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DiaryofaNotSoMadBlackWoman
 
My random thoughts and maybe a few rants
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Really? All of them?
Posted:Dec 14, 2015 11:55 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2015 12:20 am
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I'm taking issue with people (esp men) who write on their profiles that they have no preference. Really? I call BS! How can you say you like all women. All of them!? Again, really? There are some women out there with serious BO. Do you like them too? What about the one missing all their front teeth? And the super bitchy selfish ones? Oh I'm sure you love those. Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating vanity or being superficial but surely you cannot like everyone. There has to be something that turns you off one person and not another. Otherwise why there hell are you single? If you like everyone then at no point in your life should you be partnerless. Just on to the next one right? Anyway my point is saying you like all women is just being lazy. You have a preference. Take the time to write it down, and it will help me in deciding whether to contact you or not.
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It happens to the best of us
Posted:Dec 3, 2015 7:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2015 5:10 am
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Yes, believe it or not I got stood up. We chatted, texted, made a plan and agreed on a time and place. On the day in question I got all dolled up and arrived at the appointed location 15 mins early and proceeded to wait in vain. I was expecting Mr.Tall, Dark and Handsome but all I got was a text saying he wasn't going to make it. Just that. Is it too much to expect an explanation, an apology, some remorse for having wasted my time? There are so many other things I could have done but I chose to give you my time. And if you absolutely have to cancel how about doing it well in advance? Anyway, I had a great meal and Im moving on to the next one..
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Of soft things and 2nd dates
Posted:Nov 28, 2015 1:52 am
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2015 2:39 am
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I had sex a couple of days ago, at least I tried to. I was at a party and ran into an old acquitance. We immediately hit it off and by the end of the night had decided we want to see 'more' of each other. Naturally we ended up back at his place and everything was going so well (he's an amazing kisser) until his little guy decided not to cooperate. What an anti climax! Now I have never been in this situation before and I had no idea what to say to make him feel better. He was clearly embarrassed. And then of course comes the self doubt, what's wrong with me that I can't get him hard? Needless to say it got very awkward. He did try to make up for it though and gave me some great head but for me sex isnt sex without penetration. So question to the guys... For those of you who have ever had this happen, what would the lady have said or done to help matters? Any right words? And to the ladies, if this has ever happened how did you react? Did you say its alright or storm off in frustration? Finally the biggest question for me... To see him or not to see him again. Hmmm....
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My first encounter with you...
Posted:Nov 25, 2015 12:54 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2015 1:53 am
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...is your profile. So let me ask, are you happy with the first impression you're giving me? Is your pic entici g without being vulgar? Have you bothered to fill in some basic info or do you expect me to ask all these questions on chat. Honestly, if you can't be bothered to get indicate how tall you are or your hair colour etc, how am I supposed to take you seriously? You don't have to fill out the whole form but put in some effort gentlemen. I want to talk to you about what you like, your dreams, aspirations, fave sex peostions etc. Not your height, weight, whether you wear glasses or not. And for those who must absolutely have a dick on your pictures, it looks so much nicer when outlined against your boxers or trousers rather than when its all out. But that's just my preference. I find it soo hot!!
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Just a quick hello
Posted:Nov 22, 2015 9:03 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2015 9:30 am
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So, im back after a bit of a hiatus and I notice quite a few changes in here. But somehow the more things change the more they remain the same. Not sure if I'm happy to be back yet, that remains to be seen. I did have some success here the last time so I'm hoping that's one thing that will remain the same. Funny thing, the minute I signed up again I fell violently ill and have been under the weather ever since. I'm only just out of the woods. Was it a Sign? Don't know. So suffice it to say I haven't been able to get up to much as yet. When you live in africa you definitely do not want to tell potential lovers you're ill. Everyone automatically assumes its either AIDS or Ebola. Well I'm happy to report it was neither. Just pneumonia coupled with bronchitis. Anyway, like I said I'm on the mend now and hope to be making some connections pretty soon. So calling all hot men within reasonable distance. Hellooo
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Points
Posted:Nov 21, 2015 12:55 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2015 2:46 am
5491 Views

What's the purpose of the point system on here? So far the only thing I've seen them do is allow you to become a fan, which is also another thing I don't understand. Do fans get special privileges?
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