Athletic, petite wife that is being allowed a playmate!! Husband is completely aware, will not be joining but will be present sometimes.... sometimes not. Would prefer a long-term playmate if it works out that we both enjoy each other and decide would like to see each other once or twice a month! What am I looking for? At least 5-11 (taller the better), fit to muscular, 30-40 yrs old, BIGGER the endowment the better and confident!! Prefer someone within a couple of hours from me or willing to travel at least that close so meeting would not be unusually difficult (over 2 hours for me would be too much for what I am looking for). When I say confident, that is what I mean!! I do not need someone that all they say is how much I will enjoy them, all they are going to do to me or how much stamina they have...that is usually a dead giveaway that performance is going to be lacking!! A confident man does not have to brag about that.... he will just show me…!! Husband and I would also be interested in meeting other couples if the right opportunity presents itself!!! UPDATE: I do not play alone with couples. I am straight and that has been an issue when asked to play alone with a couple and just never works out.