UPDATE: 1/25/2013- I am looking for QUALITY, not QUANTITY.... If you have to ask where I live, you are not doing your research.... I am looking for a real friend that is LOCAL and that can be a "regular" friend that wants to share regular times ie: Dinner, Drinks, Music, stupid stay at home movies with popcorn etc., besides bedroom times. Do not contact me if anything other then that applies..... I am not interested..... "If you can't Dazzle them with Intelligence, Baffle them with Bullshit. " If this is you, please go fish elsewhere.......I hate liars or people that lead you on...that could also mean if you have pics up that are 10 years old and I go to meet you and cannot recognize you...we have a problem. I am looking for fun and relaxation now... Whatever happens after, happens I like Men who are just a lil younger then me or men my age who can keep up with me...AND LIVE CLOSE BY... No out of state, or out of reach men please......... Looking for a real connection. The chemistry "spark" as you might say....It could be friends first, then see what happens. I have varied interests. First and foremost are my ren. They are older now (22 & 18) so I have a bit more free time. I do not want any more ren, but if you have ren, that is great!! Oh, you MUST make me laugh!!!!! Bonus points if you know what SCON means....hee hee hee I am not a Bikini girl, I wear Board shorts.... Ya, can you guess I am a TomBoy? But still can be the ultimate lady in a full length gown on your arm..... My friends say I am very caring, loving, loyal, supportive, smart, funny and very sarcastic. I love romance and am very affectionate and with the right per very passionate. I like most music and love a night out listening to local bands. I also love the quiet nights in on the couch with a movie and that someone special. I like trips to AC, spending time with my friends and long drives to nowhere. I love picnics. I love to cook. NYC, plays, musicals or just a day of window shopping. If you cannot take a smart ass remark, you are not for me..... I love ALL sports. Either watching or attending, it doesn't matter. Football, be it College (Notre Dame)or NFL(Raiders)and Baseball(A's/Yankees)are my favorites. But I will keep up and watch Nascar, Hockey, Boxing or some down and dirty UFC. I don't really care for Basketball, but will catch a few games live. If you like other teams, it can be quite an interesting game day if we watch together.... I love to have fun and I am always laughing and making those around me laugh. I am such a dork and sometimes totally corny. I look for free entertainment everyday, even if it is myself. . I want a man that can be strong and sensitive and that has strong values and integrity. Having fun and making us both laugh!! Be affectionate with hand holding, stolen kisses, touching....It shouldn't matter what we are doing as long as we are together doing it. I am not looking for Mr. Perfect...Just perfect for me......If I have peeked your interest, drop me a line. If you have ANY questions, feel free to ask. DON'T BE SHY...JUST SAY HELLO......IT'S A START...

My Ideal Person No pressure, no strings.... See where it goes...Not too quiet, I am sociable....

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
OHHHHHHHHHHHH, this is only for a REAL partner to know...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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