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Posted:Jul 14, 2020 2:22 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 8:9 am
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Now, for those of you looking for my normal fare, or demeanor for that matter. you might want skip this one entirely! I'm going come across as bitchy here, but I have had it!!! the point that even sparing names, which I did as a service the guys trying get that tube steak, beef cake and puss pudding too, isn't going to fare well here today. Yes, Darkcappacino is boiling hot right now, and not in the good way!
Let see if I can pull off being nice longer enough thank my two new friends. I will understand if you rescind after this post. I want thank the guys who are liking and complimenting my pictures...that will come in handy in a bit! I want thank the following people for their flirts...Argonaut70k, Rivas18, RiverRun1987, Jordan_Me...and answer your question, it is one of my five sexual claims fame! And last, especially and certainly not least, Kccocksuckr, and I do make it your neck of the woods, so let's stay in touch, shall we?
Now everyone knows by now that I have a favorite guy over here. I think we have a wonderful friendship, and perhaps a few benefits will come along the way. But the one thing we are sure of is that there will be no exchanging of rings here! lol I'm sure he knows who he is so I will spare his name, but he has done such a fine job, that I am considering a few other guys on the site for a similar pursuit. Now, I am not limited to just these guys, But they do certainly have my attention right now. They are F1REMAN5, 99nessa99, Allpower1964 and Patron008...even better if that is Patron with a long "o" and not just patron. lol
Question #1...Why do you guys continue email ? I have consistently put in my status that I can't read them. I have explained several times here that I will not for this site until it proves worth it, and if I have post entries like this, it is not time buy in yet! Now some of you gold members have made sure I could read your stuff. I believe one guy became my top fan so for a spell we could right each other, until it wasn't worth it anymore. On a good day, I can read part of an email, or a complete one if it is really short. Let's go back to Jordan_Me...I answered your question, but do you remember what it was? So please, stop emailing me! In fact, let's go to...
Question #2...Why don't you people use your blogs as a means of communication? I believe the blog are free around here, or I wouldn't have one. Most of you never thought to use you blog as an extension of yourself? Your blog could be your free mailbox! Sure, all the conversations would be public at first, but you could move them to somewhere more private with the ones you want to know like that. I say it all the damn time...Ain't no shame in my game! And if a man really want to connect with me, he needs to show he has got a pair. Grow some balls and start talking to me here, because if you can't keep at this stage of the game, there is no way you hang when it really counts!
Question #3...Why do people not read the profiles before they write somebody? You see big breasts, big balls, big dick, big ass and start writing. The wrong head is doing the work! My guess is, if most of you read my profile, you would lose interest and not even bother.
Let me try this in a manner most of you can understand....you see a picture of a beautiful twelve inch, thick uncut cock. It is gorgeous! It's dreamy. It screams..."every fucking hole I have should be entered by you!" You send him an email, maybe just a simple compliment, and not the vulgar thoughts you are truly having. But if you had read his profile, you would have learned that the ONLY thing he does is gets fucked. Most of us can stop drooling now, because we can't suck it or ride it. It is just a beautiful ornament, hanging there, rarely to be use by others. You could have save the ink and the strain on your vocabulary and spelling, if you had just check him out first. But that's just an example. I know one guy who will not suck a dick bigger than his, and not because he can't find one. I know a lady who insist on the lick it before you stick it policy, no matter which hole you use. But you will not get that kind of information from a picture...unless it is wearing a sign.
My line of work makes me a sum of all parts kind of guy, chest, ass, dick, hands, face, feet....bonus points for navels, armpits, legs, arms, and backs. But then the inner qualities I seek are even more important. I can put socks on bad feet, put a pillow over his face...lightly, while I'm doing my thing. But arrogance, selfishness, impatience, lack of passion or drive, low stamina, too uptight, not kinky or freaky enough, and several other characteristics can't be covered, and don't want to do without on the regular basis. So I do my homework, I study up on my subjects, I have even accidentally cyber-stalked them. They are on so many sites that I have compiled all the information on all the sites before I made a move, or decided not to. I'm merely suggesting that you use both heads before you make a move.
Question #4...Why do some people think or believe that no or very little information, plus no pictures equals the key to success in dating or hooking up? I personally try to be as helpful as possible, because to me, it also thins out the herd, weed out the shit and runs off the weak! From my blog, you might get that I did go to school, I try to be funny and I can be moody or bitchy. My profile actually put my best or worst foot forward, because I said what I am and what I'm looking for. It is a blend that will not fare well these days, but for the few lucky bastards that get there, I'm making the sexual history books!!! And even though I only posted pictures, you see the vitals...a cock, an ass and a face. You can tell that I'm not grossly overweight, that I occasionally bathe and do something with the hair on my head and face. But what is the point of a photoless profile with no words? Okay you are here, but what for? People don't respond to that. So put a little effort, and perhaps even a little planning before you create a profile. And NO, I'm not suggesting catphishing, ghosting or misrepresenting your identity.
Question #5...Why do people look at you 20, 30, 50 times without saying a word? Time after time, day after day, week after week, they look at you and still say nothing. There are better ways to get someone's attention. them a compliment! Send them a flirt! Add them your hot list! Like a picture! Comment their status! Send them an email. Say something their blog! But if you are like , I read it as a chicken shit move and put you my toilet turd list. That will not work with ! And there are several straight guys who have been bought, looked at or hot-listed by , with an apology after the fact. I keep forgetting that not the guys here are going be receptive my charms. lol
This was actually kind of fun. Maybe not for you, but I don't have the kind of fan base I need worry about losing yet! lol I may have do another round od questions at some point.
Until then,
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Romantic Homosexual Surrogate!!!
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Posted:Oct 1, 2019 7:20 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2020 7:46 pm
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I'm not exactly sure how I got started, but way back in the day, I was a homosexual surrogate. Yes, it is similar to a sexual surrogate, which some of you may be more familiar with, but for gay and bisexual men. It was a series of classes and conversations, followed with a few assignments to make sure they were moving along well. I feel like we all have our own way of doing things, and when you get comfortable, you branch off from that, adding your own individual flairs, highlights and styles, and basically coming into your own.
After a few months, I forced them into a couple of weeks of romantic studies. Sadly, romance is a dying art, but back when it really mattered, and even today, it was what separated me from most of the pack out there in my former lines of work. Even now, it amazes how many younger guys come back to me for the beyond that "wham bam, thank you Sam!" approach, the shit that ought to come with the sex. And I think it is important, not just to excellent gay husband material like myself, but I believe a lot of the ladies would also appreciate it if their men were more attentive, more receptive, more responsive, more intimate and more romantic to them. I have this philosophy... sex is a physical celebration of one's feelings, but the art of romance is how you show those feelings in the day-to day, everyday lives. Romance is how you keep yourself lingering on your partner's mind, long after the afterglow has burned out.
Then we would get into the ups and downs, the ins and outs and the variations of gay sex. Anal, oral, fetishes, oddities, the whole gambit. Answering questions and doing research to give them as much information as I could. Here,there might be some quizzes and demonstrations, possibly even doing some joint research if there was something that came up that required more study. And then, after they had passed the final, I would remind them that this was a wonderful starter kit, but there was a whole smorgasbord of things to explore, experiment with and enjoy. Because I truly believe that one's sexuality is ever-evolving, constantly changing and hopefully expanding to meet your interests, curiosities and wants, and allowing for your partners' desires and needs as well.
This donned on me because someone posed a rather interesting scenario to me, and I realized that it wasn't that much different from what I've done before.
I remember one , Patrick, who came to me for help. I found this rather difficult because at some point, we would have to become physical, and he did absolutely nothing for me in that regard. He was a good student though, and I heard he met someone two month after we ended our sessions and they have been together ever since.
But my prize student would have to be Brad. I knew he was going to be something special when I finished with him. And as I suspected, i would go into the bars occasionally, and hear how talented or impressive he was, and I was thrilled that I had help create that "monster." Later, I would actually see him, in a relationship with someone, and get it from him, how I made him a great lover, partner and playmate. And I must admit, I felt like a proud papa that night.
Even now, I get questions from friends, exes, even family members, and that really makes me feel like I have made another small change in the world. That a few people out in the world are happier in some way from me paying it forward.
In closing, I just hope you reading remember to allow your sexuality to expand within the confounds of your comforts, see each encounter as an opportunity to learn and grow, as well as to enjoy and remember your partner, and most importantly, don't ever lose the art of romance. Because in all of its forms, love never really dies. It just changes to allow for more love to come in. And when you look back at it, You will likely remember the feelings and the romantic moments more than the actual sex.
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Quickie Letter 2 The Guys 4 Me!
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Posted:Apr 8, 2019 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2019 6:20 pm
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I have been kind, polite and nice, about all the email I am receiving. I've ask you to stop. I even avoided using your names, because frankly, a gay black man on this site may not be someone most of you want to be connected with. However, enough is enough! I've had it! And so now, if you don't see your name here, you can now just leave me alone!
How did I come up with this list? Again, being much more considerate of others than they would be for me. There are a lot of hot and sexy, and unfortunately, straight guys on here, so every hot guy wouldn't work. Instead, you had to at least contacted me in some way. Sent a flirt. Added me to your hot list! Sent an email. Liked a picture! Even checking me out qualified, since with the possible exception of my ass picture, the rest of my pictures make it obvious I'm a man. Then I checked to see if you had any interest in men, and I don't consider guys who will with a couple as such. To me, that's like most three-ways...you will always like one guy more than the other, or have more chemistry with one person over the other.
Then I checked your profiles to see if we could be even remotely compatible. There are certain words that thrill me when I see them in a profile. Otter, romantic, kisser, hairy, versatile, sensual, erotic, freaky, kinky, passionate...those are some of my favorites. Other words worry me, or can be a complete turn off, and for that matter, your approach in an email can do it. Words I don't want to see include total, smooth, obese, vanilla, pnp, and anything referring to females being in my personal space or referring to your male parts with feminine terms. Then and finally, I check out the pictures, hoping to come up with a total picture of the man, regardless of clothes. Don't get me wrong! An awesome cock, a beautiful ass, a hairy chest, and a few other parts can go a long way in getting me interested, but I am more of a total package kind of dude. You'd have to read and be pretty damn impressive to get my attention with out a face.
So here we go! Oh, and if you think after reading this, you have been unfairly deleted from this list, holler and I will reexamine the situation. This would be a list of recent guys, over the last six to eight months.
Iyg4u, most def! I say that because there are three I haven't made my mind up on yet, but did not rule them out completely. They are Argonaut70k, Trynustuff3 & Tatdtorn! Still in the running guys if you are interested. I have to Alexs on my list, TravelingAlex & AlexanderJ85. And while we are on possibly actual names, let me TravisGeorge & Ben5400 on here. Come on down, Indy2825! You're the next exciting contestant on My Mister Right! Boiofurdreamz, since you contacted me, I'm assuming the age restriction doesn't apply. Beinmeorinu, you could be approaching perfect for me! And Iyg4, could that be four ? For ? Foreplay? All of the above?
My work here is done, and I suspect I will be here more often!
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For the last time gentlemen!
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Posted:Jan 2, 2019 1:55 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 8:9 am
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I appreciate the attention! Really, I do, especially since I never saw it coming. But it isn't worth it to for my presence on this site. That doesn't mean we can't communicate or get better acquainted on here.
Use my blog to speak to be. I promise to respond to all. I have those kinds of balls! Ain't no shame in my game! So please stop sending me messages I can not read! You don't have to come off nasty right off the bat and say things you don't want others to see. After a while and if there is a , we will find a better way to talk, but for now, let's roll with these punches, shall we?
Promise to respond to everyone of them, as that is now what this blog is really about...Hopefully turning you people into an interesting blog, and maybe make some friends, maybe even with benefits along the way!
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Letter to the guys who noticed me! Hope you don't mind!
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Posted:May 23, 2018 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2020 11:51 am
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This was actually so much fun, I may actually have to do it once a month or so. But I had gotten so much unexpected attention over here, that I thought I needed to respond to some of the guys. Now, if you are not shy and feel the need to respond to my blog, that's great! But if not, I will completely understand. Most people think I'm well endowed, but the truth is...I just have a hell of a lot of balls! lol
Since I didn't expect much to happen here, i have yet to invest any money in this site. I believe that is why I can only read some of my mail. But I wanted to at least acknowledged that I knew you guys had written me. So thank you for taking the time and energy to write me. It is very much appreciated, even if I wasn't able to fully appreciate your messages. Again, thanks to Pumpmehard3, thedudeofsarge, (and by the way, were you affiliated with the local mag?), 123DeepThroat, slydan56, anotherrob and luvtoplease600! Very much appreciated!!!
Now, I can be friends with just about anyone, even Klan members and homophobes, as I truly believe, if you take the time to get to know ME, I can win you over. So I rarely deny friend requests! However, you shouldn't read anything into that other than friendship. I'm hoping you can't read the categories of friendship I have put you in, but there is one special category of guys I may truly be interested in, and only a small number of my friends here made that list. So please, don't take my friendship approval as a sign that I might be interested in something more with you. That said, let me welcome my two new friends, hypolitte19500 and luvtoplease600. I also want to thank thedudeofsarge for becoming my top fan. That was a truly unexpected and pleasant surprise! Thank you so much!!!
I also feel the need to say that my preferred means of communication is face to face. Not possible here. My least favorite is the phone, which I consider to be a necessary evil I only use when required. I don't IM, so you guys trying to catch me on line, that's why you are reaching me. This blog, emails and a text telling me when and where to meet you, that is how my people contact me. I just don't want to continue coming across as rude because I couldn't respond to your emails here, or refuse to IM. Now , you can officially call me an ass about the Im thing. lol This is particularly for anotherrob, luvtoplease600 and Indy_Army_Vet.
Since I am pretty finicky about my hot list, I was surprised to find myself on anyone else's. For my hot list, I want a face picture somewhere I can see it, and then anything else is gravy if it is hot. I love muscles, hair, chests, asses, cocks and a few fetish spots, that usually don't get my attention in pictures. And unless I just thought you were too hot not to look at regularly, guys I have a shot with. In other words, gay, bisexual or FINE as hell will make my hot list. So i want to thank likehead55, lipstickdick33 and deepdesire54 for adding me to their hot list. I am immensely flattered!!!
And thank you for all the flirts guys. I would get a big head, but you wouldn't be able to see it anyway! lol But thank you hypolitte19500, dylan765scotty, likehead55, luvtoplease600, and argonaut70k. You guys are the bomb!!!
Now I feel the need to insert a paragraph before I close. I was going to holler at hotpeppers64 and TakinURdik...Howdy boys! And as I was writing this, several guys popped up on my radar. Since no one knows when I will return, I feel the need to holler at these guys as well. Cromjers and wantingitall8427, thank you for checking me out! There was actually another one, but I was so popular that he was bumped by another before I got his name. I will have to do something privately to let you know I saw him.
Being a mixed gender site with the focus on straight relationships, I truly didn't expect much to happen here for me. I think I actually got here from one of their sister sites. But I do want to thank all of you guys and men who have put forth any sort of effort towards me in anyway. It was really unexpected, but definitely appreciated. I'm truly flattered by all the attention I have received. Thank you all so much!!!
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Recycling...Don't Be Offended!!!
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Posted:Nov 18, 2017 4:02 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 8:9 am
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I think it says something about me, that a lot of the guys who use to be a part of my life, seem to be in my life again.
A very dear friend of mine has reemerged into my life, and I couldn't be more pleased. Back in the day, when we met, I never would have thought we would even get along. We were such opposites. But an intense friendship would develop between us, and I truly hated it when life took us in separate directions. A couple of weeks ago, we crossed paths and it was just like old times. he is just awesome.
Another good friend, one of my only living exes, has also talking to me again, and hanging out occasionally. He was always a pretty great guy. I really appreciated his realness and his honesty. We use to live together with another guy, and in all honesty, it was one of the happiest times in my life. The three of us had an awesome time together. Unfortunately, something happened and when I couldn't get answers, I cleaned house. I would learn later that the other guy was responsible, but by then, it was too late. He's always been cool. We just hadn't had many chances to get together or talk. That is definitely changing now. I just hope I'm not a problem for him, as I am really not trying to be.
There another awesome individual who has also return to my life in a big way. When I first met him, he was a stripper in a bar I use to frequent, and I frequented even more after we started talking. Yes, it started off as you may expect, but over time, it became something much more. This young man was simply amazing. The sad thing is, we really shouldn't have gotten as close as we did. It secretly broke my heart when life took me in a different state, and him in a different direction. Eventually, years later, I would return and we would accidentally bump into each other. Now, we see each other on a semi regular basis, and you can tell the feelings are still there. We just haven't acted on them as of yet, though we have hinted at it. He is currently just another dear friend and another beautiful part of my past!
And then, thirteen years ago, I met the most gorgeous creature I've ever laid eyes on. Actually he was doing some yard work for a neighbor and I was enjoying the view. Then I thought the scenery would be even more enjoyable with a cocktail and a clove cigarette, my thing. He noticed the cocktail, and that led to a conversation, which led to him coming by after he finished. He wanted to move more quickly than I chose to, but within a week, we were kicking it. Then he would move away and my life went on. And about three years ago, literally, I was at a party and he walked in. Three months later, he was living with me, and he stayed with me up until a month ago, when a family matter took him away, and now we are doing the long distance thing.
I've had some wonderful, beautiful amazing guys in my life. Some, (my three husbands, my best friend, my entertainer mentor, etc.) have become guardian angels as I continue this journey called life. Others,( my cute patootie neighbor, some co-workers, bar buddies, friends and acquaintances), have made the present most interesting and quite eventful. But the ones I mentioned above, and a few others, I've been given a second chance, to create even more memories, to revitalize our friendships and to once again become important in each other's lives.
I'm thankful for them all!!!
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Once a Year I Guess!
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Posted:Jan 9, 2010 9:58 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 8:9 am
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Well, I was riding along, minding my business, when I decided to check in on some of my old blogs, but I had no idea I had been so neglectful with this one. I mean, a man had actually wrote me and I did not respond in a timely manner. Another pleasant surprise from the guys here! Thank you!
And I might as well thank the ladies as well, as a compliment is a compliment no matter where it comes from. Just don't be offended if I don't single you out for a response.
And those few of you who have managed to read me over the years, lol , know that I'm still in my sentimental period. Starting rehearsals for my Valentine's Day show and preparing for a banner year in my homosexual and professional life. I know this is going to be a fantabulous year for me!!!
And I hope it will be for each of you as well, especially the guys! I will be traveling the midwest quite a bit for business, so holler if you are interested, and we will see where it take us.
Here's to an exciting and adventurous 2010!!!
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My Funny Valentines
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Posted:Jan 27, 2009 1:41 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2012 11:26 pm
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Four months ago, I informed you all that I turn into this sentimental fool for about a third of the year. Well, that time is near gone as by the 17th of February, I will have returned to my old bitchy self. But of course, I still have to get through Lover's Day.
It was funny that Xmatch sent me a email called, "My Funny Valentine," as it is one of my signature numbers in my Valentine's Day show. I perform six to eight shows a year at a place in Chicago, called "A Night of Romance!" For an arm and a leg, discount if I can get that third leg you guys, just kidding, you get a home-cooked meal, prepared by yours truly, a show featuring me and my stripper band, and a romantic start to a hot evening! Christmas and Valentine's Day are guaranteed. But the show will be the night before, so I can instruct at the couple's retreat. Did I digress?
Since this will be another single holiday for me, I try to keep busy. But you know, when the head hits the pillow, or you are all alone, they will creep up on you. In my case, it will be the six men who truly mattered in my life. It will be the last few guys I've been with. It will be some of the most charming or most beautiful men I've ever known. And it will be some of the best sex I've ever had. And although I will likely not spend the actual night alone, most of the members of the band and I have that kind of relationship, I'm the kind of friend who will let them do something else if they find something or someone else to do.
Let me also say thank you to all the guys who have been checking out either me or my blog lately. I've gotten some unexpected attention and compliments and I thank you. I don't hang out here all that much, and certainly didn't expect to meet many guys here. Hell, I don't even get read much and my main interest for being here was to try and keep my literary skills in use. But you guys are surprising me here, a truly wonderful and pleasant surprise. So thank you! And I may be returning the favor and checking you out as well. But I won't do anything that might get you in trouble with the girls! lol
All right, thanks again for everything. Next time you see me, this sentimental journey should have run its course and I will not be so soft or girlie as some of the guys say! Take care everyone and remember to put some love out there. It will always find its way back to you!
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Single Sentimental Sap!!!!
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Posted:Nov 14, 2008 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2009 4:17 pm
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For the next four months or so, I will be what I can not stand the rest of the year, a nostalgic, reflective, emotional, appreciative glop of love. Thanksgiving is just around the corner and that will start my parade of sentimentality.
Since I am single and I'm out of town working, I expect to spend it alone. I will still cook too much food and toward the end of the night pull out some of the stuff I will need for Christmas. I don't rush the holidays, meaning no signs of Christmas until after Thanksgiving and Christmas has to disappear before the new year.
Anyway, I will be playing my favorite music, which of course, will bring back memories of people of my past. "Can't Get You Out of My Head" will bring back the sweetest, straight male stripper I ever knew. Lil Kim's "How Many Licks" will bring back the sexiest mother f#cker I have ever laid eyes on. And the original "Endless Love" will take me back to when my sister and I use to perform it in talent shows. And then I will bring out a couple of homemade cassettes, which always have songs you forgot about and bring on memories you haven't thought about in ages.
And of course, my favorite people will come to me as I share with the Man above the blessings I'm grateful for. All the people I can't be with in Kansas City or Indianapolis, my two homes. My three late husbands, now angels in heaven. My two gay "dads", my lifers, my best friend and his other half, and of course, being the gay man I am, some of the best lovers and one night stands I've had, as well as guys I'm currently crushing on. How can you not be a soft-ie with all that going through your head?
So Indy and KC, if you are reading this and certain things I've mentioned strike you, just know I'm thinking about, missing and loving you in some way, shape, form or fashion!
Happy Thanksgiving and thank you for being one of the blessings I am grateful for this year!
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