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lets try it this way...  

rm_chanda69 55F
410 posts
7/27/2006 8:18 pm

Last Read:
10/15/2008 5:09 pm

lets try it this way...


"I just moved into the A*******e area and was looking about. It is interesting to see people on line but so far I have yet to meet a sexy lady like Chandra that would love to have hot sex all day long. I am still looking for a sexy lady like Chandra in the A********e area that would love to get together and have some fun. As for sex in a public place, how about the dressing room at a victoria secrets."

this is what i had in a comment recently. it is, by the way, the first comment i have deleted from my blog. it is the reason for this post. it seems like every few weeks i end up having a bitch fit over something like this. so this time I'm going to try a different tactic.

"HOW TO FLIRT ON MY BLOG"
while i realize this is a sex personals site, there are still rules of etiquette that should be followed on the blogs. if you see a profile that you find interesting, & they have a blog, go to it & read. don't comment on the first thing you see, & unless the blogger says they're taking applications, don't start off this way!!! anyone that reads my blog will see that there are several individuals that i talk to regularly, & if you really read my profile, you will know I'm NOT looking to meet anyone in person, & I'm not into chat rooms. those that i do converse with here regularly did not start off here by saying they were looking for a fuck buddy. they started off with a comment about something in a post, usually something G-rated, & not an invitation, or anything so direct. leave something funny, or that will make me smile. i may not get back to you the first time,( i have a lot going on- something you'd know if you read some of the older stuff) but if you leave a witty one liner a couple of times, at the very least you wont be deleted like this guy, & if i check you out & I'm not interested, maybe someone else that reads here will be! some of my favorite buddies here i first saw on someone else's blog.

so don't be discouraged, just keep reading! try reading the blogs of people that are responded to favorably.
like Ox612 timberwolf6972 spunky11961

also, see [blog Kaliedascope61] How to pick up women on the blogs revised and revisited several pages back- cant get the link to work-- notice the number of hot women that have responded to this post???? there is a reason for it!!!

you don't have to be a prolific writer to get a response, just a little more subtle.

oh & by the way, it helps to spell my name right!!

snuggles!!!

XXXOOOXXX chanda

XXXOOOXXXchanda


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
7/28/2006 1:24 am

any other tips i should know about?... [wink]
does it help to have a blog of your own?... lol...
kisses.


rm_chanda69 55F
417 posts
7/28/2006 11:28 pm

Damn i feel so..... honored! or is it hornee... anyway, thanks for visiting!!! i really appreciate all that have been here ! especially right at this moment!-- MORE LATER!
love you all !!!!

XXXOOOXXX chanda

XXXOOOXXXchanda


timberwolf6972 51M

7/30/2006 2:23 am

AWWW ty my pet! You are so very sweet for this! We need to do your interview soon {=}


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