I have read many profiles, many talking about liking long strolls on the beach- Hell they live in Oklahoma, Arkansas, or Texas! Long strolls in the woods, around the pond or down by the lake I would believe. Sitting around a campfire on a cool evening, or having coffee early in the morning sitting on the deck looking to see deer coming out of the wood line going to the pond for a drink. These are amazing moments to be savored. Going to an outdoor concert or just staying at home cuddled up together on the couch watching a movie, I would be happy with either. Honesty, faithfulness (which I have not received from my previous situation), and a lack of fear of showing affection is what I will require in a relationship. I am not against being friends first, this is good, it only strengthens the affection! I do not consider myself the average man, I think that my varied past has opened my eyes, I have been in the NAVY (10yrs) and ARMY (another 10yrs), at 20 I had a side job as a male stripper for a couple of months. You women can get wild! I have been to many different countries, seen many things, some would make you shudder. I have been to Rome , Venice, and Milan on vacation. I have held another person in my arms as they died. I have seen the good and the bad in this world and wish for a caring compassionate woman to share whatever the future brings. I am 5'9" 185lbs. shaved bald mustache & gotee, In decent shape, pierced nipples and prince albert love all things anal, love giving and recieving oral. I am divorced after 17 years, been out of the dating game a long time. Decent guy, no drama will be tolerated, I will just say thanks, good knowing ya and BYE! I have a respectable job and a good reputation in the community and will not allow that to be harmed. I am looking for someone wanting a physical and emotional connection. View my pics, should give you some idea of what kind of man I am. Ya'll seem to want honesty, You got it!!!

My Ideal Person I am really open to anyone as long as they are HT/WT proportionate, don't expect barbie because I am not exactly Ken, but not bad or a slob either. Must be d/d free!!!!

I am looking for someone to give my affection to, but I will not give it to just anyone. Having sex for sex sake to get a release is great, been there done that. Willing to do it again! But making love with a connection and desire to show affection to another is so much more fulfilling. I am looking for someone in the range of 35- 50, with a good sense of selfworth, who takes care of herself physically and mentally, on the slimmer side of average, Big Beautiful women are great, but I am just not attracted to them. If you are a user of meth or any illegal drugs keep looking! I want to be proud to take you places and be seen canoodling in public. If this makes me shallow, I guess I am, I know I am a vain person. I like to dress well, I even die my gotee LOL! If women can do their hair, I can too!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A lack of sex has dulled my fantasy mind, I am just looking
for someone who is interested in sex we can get the fantasies
going from there!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There are several, but the thought of attainability of
the local checkout girl or shopper is more enticing.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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