I am a passionate, sensuous man. Intimacy has always been an important part of my life. I agree that sex may not be the most important thing in life ... but it is really close to it. That's why I explore intimacy from the very beginning. If we become playmates, 'casual friends', 'Friends with Benefits', or future soul mates, with me 'benefits' will focus mainly on you. I love it when my partner lusts for attention and pleasure... and even more when she is satisfied and contented. I love to give intimate and erotic... sensuous and penetrating massages...oral sex, and expert toy play.. I know many ways to please -- and I'm good at it. I promise to be there for as much as you want... but not too much. I don't need a lot of physical attention for myself. I am mostly there for you. I am a good listener, and loyal friend. I can also be useful in other ways (computers, nutrition, etc.) We can do interesting things together.

My Ideal Person My ideal woman is attractive, reasonably intelligent, and active -- she is confident and comfortable with herself. She should have her own interests and projects. It would be great if she enjoyed working on some of the same things I do.

In private, I want a lusty lady -- who is comfortable with her body, who enjoys sensual pleasures every day. I want her to be full of passion, and to feel good about satisfying her needs however she wants. We will both be polyamorous and we do not have to have an exclusive/monogamous relationship. Our relationship will be based on mutual caring and respect... and loyalty to our friendship.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
In my fantasy, I am invisible at an 'ideal' orgy
organized for my special lady. (An orgy where everything
and everyone she might want will be there). I want to see
what she experiences when she abandon all inhibitions
and enjoys lust to the fullest... who she would choose to
be with, what she would do if she could choose anything.
It really turns me on to be with her in her most natural, lusting
and uninhibited state of being.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Debbie Reynolds, Meg Ryan, Melanie Griffith, cuties.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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