We are a happy, laid back open married couple. He's 45; she's 41. We are both fairly attractive people. We have had quite a few experiences with other couples, so we are comfortable with it. We are also looking for the right single people; we are comfortable with one-on-one with the right man/woman. He is a very erotic man, loves women in general and is a very, very generous lover. She loves to be caressed, and tended to in a way, though she will very skillfully turn the table on the guy. :)Light bondage is okay, but neither of us is into giving or receiving pain, or submission games. But we are into trying new things, so just ask! We are very family oriented, but very a very sexual couple. Hubby is very well endowed, and knows how to bring pleasure! Wife is slender, with a nice body.

My Ideal Person Looking for other couples and/or single men or women for one-on-one. We prefer to start out as friends, and let things develop from there. We are both straight, though she sometimes does some light bi stuff, if that's appropriate to the situation. We do not like pushy, aggressive couples! We are looking for couples and/or singles that we have good chemistry with, that we are attracted to, and that we can just be friends with, in general. So "friends with benefits" is a very good description of what we are looking for. We are looking for people who understand that we do have kids, and so we aren't free to just jaunt off spontaneously; we have to plan for these things. Though we will play with single people, please understand that we have a full disclosure relationship; no affairs or secrets. We are not looking for love; we've found that in each other.
NOTE FROM HER: Now, look, men... I have to say, I have had trouble, in the past, finding guys who just really rock my world. My husband can't be the ONLY guy who can just make me tremble all over, so if you think you've got what it takes, bring it!

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