Gentleman, if you should peak "HER" interest we will drop you a note. Please do not negate us for our ages. With age comes maturity, respectfulness and more important vast experiences. She clearly is NOT a prude sexually. He has 23+ years experience in the lifestyle and seen and participated in allot of stuff. His experience is nothing to brag about but more of an awareness thing to others reading the profile. This is not a “lifestyle” for us.. We are a mature in age and acting couple who pride oursleves in being respectful. Which means, we understand when NO means NO and ask for the same respect. Our ultimate goal is to find friends on here that we can do stuff with outside of the bedroom and if it should lead to the bedroom would be an added plus for us. We are an outdoors type of people. Like, golf, kayaking, picnics, flea markets, garage sale, farmer's market, leisure bike riding, wineries, breweries...you kind of get the picture. We are empty nesters and can host. He is an athletic Hawaiian, retired military and now works at a local University. She is a short VERY attractive, sexy and sexual Italian brunette with a career in the academic field. She is an absolute sexual firecracker in bed. We are not a shallow couple who is looking for Ken and Barbie. We are not a couple that believes either of us takes one for the team. If either of us do not have interest then we both do not have interest. We always play in the same room. We have PLENTY of toys to share. We love kink, dom/sub role play, light/respectful/non-degrading bdsm and using our many toys. Public flirting, teasing, seduction and unnoticed public fondling is fun. Ideally, we like meeting on the first meeting in a public setting for drink/dinner so we ALL can see if there is mutual attraction, interest and chemistry. However, we understand it is very costly now days to go out and we have no issue hosting an initial meet and greets at our house so we can chat. When we do we do it with no expectations at all and just see where it leads. We have done this several times on the first meet. We love being naked in hot tubs; problem is we do not have one. But if you have one, we would love an invite! We have met with plenty of very young couples/ladies to older couples/ladies than us and each brings different perspectives to the bedroom that makes it fun. We do ask if we drop you a line of interest and you do not have interest to please take the time to respond with a simple, No thank you....we always do the same. We understand that are not the couple for everyone so please do not hesitate to say so. Lastly, we have very clear face with body g rated pics in our album which we do not mind sharing once you share yours. As you note we took careful time to write a very detailed profile...we prefer the same when we read profiles. If you have no profile or profile pics we probably will have no interest. We very much look forward to hearing from you and thank you in advance for taking the time to read our introduction. If like what you read about us, please feel free to drop us a line.

My Ideal Person 1. Respectful! If we see people who are not respectful to their own partner or relationship then we have darn good idea you have no respect for us and our boundaries. We have been with people where the attraction was 100%, however, the others personality, disrespectfulness or hidden agenda clearly shows up and at that point there will be no mutual interest and chemistry on our end.
2. Understand when No means No
3. Will at least take the time to respond to us if we drop you a line.
4. If we agree to meet, please show up.
5. A couple or lady that already discuss between themselves their limits and boundaries. We feel this prevents drama.
6. If you are a couple that are having marital or relationship problems this lifestyle is not the answer. We do not want to be part of any insecurities or jealousy issues.
7. We have no age limit as long as the couple or lady is at least 21 years old.
8. Please do not ask us for R or X rated pics. We did not take them nor send them. You never know whose hand they eventually end up in and we can not compromise our jobs.
9. If you are just looking for sex, we probably are not your best match. As our goal to make very good friends that we can do stuff with on a regular basis outside the bedroom and if it lead to the bedroom is a huge added plus.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having a unicorn or female slave we can playfully own and
pamper in a role playing and respectful way.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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