"To DO is to BE" - Plato "To BE is to DO" - Aristotle "DO BE DO BE DO" - Sinatra (Strangers in the Night) (Saw this on a T shirt in Greece in 06) [B]STANDARD MEMBERS CAN CONTACT ME[/B] I have been trying to get back in a single’s lifestyle, after spending the last 14+ years in a committed relationship, (unavailable for almost 30 years, including first marriage). This can be a little intimidating and scary, as well as exciting. Wow, look at the possibilities. I'm an easy going, nonjudgmental guy, always treating people with respect and honesty, who's looking for new things to try out. Right now commitment-wise, it doesn't have too be serious, so long as we enjoy it. I am leaning towards some type of LTR. I'm far too young to spend my life alone. I've learned how these IM and Chat things work, even though the for this site sucks the big one most of the time. Things I enjoy out of the bedroom are big band /swing music, music from th 70's and 80's, fine dining,(where would you like to have Dinner? Ric's in St Albert, Chop in Edmonton, on the Grand Anse beach in Grenada?), live theater, dinner theater, comedy clubs, dining out, golfing, travel, cruises, and oh yeah,,,,,, wait for it dancing I really prefer partner dancing. I’ve been taking less, in ballroom dancing (rumba, foxtrot, jive, some swing, waltz, samba, cha-cha, tango,(not necessarily a fav, but can do it) Viennese waltz,) as well as some country (2 step and limited on 6 step). It would be nice to find some one to go dancing with, either before or after dinner, (have you ever done [B]Bachata[/B](google it) on the beach in the middle of the afternoon), as well as to continue or start new classes with. The philosophy I am living by, things happen for a rea, we may not understand them, and it may not be our rea, but be open and receptive, its all about choice. My choices will make my life. Stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I want to explore a few new options and see how they work out. I hope I’ve stirred enough interest. As far as size goes, and after seeing others on here, I think fit somewhere between a little extra padding and ample. I have been and continue to reduce. But then again that's in the eyes of the beholder. Sorry, I only have "G-rated" pics for now, I don't have any "peral" photos --yet, need to find the right per!! Although discretion is not necessary, it is appreciated, and will be given, We all have lives outside of this site. As well, it is not absolutely necessary at first, a picture of you at some time, without me having to ask, would be appreciated with your correspondence. You see me, it's only fair

My Ideal Person Someome who fits with my likes listed below
Age, race, color, religion really are not barriers for me.

Be clean, outside and inside, be presentable, be respectful

Things I like in the bedroom, I really don’t have a lot of taboos, and some of those may even be negotiable. I’m not opposed to experimentation. The specifics? That’s a whole new topic that we can cover later, after we know each other better

Foreplay is underrated and under used. I like lots of foreplay before penetrating.

As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is anyplace there is breathable air available.

I am not really into extramarital affairs, which
I feel, is vastly different than swinging. Although they could add excitement to a relationship, it would definately be more yours than mine.
If you are part of a couple and are playing by yourself, I would prefer your significant other knew. I was on the bad end of that situation with my first wife. AND----How would you feel?.

OK, I'm done preaching

Some sexual fantasies I've always had, the same as most men, is to be with 2 women at the same time, as well as group gropes/gang-bangs
I'm not opposed to one-night stands. I know of many great relationships that started as one niters. Some lasted, some didn't. You sample from the menu before deciding if your coming back to the restaurant

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Frank Sinatra, van morrison, steve tyrellrod stewart

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kim Basinger, for few years, she is my JO fantasy.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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