I'm a busy business owner, with not a lot of time to go out and meet people. I also don't have the time for games, lies and deceptions, so I'm an open book. I'm not perfect.There's a divorce in my past, a broken heart, and a bright future. I've never done the online dating thing, and I'm not sure what to expect, but I suppose at times it's a little lonely coming home late at night to an empty home. Not every night, but more often than not. Sometimes it's lonely without intimacy, while others it's just having someone to talk to. I love intelligent conversation and kinky minds. You'll find me to be a dreamer, a romantic, an intellectual and a lover of life, experience, and making memories. Experiences are what I love above all. If you asked me if I'd rather spend money on things or experiences, it would be the latter. I can't say I'm looking for anything serious, because I don't know right now. I can just say I'm open to what life throws my way, and until then I'll enjoy it, because I love people. When it comes to the physical, most guys tend to forget that there's a thing called foreplay, I know that what leads up to the sex is probably more important than the act itself. I take my time to learn just what makes you tingle in every spot, what makes your breath catch, and what drives you wild. When it comes to the sex, I can be as dirty as anything you've seen in porn, or as passionate and slow as the situation calls for. Oh, and if you enjoy a man with a talented tongue, look no further. I'll have you on edge in no time, and keep you there until you're satisfied. Who knows what could happen. It all starts with a hello. Yes, I'm amazing. No, that's not ego, I'm just confident that I'm a great guy. If you like loud, uncouth, bad boys with a penchant for drinking too much, I'm not for you. If you prefer a freeloader that leeches off of you, verbally, emotionally, or physically abuses you, then I'm probably not what you're looking for. If you enjoy pin-dicks or thugs, like guys that stay out all night and chase every piece of ass they see, or you got stood up on date night because he couldn't borrow his parent's car, then look elsewhere. You won't find any of that here. In fact, I feel good about saying that I've got everything you'll love. Here's me. I'm 35, white, attractive, but my hair's receding. At least I'm honest. I stay well groomed, and clean. I have my own place, drive a gorgeous, red convertible, and have great taste in music. If you're into patience, kindness, intelligence, conversation, and exploring life and the world, then those things are what I am. Who says romance and chivalry are dead? Do you like a guy that plans ahead, enjoys giving attention, and is a die-hard romantic? Check. Someone who still opens doors, because it's just the way that world should work? Got you. And when you get home at night, how does it sound to get your socks knocked off, made love to like a fucking animal, and have it last more than 10 minutes? I'm an amazing lover, and that's just the truth. Hell, I don't even care if you want to fuck other people. Let's do it together. Here's the deal. I own multiple businesses, have been divorced for a year from an emotionally abusive relationship, and my free time is limited. It's because I'm pursuing my own dream, instead of building someone else's. But I've still got needs. Sometimes, it's nice to have someone to go out with to have some wine and dance. Maybe just stay in, snuggle, and listen to music. Jet off to the country for a few days and spend the weekend exploring and fucking the living hell out of one another? Sounds amazing. I don't even care if you want to fuck other people. Hell, let's do it together! In summary: In shape Attractive Owns car Runs own business Fun Funny Patient Calm Romantic Gentleman Freaky Kinky

My Ideal Person Romantic, adventurous, and intimate. Enjoys traveling, isn't looking for handouts, and is open minded in most things.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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