***UPDATE*** It seems on AFF that there is no clear way to change my account from single male to couple without creating a whole new account. So, while the account stays the same, the good news is that my wife is opening to the swing lifestyle. But only for MFM threesomes at this time. I'm hoping that will lead her to feel more comfortable with the idea of being with a couples, time will tell. About us: We are an average couple living in the Raleigh area of North Carolina. We have only been in this area since October 2015. We have both been previously married. I (the husband) had been active in the swing lifestyle for a number of years in a previous marriage. Her (the current wife) has no experience with the swing lifestyle. My stats are listed on the profile info, hers are that she is 5 feet tall, a few extra pounds, non-smoker, social drinker, straight, Caucasian, high school graduate, born in 1968, dark hair, green eyes. Anything beyond that you'll have to ask. We enjoy hanging around the house watching tv, or sitting on our back porch. Open to exploring new activities.

My Ideal Person At this point, we are looking for a guy that we get along with. Someone that both her and I can be friends with. Someone who is DD free, as we are. Someone who like to laugh, a love for history is a plus.