I can't believe I have to say this. I am so tired of all the lame asses out there that think all they have to do is speak to me and I will drop my panties for them. If you want that then go pay someone for that. That's not a magic wand in your pants, if you don't believe me I'll send you a picture of one. If I can't be seen with you in public and have real conversations with you then I don't need you in my life. I am not looking to be your side piece or any other sorted description you have in mind. I am looking to make new friends, long term friends. My best friend started as my FWB 15 years ago. Like every woman I have been hurt so I have trust issues. Unlike other women I will not run and hide. To all of you who think that just because I expressed an interest in BDSM that you are welcome to walk in, tie me up and do whatever you want to me; give it a try, one of us will leave in cuffs, the other in an ambulance! Send me a picture of your face. You have seen mine and I expect the same courtesy in return. I have a job and I pay my own bills. I may not live in the lap of luxury but I don't live in the poorhouse either. My job keeps me on the road M-F and sometimes into Saturday. My free time is often limited so we will chat until our schedules mesh and I'm actually comfortable meeting you. I will NOT drop everything in my life to cater to your wants and needs. If you don't like what I have to say, i could care less, find someone else then. There are no ads connected with this account and I could care less about your money. I am honest and an actual per, someone's , sister and friend. If you don't want it said to your sister, , or mother why makes you think its ok to say it to me? Still here? Try hello...

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who can be HONEST, I'm not married to you there is no reason to lie to me. A good sense of humor is always helpful. Someone to have fun with. A face pic would be good too. If you're looking to go sneaking around, Please look somewhere else. Unless you have a note from your wife. I don't need the drama!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Maybe later...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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