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Really?..REALLY??
Posted:Oct 21, 2014 7:37 pm
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2014 8:04 am
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Ok...here are my questions, and they may possibly be considered as rhetoeical, but I would actually like an answer or an enlightenment.......A) Does anybody ever acknowledge when someone becomes their #1 Fan or adds them to a hotlist? and B Has anyone really found the Become a #1 Fan anything but boring and useless?...and C) Is this site and its twin Senior Sizzle becoming just a place to gawk cams and drool or is there any hope of ever REALLY meeting someone who is interested in at least some of the same things as they put in their profile ?.......I had a lot of major doubts coming in to this whole Adult site thing, but it just seems to be deteriorating into a real schlong fest, where there is a 25 to 1 guys to women ratio and though this gives women a huge herd to pick from, it puts an average man in the same position he is in going in to his local bar or laundromat. Maybe it's me, an average 56 year old guy with average looks and an average dick....I don't want to be a Sugar Daddy to a 23 year old college student( I've had 17 different offers of this ) and I don't want to be the 2cnd or 3rd part of a gang bang or swing group...if that's your thing, good on ya, but I'm looking for 1 on 1 and hoping for an LTR, but am willing to start out as fuck buddies/friends with benefits as long as it is monogamous.....This may not get read, it may draw a lot of flying monkey crap, or it may touch a nerve with people who feel like I do, but any way it goes...well, I'm thinking I may not be here a lot longer.
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New Toy...late season aquasition.
Posted:Oct 6, 2014 5:53 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2014 6:46 am
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Here is the newest addition to my life....



....looking forward to a late season ride....thank the Spirit for Indian summer.
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WHY AM I HERE ?
Posted:Sep 14, 2014 6:53 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2014 7:19 pm
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Recently I have read 2 or 3 blog posts by women who are questioning their looks,sexuality, sexiness and their motivation for being on this site.Now,I'm a guy, but recently I have asked myself some of the same questions,so here goes.....Why are you here/what do you want from AdultXXXDate/AdultFreindFinder/ ???
Looking for sex/no relationship.
Looking for sex/with a relationship
Looking for FWB/fuckbuddy
Not Sure !
You tell me !
Bored/Lonely/just like to look at the pictures and naked people !
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WHY ?
Posted:Sep 11, 2014 9:37 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 8:14 am
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So,here's my question to all of the ladies on here that might care to leave a response. When a man show interest in your profile,either by adding you to his hotlist, or flirting with you, what more should he be doing? With the new system of #1 Fan, if a fellow is really interested he can even put his accrued points where his mouth is ( or may want to be...lol). Not all of us are Gold members,and some of us remain standard for reasons that we keep to ourselves.We're not all being cheap,just not all willing to do the Gold membership again,for the same results.
I have been hotlisted,flirted with, and even on a couple of occasions messaged, but it's like as soon as I show any reciprocated interest, the woman either disappears or changes her mind. One woman told me that she was interested in my profile until I showed her my picture, then she wasn't interested anymore. Ok, good enough excuse, I'm not a 6'4"220 body builder,or an Adonis like greek god, but I'm not a hideous monster either,so I guess I'm just in that "aw,he's just to average to be any fun" category. Like one of my favorite ladies on here says in her profile..."gentlemen,unless you are all Calvin Klein models,don't expect us to all be Victoria's secret Angels", and it's true in the reverse as well....I am not a model or celebrity, and I don't expect you to be one either, I'm an average guy, easy to talk to and get to know. I AM a little more edgy than most, lived a pretty wild and crazy 30 or so years in the last 56 and gained a bit of an attitude, but all in all, I'm kind of like a really good bottle of whiskey, I've aged well, mellowed some, but still pack a powerful wallop, and I'm really very good as I go down......
This is predominantly a sex site, but I'm not JUST here for sex, perhaps if more women would do what they accuse us men of NOT doing and read the whole damn profile, they would be pleasingly surprised at what they will find.
Anyway, enough of my rant, y'all have a really nice day tomorrow and then enjoy an awesome weekend...fall is coming on fast and it'd be nice to have somebody to share all the colors and sights with, maybe a drive north to watch the storms on the lakes with,cuddle beside a bonfire and just enjoy each others company...who knows ?
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A Place for Wild and Crazy to meet !
Posted:Aug 26, 2014 7:46 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 8:14 am
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I have created blogs on 2 other sites connected to this one, but since I do see some different people here at XXX I figure I'll make one here too. Some of the musings will be the same, but some will be a little more wild and off the wall, so buckle up and enjoy the ride...feel free to ask me anything and expect answers accordingly.

Top Fan... I have used some of my points to become the top fan of a couple of extraordinarily gorgeous ladies and have read the profiles that go with them.
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