I am an easy going, social and i hope fun single mom who enjoys living life to the fullest, exploring new places, things, and people and is not inhibited by the constraints of society's expectations or norms. As my bio indicates, I have been married once before, but that seems a life time ago. My life has evolved from a very career orientated life to one centered around making each day the best I can as I have learned taht no money, friendship, or magic potion will ever be able to give the happiness i hpe to find and gain in living my life the way i believe it should be lived. I hold myself to the highest standard and i am definitely my harshest critic but am hopeful that in the past few years i have started to unwind and not hold those i have in my life to any standards that they cannot or don't want to achieve. I am the supportive type but not in the way many seem to wish I was and am often quickly disenchanted by those who expect me to be their sugar mama. I ask that if you are interested in getting together you seriously evaluate your ability to do so... if you lack a car, a home, or resources to take me out then chances our we will not be able to have the fun as adults i think at this time we have earned and should be able to enjoy. I hope if you are local aka in the Bay Area, open and available to explore new relationships given that a time and financial investment will be required in any relationship and are confident that you have the ability to engage in a potential relationship that you do what you feel is your best foot forward and ask me out. I am not looking to hear about someone else's divoerce and the how miserable it has made you and/or your family (i know it sucks, i imagine most will say that the other partner was the devil but i honestly need you to be over your last partner and ready to start something new even if not seiruos and not for ever but for just right now, works!). If you are the jealous type feel free to let me know and seriously consider how we met... i must have been chatting with you and a few others so please don't throw "fans" back at me or make snide comments that scrfeam you are jealous and can't handle the idea of someone else engaging in dialougue iwith me. FInally, please do what you can to make yourself as transparent as possible. i don't want you to be anything but you. i hope that you will be honest with me as i hope to be entirely honest with you. this includes things such as meeting someone for the first time and knowing right off the bat that neigher of you are a fit for the other and then just trying to make theins work or fun the rest of the night and leaving me with a half dozen promises that you never come through and delbier upon. if you are the type to promise the moon and the starts but end up serving me rocks and weeds I will be seriosuly bujmed and liekly only speak to you again in the event i have to get something of yours back to you or vice versa or we had a future engagement that as mature adults we should have no problem dealing with. All alright, if the profile isn't totally offensive to you and you still think i might have some hope in your eyes then keep on checking me out on my profile or when i broadcast... just remember there is a few of you and just one of one.. so be kind.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone like you...
I like someone who takes time to get to know me, my likes and dislikes, my wants and needs, and who is not afraid to share with me what it is they are looking for not only in the bedroom but in the personal and professional lives and regardless of where they are now defintiely know where they are going... and like to go and do stuff... hopefully for the betterment of themselves or to help others.
i prefer people who are opptomistic or at a minimum realitstic.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
interest in listening to me

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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