April 2024 update: no longer can respond to messages. If you have thick thighs, come save my life! Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it? I don't know but it's better to be safe than sorry! Which is why I became a member of this site in 2020. Since joining, I've made some wonderful connections with scammers, bots, and various other fake profiles. Sort of makes writing a bio a massive waste of time. But, just in case you're real and you care, here's a detailed summary of who I am and what I'm looking for: First, transparency: I am married. I know that's a dealbreaker for some, but note that my wife knows I'm here, is fully supportive (and encouraging!), and is on other apps herself. We have a fantastic relationship in and out of the bedroom. We just happen to be ethically non-monogamous and enjoy occasionally dating and hooking up with others. We are not, however, swingers looking for swaps. We only play separately. For the ladies: You have plenty of options on this site and the planet in general lol. Should we connect, just know that I'm respectful, clean, safe, and eager to please. I LOVE giving oral. Your pleasure and satisfaction is more important than mine. Bonus! I've had a vasectomy. Still believe in safe sex but at least we don't have to worry about any sort of condom failure. For M/F and F/F couples: If you're looking for a third, sign me up! I will respect your boundaries and play by your rules. I would prefer a bi couple so we could all play together. Have often fantasized about getting topped by him and while going down on her, but would certainly not turn down a hotwife situation either. For bi/gay men: Over the last few years, I've become more curious about exploring my bi side (often play with dildos/prostate massagers). I don't have much experience other than a few casual encounters and I'm ready to change that. Note that I'm a bottom. That could change in the future. For now, looking for tops only who know how to be patient with a first timer. Not into M/M couples at this time. For all my LGBTQ+ friends: All of the above applies! I love all the sexy humans. For straight men: Generally not interested in straight guys but intrigued by hotwife situations and definitely down for MFM threesomes. My kinks: I don't have much experience with BDSM and other kinks but I'm open minded! Almost everything is on the table for me except extreme pain or the gross stuff. Femdom is of particular interest. Pegging has long been a fantasy of mine. My physique: I'm bald but I do have all of my teeth and a great smile. Slim guy. Don't work out much but I stay active. If you're wondering about my member, it's average and it's spectacular. Circumcised and always clean shaven. Let's chat, meet up if we vibe, and let the universe take it from there.

My Ideal Person Mental attraction and trust are the most important. Physical attraction isn't everything but it is something and must exist.

For everyone: just be kind, be real, be open-minded. Let's have some sexy fun. Or just be friends!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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