Introverted, kind, collector of experiences If more becomes of it, I would be open to that. I tend to be attracted to larger, older women but that preference certainly is not set in stone. When I am not working, I enjoy traveling, reading and trying new restaurants. I love weekends that start with reading and writing in a coffee shop. And of course a weekend nap is essential and appreciated, Likes: kayaking, champagne, patty melts, quality reading and writing, being near water, traveling, learning Dislikes: bread pudding, okra Bonus Point: Knows MB and Enneagram type

My Ideal Person Someone who can engage in conversation that doesn't immediately veer to sex. Tell me about your day, what podcast you're listening to; tell me about a dream you never gave up on, let's play Where Should We Begin (search Esther Perel). Or...let's give silence its due respect and just be,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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