I’m a 55 year old white male, in pretty good shape that has decided to look around. I was a little wild in my s, tried a few things, had fun. I’ve been married 33 years, still love her, but the sex is gone. She was always pretty conservative, but since menopause, not only is it painful, but she doesn’t want to do anything. I’ve been patient and supportive, but it’s been 3 times in the last 2 years. I thought I’d look around. See what everyone is doing?