I'm mainly looking for sexy (thin, athletic, average) white, Hispanic and/or Native American men (age 20-50) for casual sex, no strings. Men who are willing to give a good back massage before sex will definitely be shown preference. And yes, the title means I will gladly blow you if you give a good back massage. (and I find you attractive. No face pic, no meeting...no exceptions!) IMPORTANT: If we set up a meeting for a specific time and date and you don't confirm with me that morning that you're still coming, I will assume you're chickening out on me(as some men on here do) If I say 3 PM, do not show up at 1 PM and expect me to drop whatever I'm doing to see you early. If I say 3 PM, that means I'm not available until 3 PM. If you're going to cancel, do it as soon as possible so I can make new plans. Please don't be rude. Thank you! I was giving second and third chances, but this has ended up causing me to not get laid when someone doesn't show up and I've told another guy I'm busy cuz I was expecting the per who said they'd be here, to show! So, if you set a time and date and pull a no call/text/message-no show, I will NOT give you another chance. Period. I've fallen for enough bullshit excuses to last me a lifetime. If you wanna get laid, show up. Otherwise, don't bitch on your profile that women on here aren't real or you can't find someone to fuck you. I also want to find a clean, attractive bi female who is willing to join me and one or more of my boyfriends for occasional 3somes or 4somes. But, this is very low priority at the moment. You must be in or willing to travel to Winona. I do NOT drive, so this is non-negotiable.

My Ideal Person Straight white or Hispanic male, In good shape, with lots of energy, age 20-50, high sex drive, open-minded. Willingness to join in 3somes or more-somes a plus. Reasonably attractive, especially fond of men with brown hair and blue or green eyes.

If your dick is over 9 inches long, please don't bother contacting me. I find it painful and I'm not into it. If you're overly thick that can be a problem too. My mouth and pussy are both smaller than average. So, I definitely want a dick pic and a face pic and a body pic before I will agree to meet you.

Warning: I've been a member here in the past and I had problems with men sending me old photos of them before they put on 50+ pounds. I agreed to meet them only to have them show up looking nowhere near as good as their photo. IN the past, I felt bad that they drove a lot of miles for sex so I mercy fucked them. I will NOT do that anymore. If you show up looking nothing like your photo, I will send you home without sex. DO NOT lie to me.

Also, due to an extremely traumatic sexual assault during my teenage years, I am unable to have sexual relations with black men. Do not message me and try to convince me that you can cure my PTSD or any of that bullshit. You can't. I'm sorry, but I am only willing and able to fuck white, Native American, and Hispanic men. Thank you for your understanding as this is a sensitive and difficult issue for me and I don't want to have to keep explaining it to people. Apparently, I need to be more specific about this problem: IT IS NOT A MATTER OF CHOICE FOR ME! I go into a severe state of anxiety if an unrelated black MALE gets too forward with me or touches me inappropriately. I have NO control over this. I have TRIED to "get over it". . I have cousins who are half black that I love with all my heart. IF a sexy black woman wanted to join me in a threesome I'd be all for it. I CANNOT handle being hit on or touched by black MEN. If you honestly think I enjoy going into severe anxiety attacks you're an idiot. DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you don't understand how this issue affects me, that is your problem, not mine. I'm having an anxiety attack right now because a black man presumed to judge me and basically accuse me of holding what happened to me against all black men unfairly. Like I can just make myself not have anxiety attacks. So yes, you will make me angry if you fuck with me on this. Thank you for letting me rant and I hope you will understand and not fuck with me about it.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Alice Cooper, Katy Perry, Christina Perri, NIckelback, Poison,
TobyKeith,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Various celebrities over the years. If I have to pick one,
I'd take Jensen Ackles. He plays Dean Winchester on
Supernatural. He's fucking hot.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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