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You want the truth??...YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!
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You want the truth??...YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!! The truth is, things get in my head and they end up here... whether it's a personal problem or an opinion or a recent news story or just something I think is funny...and I thought I'd let you know that what you say here DOES NOT fall on deaf ears. About a month ago, I posted ARE YOU A BIG CHICKENSHIT asking for advice about things here at home with the wifey...and against my own instincts as a man...I took some of your advice!! Long story short, my wife asked me if I was happy and this time...I said no. I explained to her that when we met, I was led to believe she was open minded, adventuresome and wanted to experience things with me...like a threesome or getting together with another couple...whatever the case may be. I then told her that I still want to experience those things but I felt betrayed by her because, after 10 years together, it's obvious she isn't and maybe never was open that way at all. The discussion is ongoing, but the truth is on the table, and if it wasn't for you and your very kind and direct input and advice, we may never have come to this place...so thankyou...  More recently, I posted about some challenges with my oldest ...I Don't Know Whether to Laugh or...and in part due to responses given, I called the parents of the girl he skipped school with and let her spend time here with us this weekend. I got to know her a bit (and her parents) and saw the two of them hanging out...and it was a real blessing. They are both good who are enjoying each other, and getting to know themselves...it actually brought back some very fond memeories of my youth...and simpler times!...again, I thank you... I felt obligated and excited to share some of this news with you because you contributed to making it happen. The collective experience of everyone here is an amazing thing when we are willing to share it! Maybe you are newer to blogland, and you think that what you might have to say in response to a post doesn't matter...let me assure you...it does, and it can make a difference...  Maybe you don't have a blog...but are seeking answers to something on your mind...you can ask away right here in this post and I bet you'll get pointed in the right direction by somebody ...if it's private or serious or you're shy, my inbox is always open too (my membership allows anyone to send me an e-mail), I'll do what I can to help you out... Thanks again and have a GREAT day... lustytaurus.LUSTYTAURUS FYI...smartass remarks, bad jokes and gratuitous nudity are ALMOST always welcome here too...  |
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3/4/2007 11:21 am |
Ahh LT....that is such great news! Thanks for cluing us in.
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3/4/2007 11:25 am |
Thanks for the info......... ~~~Have Condoms, Will Travel~~~  .......Stay Happy, Stay Safe, Stay Well........
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That is so wonderful! I have had some wonderful experiences here too, that have affected my "real life" and I am often amazed at how great the friends I have made here are. I am glad that you are growing...what a great night that must have been to see your son growing into a man, and showing him that you care, accept and what to be involved in his life. Good for you! And I bet you feel 100% to at least things out in the open with the wife, right? My goodness, what a month! Gratuitous almost nudity for all your gains: [image] 
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3/4/2007 12:42 pm |
Yeah it's surprising the kind of help and support you find at a sex site... hmmm... now onto the gratuitous nudity! [image] hehehe Janie
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3/4/2007 1:42 pm |
The blogging community is a great bunch of folks, LT, that's for sure. I can almost always find something I need here...it's what keeps me coming back. It's good to hear that you've made progress in both these areas!  Power To FOK
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I think Mrs Lt is a very lucky woman... But my theory is "if it isnt broke dont fix it" However if in some small way you can make her comfortable and completely secure.. just a bit at a time then there might be a way.... But then I dont know her and I myself would look at you with more than skepticism if asked to consider being in an open relationship... Sometimes that one step is the beginning to the end of a relationship... Take care LT tender hugs...m.
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Glad communication is happening in your home. This was a nice read. Happy to see things going better for you. Org.
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VERY brave of you to broach that subject with her and get it out in the open! Pull My Fucking Hair! 
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This place continues to amaze me with the support that we all give to each other. I wish we could all be as close as the people that I met in ATL in August last year, what an amazing group of people. All of us here are diverse in what we believe in and how we think, yet we are all the same. When we need support we get it, when someone else does we give it. Surprisingly, it's do unto others as you would have done to you here. You wouldn't think that such loving warmth and energy could be had at a sex site.... for the new folks, we are so much more
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3/4/2007 6:56 pm |
It is amazing what feedback can do!  Congrats on the sort'n! Life is a journey, just ride~  ~[post 974853]~
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i always enjoy reading you..You are smart, witty , and a very good writer.
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LT, I am pleased to hear this news. Thank you kindly for the update darling. Work in Progress is a good thing. For all Time, Lady Hunter {=} After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009 
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Good post. Reminds me of a couple things I have been given here in the blogs in the way of good advice. And who would have thought it possible on a sex site...lol.
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Betrayal? Interesting choice of words... Ok, here goes, LT... Be careful what you wish for. I met my husband 20 years ago, and married him 15 years ago. From the beginning, he had always expressed an interest in bringing other people into our bed. For years he tried to convince me that it was only sex, it was me that he loved, he was doing it for me, etc. Six years ago (when our sex life had dwindled to once every 3 or 4 months), I finally gave in and agreed to swing. I figured, with things as bad as they were in the sex department, we had nothing much to lose. We did other couples and threesomes and moresomes. My husband saw me with other men, men that were taller than him, better looking than him, with bigger dicks than him, etc., whatever his insecurities were. He saw these men pleasuring me in a way that he had never been able to, and he saw me me enjoying it. He didn't like it. He called an end to the swinging, and stopped having sex with me altogether. For two long years, I tried to talk to him about it, but he wouldn't even acknowledge we had a problem. On August 13th, 2005, during our last conversation about the subject, (you KNOW it's bad when I remember the date, lol) he said something so hateful to me that it was the definitive moment my marriage died. I think sex is great, and swinging is great, and swapping and 3somes and 4somes and orgies are great, just not when you love someone. You need to get all of that out of your system before you fall in love. I find it ironic that you chose the word "betrayal" to describe how you feel about the fact that your wife doesn't want other men to touch her, or other women to touch you. It's the same exact way I felt for the 20 years that my husband, the man who claimed to love me, begged me to fuck other men. Go figure. Elevate me... 
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LT, it occurred to me that I may have spoken in such absolutes on my last post so as to appear I was judging you, or any other person that is looking for what you seek. That's certainly not the case. Some people can separate the two, and some can't.** There's nothing "wrong" with either types of people; they're just observations on my part. Just be careful that both of you want the same thing. hippiechick **Pure, subjective feeling on my part: my husband sacrificed me to get his rocks off. Elevate me...
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I put stuff out here every day that no one really cares about man. It matters to me though! Do you're thing man! I'm glad you were honest, that only leads to answers!
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3/5/2007 10:33 pm |
I just started readying blogs about two weeks ago, and when I came across yours, I was highly interested, now I am hooked! I read your blogs all the time. Sometimes I respond, sometimes I don't. I just want to say that it's refreshing to find someone who puts a post on here that is not always sexual. Sometimes, yes, sometimes no. Thank-you for sharing your life with the world, and giving us your sense of humor! Yes, this is a sex site, but it's alright to sometimes be serious and show a little maturity once in a while! *kisses*
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3/6/2007 4:51 pm |
you are so warm and generous with your thoughts and comments to me..i'm very glad that you have had a month of truth. spending time with your son...letting him see you like him..how great!! and honsety with your wife is another great thing...hugs to you
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