Looking to chat with open minded individuals. Searching local venues and meeting the community for friendship and play in this journey of exploration. I enjoy the mental aspects and power dynamics of both being dominant and submissive, the willfully giving of trust to me when being dominant with a woman and my giving the same when submitting to a woman. I wish to experience all aspects of kink. From the structured everyday hardline D/s with myself on both sides of the slash, to the hardcore S&M alternating between the two. I want to delve into my own mind while experiencing the full spectrum. Why does this seem to be a path that must fork and have no return. There seems to be a belief that a Dom is only a Dom, a sub only a sub. Yes we have the proclaimed switch definition but is that truly accepted? It seems most view as a crossroads or inability to accept either side of the D/s. I want to tie her, spank her, tease and deny her and own her while being her Dom to the same degree as when she is my Domme. The unfolding and peeling back of all the imposed societal heirachy as I go back and forth in the D/s lifestyle. Such is my current evolution in my switchy world of kink. Cerebral in nature in both vanilla and kink realms of life. This is a must for me. I become easily distracted and mundane if not challenged. I seek a partner that will keep my mind on edge as that will transfer to my body. INTJ - “Architect” / Taurus