I was a memeber YEARS ago..anyone left? Hi there, thanks for having a look at my profile. Well, several look, some flirt and most don't reply to my initial email. That's ok, I know I'm not Hot, or in the desirable category (i.e., in my 20s) however, I am respectable, honest, and not a player. Recently moved from Long island, and do go back to visit. Retired Navy and ex volunteer firefighter. Yes, I AM separated, NOT 100% divorced, yet. I am NOT looking for an LTR, leading to marriage, but open to a monogamous relationship with one lady. I do not bed hop, nor consider myself a "man " 1night stands had their place in my life when i was in my 20s..yeah, I know, may have been crazy, but at least I practiced safe sex. I am 100% DDF. I am ok if my playmate likes 420, but, because of my job I can not participate. As far as what I'm looking for... I have no "type" I enjoy smart, funny, sarcastic and artistic. I am a photographer and videographer. Would be nice to find someone to share my creativity with... shooting buddy, partner in crime. Love to travel, enjoy a drink at a beach bar somewhere and watch the sun set... Well, if I sound interesting, say hi! Yes, this IS aff, and the object is to find a playmate... but, I'd like a little more than just a hookup, FWB, but not quite living together, etc.

My Ideal Person Someone that understands my situation and we mutually respect each others privacy.