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Really?..REALLY??
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Really?..REALLY?? Ok...here are my questions, and they may possibly be considered as rhetoeical, but I would actually like an answer or an enlightenment.......A) Does anybody ever acknowledge when someone becomes their #1 Fan or adds them to a hotlist? and B Has anyone really found the Become a #1 Fan anything but boring and useless?...and C) Is this site and its twin Senior Sizzle becoming just a place to gawk cams and drool or is there any hope of ever REALLY meeting someone who is interested in at least some of the same things as they put in their profile ?.......I had a lot of major doubts coming in to this whole Adult site thing, but it just seems to be deteriorating into a real schlong fest, where there is a 25 to 1 guys to women ratio and though this gives women a huge herd to pick from, it puts an average man in the same position he is in going in to his local bar or laundromat. Maybe it's me, an average 56 year old guy with average looks and an average dick....I don't want to be a Sugar Daddy to a 23 year old college student( I've had 17 different offers of this ) and I don't want to be the 2cnd or 3rd part of a gang bang or swing group...if that's your thing, good on ya, but I'm looking for 1 on 1 and hoping for an LTR, but am willing to start out as fuck buddies/friends with benefits as long as it is monogamous.....This may not get read, it may draw a lot of flying monkey crap, or it may touch a nerve with people who feel like I do, but any way it goes...well, I'm thinking I may not be here a lot longer. |
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10/21/2014 7:45 pm |
As a non-paying member, I become a #1 fan simply to send a message for free. That may work for you. I think a lot of ladies don't like the "fan" system, to be honest. Lots of dick-pics, etc. I've met folks. And I have MET folks. Oddly, the people in the blogs are the best community here, from my experience. Hang in there.
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Incidentally I happen to be here from A.F-F not whichever one you're on. But to answer your questions: A: Yes, I acknowledged when ppl became my #1 fans. But then I already knew them, and we had been friends for many years in a variety of online venues (met here), and I truly thought NOBODY would top fan me, ever. I've also acknowledged most of those who top fanned after... but most of them were, again, ppl I'd known for a while and they started playing "King of the Mountain" and trying to beat everybody else. I laughed a LOT at their antics and told them how ridiculous it was... but they didn't care. Overall: I also think a lot of the novelty has worn off. And I never know somebody top fanned me unless I go to my profile and look. I had a top fan war going on my page between 3 friends for a week before I knew what was going on. B: As normalisoktoo said: non paying members are able to view profiles and send messages that way. Of course the person who fanned me for that reason had already messaged me on my blog via the private section and I followed up with a real email. We were communicating at least a month before he fanned me. BUT he got to see my profile that way. C: Sometimes I feel like a very rare bird... a woman who actually communicates with and meets people from this site LOL. I believe bloggers have a bit more luck, at least on the communication part. And once that hurdle is crossed it's often much easier to meet. I met one of my blog readers last week for coffee, and had a surprise make out session after. I lost track of how many I've met from this site (3/4 platonic) but I'm guessing near 30. Some become great friends, some just a passing cup of coffee. One moved 800 miles to live with me and we were, essentially, in a relationship for almost 8 years. Also: check out your local meet & greets. Good luck!
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This site does favor females. I don't judge based on cock size, age unless way to young or way to old, I chat and get to know them. I have made several friends not all sexual relationships. You can have success just keep trying. Good luck Borntobeefree72?* Know what you want, ask for it! The pleasure is worth it.
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