Discreet bi-sexual man looking for fun. NSA FWB. I am a responsible, respectful man. I’m DDF and a non smoker. I don’t mind someone who smokes weed but I’m no way going to be with someone who is into heavy drugs. Cigarette smokers are fine as well, just don't taste like an ashtray. I’m married to a man but at times I need more…and sometimes I just like to be with a woman, or a couple. If a friendship evolves then all the better. I'm not here to have a dozen lovers I would just like to make a few friends for fun in and out of the bedroom. I am a chef so my schedule is a little lopsided compared to most. I’m free during the day, weekdays. I can do some night time rendezvous but it is rare. I do not host but I am willing to meet at a hotel if you can’t or don't want to host either. I prefer to chat a few times here and then see if there is a mutual desire to take the next step. I'm not talking endless emails but safety is first.

My Ideal Person A good match with men would be someone who is a versatile (but not required) go with the flow kind of man. I’m versatile in that respect. Someone who is 40 and older and is just looking to have fun. If you are a bottom and would like me to top all I ask is that you are experienced in that regard.

A good match with single women is a lady who is just looking for a good time. Whatever that entails. Meeting for a drink or a meal first is best. I prefer 40 and over as well. Size and skin color is not an issue with me. I love performing oral sex and I am very thorough. But more importantly I will treat you like a lady unless you tell me otherwise.

When I play with couples I know my place. I’m being invited into your realm and I know how to show respect. I’m well mannered in that regard. If the man is straight I will respect that as well. Just because I am bisexual doesn't mean that I would try anything with him. My hands and such will only go where the two of you want. Need a bull? I am your man. Otherwise I am a go with the flow kind of man. I prefer to meet for drinks first and see if the chemistry works for all of us.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ask me

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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