I've been very busy for the past couple of months on the work front. As you can imagine, my social life and sex life have suffered. Greatly. ;) I'm one of those women who really enjoys sex. It's been years since I've had really playful, enjoyable sex. I'd prefer to find a really good friend to get together for sexual and non-sexual fun. Ideally, I would like that one dude who I can trust and really open up to. I'm not into swinging or looking to meet up for an orgy in a hotel somewhere. I hate people who use the word, "host". I'm not looking to be part of some sort of sexual sub-culture. I simply want an attractive, intelligent man to be my friend with possibly more. Expecting to swap and have me instantly at your door is just not realistic. Or safe. I wish people would understand that not everyone is willing to make such grand, sweeping risks just to fuck.

My Ideal Person Distance is a factor for me. I would prefer someone in the SE Wisconsin area. Age isn't a huge factor as I know a lot of older guys can be quite stunning, and younger guys can be quite willing. I just prefer someone who is in pretty good shape (you don't have to be some ideal of perfection, I'm not!). Personality is the hugest factor of all. Great personality is the sexiest asset of them all.

Pictures are a MUST. Do not contact me without pictures, you will NOT get a response. NO EXCEPTIONS. Also, if you are more than 50 miles away, I probably won't respond. I'm looking for someone who is available AND LOCAL.

NO Married or attached individuals. I want the freedom of having you whenever possible. I don't want to "share" you with someone who doesn't completely satisfy you in the first place. It's just depressing. Besides, I'm not immune to falling for someone completely. In that case, I certainly wouldn't want a third party involved.

Lastly, I'm not interested in being with a married couple for a MULTITUDE of reasons.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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