People Comes into Your Life for a Reason
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Posted:Apr 17, 2006 10:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2006 9:30 pm
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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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Just a sounding board.....grrrrr
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Posted:Mar 9, 2006 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2006 10:47 am
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For those of you who don't know, this time of year is the anniversary of my parents death. It is extremely hard for me at times, being I wonder sometimes if I am a good of woman as I can be with my parents passing away when I was very young. No I am not asking for pity, just some understanding in the way I am sometimes. The Lord knows that I have gotten better. And yea I do tend to go overboard on something, but I tend to wear my heart on my sleeves at times.
Then today, think I fucked up a very good friendship, one that I was hoping would of led to alot more, who knows it still might. Not sure what I did wrong, just got that oh geez feeling, Kim, you did it this time. But dayum it....I care about my friends...so dayum SUE me...lol....I overlook my happiness...in hopes that their life will be or get better.
Thinking I will return to my cynical ways......
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JUST DON'T
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Posted:Feb 10, 2006 7:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2006 10:47 am
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Just don't break your promises! If you care about someone pay attention to the little things, they are more important than the big things. Always think before you speak. Most Important, DON'T LIE!!! Just be real, it's not worth being fake in the beginning and then showing your true colors. Save yourself the time and be real from the start!!
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What am I looking for...this kind of sums it up
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Posted:Feb 9, 2006 3:57 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2006 7:32 pm
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What are you looking for in a partner? I'm often asked what I want...well to sum it up, I don't want someone that I can live with...I want the one that I can't live without!
Too often we settle for less than we really want just so we won't be alone. Been there, done that! Maturity has taught me that I deserve what I want.
I don't know what he looks like and I could care less what he drives, as long as he has drive.
What I do know is that he should be, SINGLE, considerate, charming, sexy, professional, respectful, loving, strong but sensitive, affectionate, attentive, seductive, he doesn't smoke,he doesn't mind watching a chick flick once in a while, he's very secure with himself and not afraid of commitment
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SINGLES AWARENESS DAY!
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Posted:Feb 1, 2006 4:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Is it just me or does this month revolve around love and happiness and all that mushy stuff that is presented as a gimmick of dating, marriage, etc.? Coincidentally, February is black history month. I’m not African American or any other minority but it seems that this aspect of the month often gets overlooked with all the candy, hearts, flowers and so on.
OK, now the title: you’re wondering, Singles Awareness Day? What’s with that? If you look at it from a perspective of a single person, Valentine’'s day often makes one depressed and have the outlook that their day is going to start out bad. Why can’'t the gimmick of lovie dovey stuff go year round? The world would be a better place because of it. February should focus on allowing people to understand the culture and history in which their fellow friends and Americans come from. If we want to celebrate Valentine’s Day, that's fine, but it shouldn’t be overbearing for a whole month!
What has it ever done to teach us about history? Nothing. In fact, I think the day should be renamed to Singles Awareness Day. Look very closely: the first letters spell SAD. That’s what Valentine’s Day does to one who doesn’t have a significant other. An example of this overrated holiday comes from my job. While I’m in school, I work in a photo lab where I get to see pictures of all kinds. The local grocery store had taken pictures of all the Valentine decorations they had done. If anything stuck in my mind it was the picture of the hearts above the packaged meat section. Nothing says love like raw beef. “Beef, it’s what’s for dinner” as the slogan goes. I think this is outrageous. Love is not beef; beef is dead cow.
Now think of Valentine’s Day. This isn’t any special beef; it’s the same old beef that’s been there for a few days, I’m sure. It just doesn’t mix. For my February 14th, I’m boycotting the day so I don’t get trapped in the nation’s gimmick of hearts and flowers. For those of you who celebrate it, have fun and please remember: love shouldn’t be just one day a year or a gimmick to sell things. It should be life-long.
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Carpet or No Carpet???
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Posted:Jan 26, 2006 8:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2006 7:12 pm
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Ok men.I want the no hold bars truth. And explain why. Carpet or No Carpet on the lady?
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