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A way to know who I am.
What I like and dislike.
My daily thoughts and what I am looking for in life, sex, and adventures.
My opinions and quotes and maybe even some of my poetry (not to be used by others but to read and enjoy and comment on. |
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disabilities and partners
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Posted:Oct 10, 2013 12:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2013 6:52 pm
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On my profile I have I cannot drive and have to be picked up. This is because I have a disability and I have NEVER driven or have had a license. My disability is not a visual one so people don't believe me.
Is this an area you stay away from? If you start seeing someone regularly and then find out they have a disability what do you do?
I have had people contact me and we talked for a long time. We never met though but the closer we came to meeting I guess they got nervous and that is when they would tell me. Why not say it from the get go? Why would they lead someone on. It bothers me that they did it the way they did. I am direct in what I am wanting and looking for and about my driving. If I am asked why I cannot drive I am upfront about it. I have had some stop talking after being told so I took it it bothered them and then I have others who were excited about it. Now this confused me and I stopped talking after they told me why.
I had one who was a quadriplegic we talked for two months and never said anything. When we were to meet in two days that is when they told me and also stated I would have to drive-come to them. My profile has always had I cannot drive. Why lead someone on.?
I get fantasies and the dream how some just want the talk or to feel they are wanted or interested in. Then you have the ones who just want sex with as many as they can get. They are the ones who are dangerous and I stay away. To me that is a disability in itself.
Yes I have a huge sex drive but I keep it safe. I like living, my family, pets and challenges and triumphs I have daily. There are times I need to be told I am beautiful and that they want to touch me. For a long time he (hubby) has had no sexual drive at all but this is slowly returning but we have been married for a long time and parts of it becomes a routine. I know he loves me even though he doesn't say it all the time. However, he will let me sleep in and take care of the or he will make dinner so I can do what I want. Then there are other times that I feel I am an inconvenience because of my disability and that he is still married to me because I have a disability, most of the time i know differently.
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Weather turn on
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Posted:Oct 9, 2013 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2013 11:44 pm
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For me I am more turned on in Fall and winter.
This time of year I want to be close and cuddle more and be touched kissed and sexually aroused more. I cook more special meals and take the time to prepare things. partly because are in school and partly because I am not hot, sweaty and can take the time for me/us. The leaves changing colors is so beautiful and is a renewed freshness and I know the snow will be falling soon. The snow is crisp and sparkly and reminds me of the stars at night looking down at me but it is the day time.
Spring my allergies are horrible and the last thing someone wants is to be sneezed on or a tired person from benadryl.
Summer is so hot I am irritable and hiding from the sun and heat trying to stay cool.
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Sensual Areas
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Posted:Oct 8, 2013 1:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2013 11:36 pm
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What are your sensual spots. Each are different. I am not talking the typical penis and vagina.
For me My neck and Breast are more sensual. Done right I can climax multiple times with these areas even more than my clit and penetration.
Those areas bring more feeling through my whole body with hot tingly feelings and over whelming feeling throughout all of me.
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Vanilla sex and Erotic sex
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Posted:Oct 3, 2013 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2013 9:26 pm
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What do you consider as vanilla sex and erotic sex? Does it matter if it is a first time with an individual?
I have always considered sex erotic. Yes some acts are more exciting but then there is a time and place for those. So to me I believe sex to be exciting and new each time. The arousal height can be varied depending on the mood of the individuals. There is times just thinking about what I have planned is just as exciting as the act itself. Then when the touching starts I about climax partly from what I have already in my mind. sex has a lot do do with the mind.
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Birthday sex
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Posted:Oct 3, 2013 5:31 pm
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2013 1:26 am
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is always great sex. maybe it has to do with being older or maybe more effort is put into the sex or maybe the willing to expand or try new things. I don't know. But Yesterday was my husband birthday and the sex was amazing. for the first time in ages he was able to get hard without anything other than me. I about climaxed before any penetration. but then the things he did was a complete turn on. He too climaxed even without penetration just the type of fore play. It brought new heights to our sexual experiences and we both loved it.
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Sex is growth
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Posted:Sep 30, 2013 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2013 10:31 pm
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it is learning about yourself from your limits and likes. You learn what you enjoy and the ways that excite you most. it is just a matter of time before you find the right one.
My first husband being young (both) I had two with and did not have an organism until close to 6yrs of marriage. He was more about his likes not mine.
after the divorce I explored a bit and found out more about what i liked and wanted close to my 30's. With a few bad experiences too.
Then I was with someone younger and it was always wham bam, the harder the better. Well not so at least not every time.
After this i was seeing a couple men; yes they knew about each other we worked together. one was older and i learned and experienced so much from him the other was more tentative to what I wanted throwing in a twist here an there.
Since then I have had good times and bad but through each I learned more about what I like and want.
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Had a strange conversation with a friend
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Posted:Sep 29, 2013 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2013 9:27 pm
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about sex during the monthly time, aunt flow visit, cycle or what ever each call it.
She informed me the new man in her life loves to have sex during that time. She however hates it. She said she feels dirty and turned off.
I personally have only done that once and have mixed emotions about it. it is something i don't prefer but the feeling is very different.
What are your thoughts?
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Find time
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Posted:Sep 27, 2013 11:40 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 8:39 pm
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to meet can be hard. How do you manage to balance your time?
Some months it is easy then others I find it difficult even though I want to meet up. Now part of my issue is the driving or not being able to drive.
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Last week was he**
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Posted:Sep 27, 2013 11:37 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 8:39 pm
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Started with a suspension in and out of school and lunch detention.
To stubbing my little toe and could not hardly walk even Tylenol did not get rid of the pain and it turned black and blue up to the middle of my foot.
It is finally feeling better other than when laying down because it rubs on the bed. yes the bed is soft but i toss and turn so I hit it and about jump out of my skin.
Did finger prints for work, tags on the car and rent wow there went that check. Of course it is hubby's birthday so I am walking to the store so the can pick out something small. Not what I wanted to do. then on top of that he is work a 12hr shift.
It is non-stop right now. I am looking for a slow week, so I can relax and have fun.
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When you start off
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Posted:Sep 16, 2013 11:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2013 7:49 pm
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with a lie. I will end the conversation. Yesterday two men did this.
The first lied after the third reply I told him not to send another email. He did I deleted then he got nasty so I ended up blocking him.
The second lied the second reply. In my profile I have I cannot drive and would need to be picked up. the first reply from him stated he read my profile. The second reply asked if I would meet him at his employer for daytime fun.
Hello what does I cannot drive mean then. My husband works graveyard and sleep during the day. So he cannot take me anywhere. I don't have a drivers license and have never had one, because of medical reasons i cannot drive.
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If you film yourself
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Posted:Sep 15, 2013 1:38 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 8:39 pm
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with someone and then don't say together who get the tape/CD? or is there 2 copies one for each...
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Having sex in a semi private place
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Posted:Sep 15, 2013 9:21 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2013 11:27 pm
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and someone walks up to you while in the act and ask if they could record you what would you say? would you let them?
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what would you do if....
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Posted:Sep 15, 2013 9:17 am
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2013 3:29 pm
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you went to a place like the swingers club and was having sex and they asked to join in. would you let them join? or would appearance be an issue?
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