Real as anyone can come! I'm Hard of hearing and visually stimulated to the real meet if we get there to that point of knowing each other after a cuppa! If you don't have a cam, then how can I know who you are and what you look like before meeting. I can be on cam, just ask me and please do the same! Or move on! Of course I come with baggage but you might like me for two things, I'm loyal and respectful. If I don't measure up to your expectations then nice knowing you! Cheerio!