Apparently I am no longer able to read mail since I’m not an upgraded member. I’m looking for more than just a hookup. No drama, no baggage here, none wanted. I’m hoping for a fun companion for lightening the load of life. I’m honest to a fault and this isn’t my first day, so don’t try scamming - I’ll see right through you. Let’s just be real and not make things so complicated! Oh, I’m a very well groomed, moderate BBW with some class. I realize “moderate” is subjective - willing to send more pics if we find mutual interest. Please be aware if you contact me. Ok - so maybe I don’t belong here. I’m not interested in fwb; nsa or 30 year olds thinking I’m desperate. I’m not - and I’m only interested in getting to know someone for a potential relationship that happens to include open minded fun as a part of it, not the basis of it. We are going to have to connect personally before it gets physical. I’m not going to cam or cyber with you. Period. Ok - so this is where all the idiots go to hang out I guess. Geez. I’m not likely to want a partner in life who is 8 years younger than my youngest . Seriously? READ the profile. Also - I like men. Masculine men. Men who want to act like an adult man - ok, even a Dominant adult man 😬. I’m afraid I’m not going to be here long. I’m normally easy going but this is SOOO annoying.

My Ideal Person Fun, happy, honest and ready to find a new best friend. I’m not looking for a husband or for someone to support me, and I won’t financially support you. Just looking for a connection - personality, chemistry, enjoying similar activities, etc. Not interested if you have any substance abuse issues or are a smoker. Also not interested in married men. Please be available and willing to have conversation.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, I don’t like checklists

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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