[COLOR darkblue] \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**Please live within 20 minutes (or so) of Seattle.** I'm looking for more than one-time meet-ups. A friends with benefits situation would be great. I am most attracted to guys 35-48 years old. The way to get to know me is through my mind, liking sex doesn't equate to being superficial. I've got a body and a mind and I use them with equal effectiveness. I always meet in public first with no sex on first meet, no exceptions. It's a peral safety issue. Me? I'm just a sane, worldly, fun-loving yet down-to-earth technical professional who loves sex. Men find me easy to relate to. My self-esteem is healthy, I'm comfortable with my body, nudity, sexuality. You'll find me kind, funny, warm, and usually smiling. I'm also socially adaptable, a good conversationalist, intelligent, well-traveled and educated. I'm here to have FUN but I'm also selective about my lovers. I'm experienced, former "lifestyler" and I know what I'm looking for. I'm very generous and expect the same. I save the kink for confidants, so looking to keep it pretty vanilla. Looking for safe, discreet fun with a SINGLE guy. No married, separated, or attached people or newbies who aren't sure what they want, afraid to meet, etc., please.[COLOR darkblue][/COLOR][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person *I always meet in public first, with no sex on first meet, no exceptions.*

Must be considerate, respectful, clean, SINGLE. I tend to have most in common with other professionals but I also enjoy the company of artists and musicians. Full dentition and 6.5"+ endowment are preferred. Mutual chemistry is of course a must. I tend to be drawn to people who have a clear sense of self, a strong sense of humor, and easy-going nature. Well-educated, time abroad, travel, and well-read a bonus.

PLEASE NOTE:

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*I'm a real person. Please be real also. If I don't respond within a week, that usually means I'm not interested.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*come-ons like "hey baby" and one liners aren't going to elicit a response from me. Tell me about you, why you wrote to me. Don't brag, just be honest. These are the mails I most often respond to.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Just in town for the week/weekend? Not interested, thanks. Its a personal safety issue.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
No way! Only my intimates get access to such knowledge.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level, sexual ability

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