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Romantic Homosexual Surrogate!!!
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Romantic Homosexual Surrogate!!! I'm not exactly sure how I got started, but way back in the day, I was a<b> homosexual </font></b>surrogate. Yes, it is similar to a sexual surrogate, which some of you may be more familiar with, but for gay and bisexual men. It was a series of classes and conversations, followed with a few assignments to make sure they were moving along well. I feel like we all have our own way of doing things, and when you get comfortable, you branch off from that, adding your own individual flairs, highlights and styles, and basically coming into your own. After a few months, I forced them into a couple of weeks of romantic studies. Sadly, romance is a dying art, but back when it really mattered, and even today, it was what separated me from most of the pack out there in my former lines of work. Even now, it amazes how many younger guys come back to me for the beyond that "wham bam, thank you Sam!" approach, the shit that ought to come with the sex. And I think it is important, not just to excellent gay husband material like myself, but I believe a lot of the ladies would also appreciate it if their men were more attentive, more receptive, more responsive, more intimate and more romantic to them. I have this philosophy... sex is a physical celebration of one's feelings, but the art of romance is how you show those feelings in the day-to day, everyday lives. Romance is how you keep yourself lingering on your partner's mind, long after the afterglow has burned out. Then we would get into the ups and downs, the ins and outs and the variations of gay sex. Anal, oral, fetishes, oddities, the whole gambit. Answering questions and doing research to give them as much information as I could. Here,there might be some quizzes and demonstrations, possibly even doing some joint research if there was something that came up that required more study. And then, after they had passed the final, I would remind them that this was a wonderful starter kit, but there was a whole smorgasbord of things to explore, experiment with and enjoy. Because I truly believe that one's sexuality is ever-evolving, constantly changing and hopefully expanding to meet your interests, curiosities and wants, and allowing for your partners' desires and needs as well.  This donned on me because someone posed a rather interesting scenario to me, and I realized that it wasn't that much different from what I've done before. I remember one , Patrick, who came to me for help. I found this rather difficult because at some point, we would have to become physical, and he did absolutely nothing for me in that regard. He was a good student though, and I heard he met someone two month after we ended our sessions and they have been together ever since. But my prize student would have to be Brad. I knew he was going to be something special when I finished with him. And as I suspected, i would go into the bars occasionally, and hear how talented or impressive he was, and I was thrilled that I had help create that "monster." Later, I would actually see him, in a relationship with someone, and get it from him, how I made him a great lover, partner and playmate. And I must admit, I felt like a proud papa that night. Even now, I get questions from friends, exes, even family members, and that really makes me feel like I have made another small change in the world. That a few people out in the world are happier in some way from me paying it forward. In closing, I just hope you reading remember to allow your sexuality to expand within the confounds of your comforts, see each encounter as an opportunity to learn and grow, as well as to enjoy and remember your partner, and most importantly, don't ever lose the art of romance. Because in all of its forms, love never really dies. It just changes to allow for more love to come in. And when you look back at it, You will likely remember the feelings and the romantic moments more than the actual sex. |
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It seems your have amassed a treasure trove of sexual wisdom that I must say applies well for people across the sexuality spectrum. I especially take to heart the part, "sex is a physical celebration of one's feelings, but the art of romance is how you show those feelings in the day-to day, everyday lives. Romance is how you keep yourself lingering on your partner's mind, long after the afterglow has burned out. " as it is so true. I would admit that it must be done by both, but one often must do it more for it to have the deep effect you speak of. Again, thanks for posting some of your wisdom and of course your enjoyable prose! 
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You are a hopeful romantic and a silver tongued love stud! Keep on bringing smiles to the world and you won't go wrong. 
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