Let's face facts...I'm a good bit older and a lot less bolder than I used to be (Bob Seger said that first)...and probably a bit older than you were looking for, BUT experience is a good teacher and I have been well taught. I may have been with your mother or, for some of you, your grandmother. I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm much better ONCE than I ever was. I'm no sexual athlete (never was) and no Superman. So, if you are looking for hard pounding, all night action, I am not your man. But if you like it nice and long and slow and delicious with lots of kissing and foreplay, give me a try. Plus I have warm, soft hands; ten very talented fingers and an amazing tongue. I consider myself a well-traveled and experienced teddy bear seeking playmate, friend, lover and more. Prefer one consistent partner to smorgasbord. You have your life; I have mine. It would be nice to get together a couple of times a week to share dancing, intelligent ideas, fun, cooking, camping, relaxed simplicity. And then we might travel together once in a while. I like natural, the more natural the better. High intelligence a plus! I know how to please a woman in and out of bed. Race unimportant (my ID says Caucasian). Slim, average and "shapely" OK; Potato and pear do not constitute shapely. No-Nos include: tobacco, chewing gum, (please - take out your oral needs on me!), pretentiousness and artifice. You have probably “been around the block” much more than once. Well-developed sense of humor a real asset. All responses answered. The mind is the biggest sex organ. And I appreciate straight-forward people who walk their talk. No time for games (except mutually pleasureable ones) :) You might say I am "experienced" and really know how to and enjoy pleasuring a woman. The more you moan and scream, the better I get. Also, I am a professional photographer and would be happy to consider taking some really good pictures of you. While "good at what I do" I'm not into anything too far out - just about anything one-on-one except B&D or S&M, but otherwise pretty much anything goes. Mostly prefer just me and you, but have been known to engage in the occasional threesome or foursome. Not too interested in dominance and submission. I think power should be shared and free to flow both directions between healthy partners. I love skin-on-skin and am very touchy/cuddly. I love the feel, smell and taste of every inch of a woman's body. Also I love hair...in ALL the right places. Definitely prefer unshaven pubes. Oh,....and everything's better when wet (well lubricated...naturally)! I'm a little shy at first and get better as time goes on. I believe in common courtesy, respect and manners. In this way, I guess, I'm pretty old-fashioned. However, in many other ways I'm a pretty radical thinker. Would like a photo as soon as. Will exchange explicit photos or videos on request.

My Ideal Person Looking for an intelligent woman with a sense of humour and herself who is comfortable with her sexuality. She is an accomplished lover who has outgrown her sexual hangups and realizes that sex is only the nicest thing two people can do for one another, not a bargaining chip of some kind. She likes phone sex, webcam sex, but still thinks one-on-one, skin-on-skin is the best. She knows what to do with my bits as well as hers and is not bashful in the bedroom (or wherever we decide is the place). Alternatively, a younger woman with a naughty turn of mind who would like to learn from a gentle, patient, experienced mentor. She should be able to say "F**K" comfortably, but not too often. Very open to other races and ethnic backgrounds.

I wish I could say different, but not into anyone significantly overweight. A little extra padding perfectly OK, even preferred (see my blog - Weighty Questions). I am often misunderstood and get in trouble with this. I actually like women with curves...just not blobs.

I guess it may seem trite but I definitely subscribe to the "lady in the parlour, tart in the bedroom" ideal and, hopefully, you have something to say when vertical as well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Eagles, Rolling Stones, Bobs - Seger and Dylan, BB King,
Buddy Guy, U2, INXS

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I mostly fantasize about my current partner and what I would
like to do together, which usually winds up in her having
one or more mind blowing orgasms. However, one occurred
to me recently...and I lived it. I meet someone on AFF who
lives in another city. We agree to meet halfway, but she
cannot get away until after work so I get a motel room, text
her the info, leave the key under the mat. Then I shower and
go to bed since she is not expected until after midnight.
She arrives, lets herself in, showers and slips betweeen
the sheets with me. That's what I call getting introduced
properly.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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