I'm a mid-50s single man, professionally educated and employed, who enjoys movies, plays, art museums, and good books. But I am also devoted to the sensual escape from reality -- sharing fantasies, short-term and long-term affairs, and helping a special lady moan in ecstasy!

My Ideal Person My ideal lady friend is discreet but uninhibited -- she doesn't need to tell everybody about her sex life, but she has numerous fantasies about both real-life acquaintances/friends and fictional partners (including celebrities). She reads both current affairs and fiction. So, smart = sexy for me!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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