Basic Info Sex: Male Birthday: February 2 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Relationship Status: Single ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested In: Men Women Looking For: Friendship Dating A Relationship Networking ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Current City: Whiteville, North Carolina Hometown: Whiteville, North Carolina Political Views: Democratic Party - Far Left! Religious Views: Unitarian Universalist ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Bio I grew up in Whiteville, NC; but I've been away since high school graduation... I'm back now in my hometown and loving it! I work 100% remotely from my home - with JPMorgan Chase - as a Vice President, Sr. Transaction Manager in Capital Markets area - buying and selling loans to/from Investors and to Wall Street (as underlying collateral in private label securities) Perfect Match: First, let it be known that I am OPEN to all races! And I must have a very multicultural, like-minded match who is all about diversity... I'm looking for a NON-SMOKER who engages in only one-on-one relationships. I'm not into looks at all; I look for heart. My ideal match must be fully confident in his/her own skin. I'm looking for a real, confident man/woman (who acts like a man/woman respectively and does not ascribe to the general "gay lifestyle/bullshit." I think of myself a real mans-man, who is strong, "butch"/macho, well spoken and very out spoken... I love to fish and hunt - just like some straight men... Acutally I'm better at outdoor activities and sports than most straight men...I call myself a straight -bi-man... Yes, Seriously...! I want someone similar... But, I'm a top-only...; so I need someone who can handle that sexually, should things eventually progress to that... I am very old-fashion, so I take dating...leading to sex - VERY, VERY slowly... So If you're looking for a "quick trick", look elsewhere because I'm definitely NOT the answer! Ideal Date: Mutal respect and honesty...Meeting in a public setting, perhaps dinner (I'm a gourmet cook; so maybe I'll even make dinner), movie, maybe a bar... Although I am definitely NOT into the gay bar/club scene AT ALL... Take a look at my activities and interests; I'm sure we can find something there of MUTUAL interest we can do on a first date! Here are my pet peeves: 1. People who have very little or no information on their profiles. 2. Profiles that read, "If you want to know more about me, just ask...". 3. People who don't take the time to read profiles...and have no problem admitting that fact to you; instead they bypass your profile and only go to the pics, only to end up saying, "WOW!!! SEXY!!!", etc. 4. Smokers (who express an intimate interest in me), excessive drinkers/alcoholics and drug users who try to make a connection with me. 6. Blacks/African Americans who still continue to talk that "hood language"/Ebonics and who still continue to use the N word. I find this behavior EXTREMELY disrespectful and actually harmful to the dignity of our race - SERIOUSLY!!!... I'm not perfect; I'm no better than anyone else; I'm not self-centered, stuck-up, conceited, self-loathing, or self-indulging; And I'm definitely NOT into a per's looks or outer beauty; those attributes are extremely unimportant to me... Beauty is only skin deep and fades quickly...! Perality Strengths: Compassionate, No-Nonsense, Fun-Loving Favorite Color: Yellow Favorite Number: 3 Favorite Sport: Tennis (I played in hight school and college....and played on a 4.0 USTA doubles team in the late 1990s)... Favorite Pro Baseball Team: Atlanta Braves (not such a great records in the last few years) Favorite College Team: UNC Chapel Hill (especially mens and womens basketball) Favorite Stones: Onyx and the amethyst (semi-precious stones).... and of course real men like diamonds Favorite Metals: Platinum, Gold Favorite Breed: Dobberman Favorite Icebreakers: What last made you laugh? What is your favorite sport to watch? What is your favorite sport to play? Do you play any instruments? What is your favorite food? What inspires you? Where do you like to go out to eat? What movie do you never get tired of watching? What is your motto in life? What is your happiest hood memory? Do you prefer hugs or kisses? What would you cook for a date at home? ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Favorite Quotations: From Color Purple:"'Seem like the mo' thangs change, the mo' dey' stay the same..." From Torch g Trilogy: "Well I'm not editing out the parts of my life that you don't like..." From Erykah Badu's g "On and On":"I'm plantin' seeds, so I reaps what I sow - you know?" ... From Erykah Badu's g "On and On": "The man who knows someting... knows that he knows nothing at all" From Steel Magnolias: "I would rather have 30 minutes of WONDERFUL...than to have a lifetime of nothing special" From an excerpt from a Maya Angelou essay: "...People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel..." Education and Work: Employer: JPMorgan ChaseDecember 1995 - Present Vice President, Sr. Transaction Manager Whiteville, North Carolina Vice President, Sr. Transaction Manager in Capital Markets area - buying and selling loans to/from Investors and to Wall Street (as underlying collateral in Private Label Securities) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Grad School Pfeiffer University MBA Business Management - 3.67 GPA - Magna Cum Laude MBA ---------------------------------------------------------------------- College Pfeiffer University Mathematics - 3.67 GPA - Magna Cum Laude Business - 3.67 GPA - Magna Cum Laude Double Major: BS & BA -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- High School Whiteville High School - Honor Graduate_ 5th in Graduating Class Likes and Interests/Activities: Listening to Music, Making Good Music, Classical Singing, Working Out, Exercising, Hunting and Fishing, Being Outdoors, Being With Friends, Outdoor activities, Internet, Interior design, Dicking Around, Working, Francois Sagat, Swimming, Motorcycles, Truckers, Eating, Gardening, Planet Fitness, Watching Movies, Hiking ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Interests: Antiquing, Hunting, Fishing, Singing Opera, Making Good Music, Camping, Tennis, Sports, Cooking, Reading, Traveling, Decorating Antiquing ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Music Opera, Classical, Jazz, Blues, Hip hop music, Contemporary R&B, Rock and Roll and Some Country, Doug Baron, Alfreda Gerald, Thomas Hamp, Samuel Ramey, Kathleen Battle, Marilyn Horne, Beverly Sills, Leontyne Price, DJ George Roussos, Bear Force One, Ja Aldean, Eminem, Rock music, DJ Chris Padilla, Ismael Rivas, Manuel Carranco, Colton Ford, Violinist Giora Schmidt, Eric Clapton, Bob Dylan, Maxwell, Gospel music, George Strait, Bruce Springs, Whitney Houston, Rock, Alicia Keys, Country music, I Like a Lil Bit of Everything, Opera Tenor Sune Hjerrild, Michael Carrera, DJ Christian Cal, Luciano Pavarotti, Maria Callas, Montserrat Caballé, Harry Connick, Jr., Mary J. Blige, Lauryn Hill, India Arie, Erykah Badu Opera -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Favorite Books/Authors: Thomas Moore, Maya Angelou, E Lynn Harris Novels, Alice Walker, Cornel West, Terry McMillan, Stephen King, Shakespeare plays, The Bible Thomas Moore ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Favorite Movies: Torch g Trilogy, Color Purple, Far from Heaven, Steel Magnolias, Kiss of the Spider Woman, Dirty Laundry, The Brothers, Brokeback Mountain and My Beautiful Laundrette ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Favorite Television Shows: True Blood, Modern Family, Desperate Housewives, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, Dexter, Hung, Judge Judy, NCIS, NCIS: Los Angeles, Californication, Entourage, The Sopranos, Criminal Minds, The Office, Saturday Night Live , The Ellen DeGeneres Show, The Big C, The Colbert Report, CSI: Crime Scene Investigation, CSI: NY, Grey's Anatomy, Burn Notice, House and CSI: Miami

My Ideal Person Perfect Match:
First, let it be known that I am OPEN to all races! And I must have a very multicultural, like-minded match who is all about diversity... I'm looking for a NON-SMOKER who engages in only one-on-one relationships.

I'm not into looks at all; I look for heart. My ideal match must be fully confident in his/her own skin. I'm looking for a real, confident man/woman (who acts like a man/woman respectively and does not ascribe to the general "gay lifestyle/bullshit." I think of myself a real mans-man, who is strong, "butch"/macho, well spoken and very out spoken... I love to fish and hunt - just like some straight men... Acutally I'm better at outdoor activities and sports than most straight men...I call myself a straight -bi-man... Yes, Seriously...!

I want someone similar... But, I'm a top-only...; so I need someone who can handle that sexually, should things eventually progress to that...
I am very old-fashion, so I take dating...leading to sex - VERY, VERY slowly...
So If you're looking for a "quick trick", look elsewhere because I'm definitely NOT the answer!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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