We are a married couple of over 15 years and have been in the lifestyle for most of those. We do almost all of our playing as singles these days, or to be a bit more cliche we enjoy the use of our hallpasses. J is more apt to use the pass, and a little more adventurous. Whereas C is more shy.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a friend or friends that I can I meet with for somewhat regular encounters. I am typically free on Mondays during the day. I am also free in the evenings after work as well.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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