andplace where we would meet. Next, and remember I referred to this as one of those perfect storms... Carol and the roommate stayed gone longer than I had anticipated and we were going to be late getting to the agreed upon location with both him and us traveling an hour to a midway point.
So, as Carol and the roommate got back home, I started rushing Carol to get ready so we could get out the door. This was obviously pissing off the roommate. And, he took his anger out on me although he handled it by just being silently pissed.
I did learn later on in an email that he felt somewhat slighted by what happened. One thing he was doing his best to do was to accept that Carol did want some occasional variety... so, he had mentioned the idea that maybe he and she could occasionally meet a couple. But, frankly, even Carol felt he wasn't sincere in his OWN interest in such activities.
He wrote me later mentioning that we didn't even consider inviting him along. That wasn't true. She and I discussed it, but quietly just between the two of us.
And, I want to make a minor point her myself... I felt it was important for him and Carol to have plans that were JUST the two of them. Bonding time if nothing else. I think he may have forgotton that she and I also have to have those times when it is just me and her doing somehting... even if there will be other people involved.
To be frank, this scenario for a variety of reasons I don't want to get into was realy one of those Al & Carol only situations to begin with however we did debate the idea of asking him to come along. Carol was the one who suggested that maybe we should ask him if he wanted to... my honest answer was that based on his obvious discomfort in meeting a couple of gusy she already knew before he started living with us... I felt that he wouldn't have been comfortable if he had come with us. And, that is what I said to Carol and she agreed.
The final straw that broke the camels back however was that I think he was shocked at Carol's enthusism for meeting this guy. Anyway, we got home early evening and found he had picked up all his stuff, and him and his were gone.
He had send us an email over Senior Sizzle as well as some text messages. At the time, we simply didn't know what to reply back and to this day, we haven't returned correspondence. We simply wish him well.
But most of all, he should definitely read that fable where a scorpion (or a snake, depending upon which version of you hear) that hitches a ride across the river on the head of an anuimal that could swim and halfway across, he stings his host which will cause them both to drown. The victum asks why did you do that? The snake said, it's my nature... you know I was a snake. Our roommate knew what Carol and I did and were into... you can't expect change in 3 months that took 40 years to build.
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Room mates?
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Posted:Jan 25, 2011 8:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2011 5:34 pm
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One thing that Carol and I learned about our recent experience is that we definitely enjoy having company that is more than just a visit or an overnight.
Will we allow someone else to move in with us? Very possible. Perhaps even likely.
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Back to being Single...
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Posted:Jan 24, 2011 9:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2011 11:34 am
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Well, sort of...
Her live-in boyfriend has decided that he isn't interested in being part of our family any longer. We were sorry to see him go but it was totally his choice.
I really think the problem was that he never understood the difference between the way things appeared and the way things were until the very end... and thats when he saw that it wasn't just Al making Carol do things to please him... it was her having her own VERY carnal desires and lust towards 'strange men'. It was too much for him.
What he needed, I don't think he will ever find with a couple that is in the lifestyle.
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Kinda surprised...
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Posted:Dec 3, 2010 4:37 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2011 9:35 pm
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I am kinda surprised that no one left a comment on my previous blog entry.
Also, since we mentioned that Carol is not only married but has a live-in boyfriend, contacts from guys have really dropped off. Oh well...
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And then there were 3
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 4:19 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2024 7:12 am
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Interesting development of late...
Carol and I have agreed to let another man move in with us. It is hard to explain just how well this seems to be working. It happened very quickly. One of those 'perfect storms' you hear about.
He and I seem to get along very well and we both appear to be interested in Carol's pleasure and happiness.
And, in case you are wondering, NO... he and I are NOT also intimate.
At this point, the hardest thing we are facing is simply what to call this thing we are doing. Obviously is is an 'experiment'. We don't know how long it will last. Maybe days, weeks, months, forever... no one has the slightest interest in putting any kind of end date on it. Although Carol hasn't yet been able to state comfortably that this is a forever thing. But she seems to have no problem accepting that this may very well last months.
My assumption is that is last 6 months, it won't end.
This thing she has with him... it isn't LOVE yet and may never be. Right now, what she is comfortable with is simply that we three are friends and just happen to all live in the same home and she sleeps either in his bed or mine or... just to maintain her 'space', alone.
She and I had a long discussion on what TERM she uses when explaining our situation. She isn't comfortable referring to him as a husband at this point so at least initially, she explains things as saying she has a live-in boyfriend.
However, I don't think she really likes that way of describing the situation. For sometime, since she started dating other men, she has never been comfortable referring to them as 'boyfriends' either. She prefers "friend with benefits" and "Fuck Buddy". And, for the last year or two when talking on the phone, instead of describing me as her husband, she refers to me as her partner. She feels it has less 'sting' as a word when she talks to someone over the phone that calls her after we have connected here on Senior Sizzle.
I think the single most powerful and telling word that she uses is 'home'. She feels that this is HIS home. He also appears very pleased that she feels that this is his home, just like it is hers and mine as well.
She intends to retain her 'freedom' to continue to meet men from Senior Sizzle and other sites and in fact, this was pretty much the line she drew in the sand. Since this all just began, she hasn't exercised her freedom that much. Of course, this was mostly due to design. He was invited to spend 'at least the weekend' about 2 weeks ago so she avoided making any plans for that weekend plus a couple of days after with one exception where a planned day trip was scheduled before he arrived. About 5 or 6 days into his stay, the topic of him living here came up and was agreed to by the 3 of us. He had to make an overnight trip up to Virginia and she went with him. We jokingly called it their Honeymoon. A couple of days later, he had to make another trip up to Virginia that was going to last a few days. She did have her one previously planned date during the 9 or 10 days he has been here so far and she had two dates while he was back up in Virginia. It will be interesting to see how 'active' she is from here on.
He gets back 'home' this evening and will be here for about a week and then we have a visiting for a few days so he will again head to Virginia during that period. We're totally not comfortable with informing our daughters about our lifestyle but she and I have had a couple of discussions about how this living arrangement may not be possible to hide from them.
We also have another coming home on military leave for about 2 weeks in the later half of December. So, by the end of the year, we will have had the initial 10 days, a week, then 2 weeks with him here and the rest of the time not here. This is probably a good thing because it gives all three of us a break that allows us to reflect on what we are doing and how it is going. But, after that there is probably 6 to 9 months where we won't have to worry about our daughters being home.
I will say that there is definitely some stress being felt by all three of us as we try to come to grips with our situation. He and I probably are more 'comfortable' with things and frankly... that is probably the main key to making this work. All she has to do is be 'accepting' from day to day and over time, her comfort level and pleasure from the situation will grow.
One 'change' that will come about and she herself made a point of letting me know that her 'outside' activities will be less frequent. For one thing, outsiders are going to have to bring more to the table than just offering thier dicks for her to use. For example, her date last night suggested an evening out dining followed by a night in a nice hotel room. Playing 'away' in different environments is one of the things she likes to do. That is so funny because 2 years ago that was ALL she could do because of our . Now that they are both in the military, at least 90% of her playtime has been here at home. We use to laugh about the prospect that the local Motel-6 might not survive the loss of the business she brought them.
With her cutting down on outside encounters... my biggest curiosity is which group gets reduced. Will it be the guys she has had multiple encounters with over sometimes years or will it be the new guys where curiosity about what he is like in bed is a driving force?
One thing I will be doing a LOT less is encouraging guys to contact her. This will certainly reduce those first night encounters although my guess is that there are at least a dozen guys who she has met or talked on the phone to who haven't had that initial encounter yet. But for sometime, she has been getting less and less willing to do one night stands. Also, her 'regulars' and I use the word loosely... she may have 3 to 5 encounters with a guy but overtime... most of them just fade away or lose interest or lose the number.
So, assuming the 3-way living arrangement flourishes, both 'friends with benefits' and first timer encounters will drop significantly. My guess is, that the main driving force on her continuing to have outside sex will be her new partner's activities 'outside' as well. This is actually something she definitely wants him to do. She feels she will be less stressed about everything this way and I agree 100%.
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Don't get Flacky...
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Posted:Oct 17, 2010 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2011 11:34 am
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Been a while since I created a new blog post. Thought it was time to bring a few things current.
However, the gist of this one is a quick lesson on how to NOT make first contact.
Last evening, after playing phone tag somewhat, a guy who I had given her phone to was reached when she called him back as we were on our way out to dinner.
After the initial hello, there was a whats up from the man and she told him she was on her way to dinner and he came back with 'You want dinner, I'll buy you dinner'. The conversation then got into what we were doing after dinner and the guy came off as if "yeah, that sounds great, I would like to do that also'. But, as soon as she said 'ok, meet us at...' was responded with 'next week for sure'.
Many times in the past, guys have called requesting a get together. But, as soon as she says yes... they seem to remember they had other commitments. Even when the date and time was their suggestion in the first place.
Getting Carol to meet is the HARDEST thing you ever have to do with her because of her work schedule and other commitments. SOme guys do get lucky and 15 minutes after he calls her, they have an agreed time to meet that very day while others may try a dozen times but scheduling just doesn't work to allow it.
If you get her to agree to meet... you better take advantage of it.
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The true meaning of...
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Posted:May 11, 2010 9:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2010 7:41 am
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The True meaning of...
1) Love
2) True Love
3) Bragging
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1) Spiting
2) Swollowing
3) Gargling
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Female White Sex Slave Sold Into Bondage at Area Torture Chamber
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Posted:May 9, 2010 7:29 am
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That get your attention? Well, it is true. For the first time ever, Carol and I attended a 'dungeon'. This place is a 'commuity driven' environment where people who have a kinky side can meet and play.
Of course, visualizing such a place when your only assumptions are based on movies such as 'Hostel' requires a huge leap of faith to even want to know facilities such as this exists within driving range of where you live... let alone attending one.
Last night, as a fund raiser to support the location, an auction was held where male and female, dominents and submissives allowed themselves to be auctioned off to the highest bidder. Now, don't be concerned because each item up for bid made sure that potential buyers knew about limits and fears and a secondary 'negotiation' occured before any playtime events started.
Carol, being such a massage freak and a total neebie at this was knew where her limits were and I made sure that when she was auctioned off, that expectations by potential buyers were properly set.
Well, all I can say is that she had a blast! And, without going into details, she experienced both first hand and visually, goings on that surprised us both as to how she reacted. Her assumed limits were definitely surpased.
But, overall... this experience for us both was a lot milder than we were prepared for as we drove out there last night. The people were so nice and friendly. There was zero pressure from anyone.
I might add that Carol did not participate in any 'orgy' like scenarios. In fact, this environment wasn't about sex at all. It was about being with like minded people who have discovered they have some 'kinks' that are on a different road than your traditional Senior Sizzle style meet and fuck/friends with benefits or gang bang parties.
We are most definitely going back again.
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That's what I'm talkin' about!
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Posted:May 5, 2010 2:45 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2010 1:02 pm
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As many of our readers might expect, the subject of Carol's profile picture where she is ascending the stairs up to our bedroom comes up a lot in both emails and in face to face conversations.
Today was no exception.
A new friend was made (or perhaps a better term is 'laid') today but before he fitted his pipe inside Carol, she led him up those stairs and exclaimed enroute that "That's what I'm talkin' about!".
We heard one tale sometime ago that a man kept a printed copy of it taped to his dash board so at signal lights, he had something fun to look at and phantasize with.
In case youi are interested, the real story of that photo is every bit what it seems to be. I took the picture as her and a friend (who was already naked if I recall) headed up to play. Unfortunately, he turned the corner to the left just before the camera snapped so he isn't visible.
But, be advised, she followed him in and before long I heard moans and groans from upstairs and the sound of ther bed post banging against the wall. So, that is what Carol looks like just before she gets fucked.
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One of my fantasies...
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Posted:May 2, 2010 11:03 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2024 7:12 am
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This is Al's fantasy... although Carol isn't totally opposed to it happening.
I love the idea of another man putting a tattoo on Carol! It would in a sence, feel like branding her as his property. Of course, it would definitely be her choice as to where the tattoo was placed and what it looked like.
And, of course it would have to be something 'tasteful' that wouldn't shock our daughters.
But, wouldn't it be wild if 'Jack' would have "Jack's Bitch" put on her ass?
Well, just kidding, but when she is with her guy friends, I do like to see them treat her as their lady. This new submissive kick she has gotten into really fuels some of these thoughts.
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Work can suck
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Posted:May 2, 2010 10:27 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2010 1:03 pm
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Yesterday, carol had to work 10:30 AM and it was 9:30PM by the time she got off. Today it was 5:45AM and scheduled no earlier than 2:15PM.
Talk about a way to fuck over a weekend!
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