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Women and humiliation
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Women and humiliation South Africans will be familiar with the "Dirk Prinsloo and Cezanne Visser" - story. Cezanne apparently got strangled up in Dirk's world of pornography and ended up being his sex slave - seemingly in ALL respects. And then, when Dirk's world got a bit warm, he left for Russia, where in Bellarus, he seemed to have repeated the same with a lady from there, called Anastacia. She said in an interview "although I am not religious, I went to a church to burn a candle to say thanks to God, when I finally was free of Dirk." How is it possible for a lady to get strangled into such scenario's? And I am honestly not condemning...I am just wondering. Add to the mix that one of the favourite sexual fantasies of women is to be ! I well realise that they do not want to live out this fantacy, but still, why ?!! I sometimes get this ugly ugly feeling that many women WANT to be dominated men. Please tell me its NOT true...? Even on this site, Mr Honestly Nice Man probably stands less of a chance to be hooked up than Mr Dominant. Or is it simply because of the nature of this site..? I.e. people join to live out the "not so normal" ? - the untraditional ? If ladies have a choice between a soft spoken, gentle, sensual man (I am not talking about a party pooper and someone with no confidence!) and a dominant go-getter, what will they choose...? (Assume the same built and looks.) It's a bit of a serious topic for a Monday morning - yet I am wondering... |
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1 post 2/7/2010 11:25 pm |
You are absolutely correct. It has been my personal observation that human nature will direct a woman to a more dominate/ confident man. This I feel is an inherant desire to mate with a good provider showing these traits all the way back to the hunter gatherer days. Mr. nice guy doesn't stand a chance, but once you show that you really could care less and if she doesn't want it there is another right around the corner, they all become interested.
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2/8/2010 2:19 am |
Good luck in finding what you're looking for...and don't complain too hard when one of them bites you...it is you exercising a choice, it seems...not so...?
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2/8/2010 2:28 am |
You are absolutely correct. It has been my personal observation that human nature will direct a woman to a more dominate/ confident man. This I feel is an inherant desire to mate with a good provider showing these traits all the way back to the hunter gatherer days. Mr. nice guy doesn't stand a chance, but once you show that you really could care less and if she doesn't want it there is another right around the corner, they all become interested. I'd never be able to involve myself in a relationship of any nature if I cannot be EQUAL partners with my companion - in all respects. I wonder how many people ever experience the pleasure of a truely aroused human body? (Who has SEEN there muscles pulling together at the slightest of finger tip touches, so aroused is their body?) Can you ever reach that status where dominance is involved? I doubt it.
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2/11/2010 10:08 pm |
I think that most women wants to date/marry Mr. Nice Guy, but just like men we are complex beings, and I for one do get turned on (at times) by a man who is not affraid to take what he wants - AFTER I've let him know that I want him. The difference between fantasy and reality is huge. Especially when it comes to the fantasy. In this fantasy the man takes what he wants and how he wants it, and the nice girl have no say in it. We might be forced to do things we normally would not do, and can therefore let go of the guilt for wanting things that we wouldn't normally admit we want. In this fantasy it will be a man that we are attracted to (or at least it will for most parts), so it ends up being enjoyable for us - orgasms and all - although things are forced upon us. No woman I know would like to be for real - most of the women I talk to about sex have had the fantasy, but neither of us would ever want to be in real life. In the real world we have no control, the guy(s) is not attractive to us (very slim chance of that), and it's not pleasureable. I hope it clears up a few things for you  Quoting :"...we are complex beings...". I know that, too, but I disagree with "...just like men..." 
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Guess women can be 'complex'? Don't sometimes understand me! Sometimes though, like in that Dirk Prinsloo story, women find themselves in a place they don't wish to be? 'Open wide these prison doors'. As for choosing Mr Dom or Mr Nice - sometimes here too, a woman can keep falling for the wrong man? Someone who will hurt her, either physically or emotionally. And then there is a man - he will open up his arms, and she will 'know' she has finally come home .... That make sense? On a 'lighter note', Women 'wanting to be ' - ah, sometimes she may even rip off her own clothes! Heat of passion thing again, but I'm sure a woman, any woman, would only want a man she can trust to .... you all know what I mean? And then she'd want 'gentle' - the wonderful 'after' ..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'! (Remember if you feel like taking part in some sexy fun then click here!) Come on Some Sketch Fun And Now How About 39Me39 Watching 39You39 If you39d like that Please Comment - So if you would like - click here as well!
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2/17/2010 6:08 am |
Guess women can be 'complex'? Don't sometimes understand me! Sometimes though, like in that Dirk Prinsloo story, women find themselves in a place they don't wish to be? 'Open wide these prison doors'. As for choosing Mr Dom or Mr Nice - sometimes here too, a woman can keep falling for the wrong man? Someone who will hurt her, either physically or emotionally. And then there is a man - he will open up his arms, and she will 'know' she has finally come home .... That make sense? On a 'lighter note', Women 'wanting to be ' - ah, sometimes she may even rip off her own clothes! Heat of passion thing again, but I'm sure a woman, any woman, would only want a man she can trust to .... you all know what I mean? And then she'd want 'gentle' - the wonderful 'after'
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