Hey guys, you can alternatively contact me via doublerooster at ya hoo if you can't reach me online. I unexpectedly discovered a couple of decades ago that FROTTING (Stroking, Edging and Climaxing COCK2COCK) was actually more of a STRAIGHT thing--NOT gay as most people might first assume. And I promise, I am NOT bullsh*tting You! I have been a rare, non-stereotype gay guy who has never cared for anal sex, but have always enjoyed cock play--similar to how ALL MEN like discreetly playing with their own dicks. Well over my adult life, I have RARELY found other gays into my scene because they are so oriented toward anal and/or oral sex. So out of curiosity (and slight sexual desperation) one day I decided to run a personal mutual JO buddy ad in a former very popular straight swinger Southern California newstand adult paper named the L.A. Xpress--which prior to then had ONLY ran opposite sex ads. I did not even know if they would actually consider running my ad. Well amazingly they did and initially there was no response so I just chalked it up to being an interesting experiment. But then out of the blue, three weeks after that--when the ad stopped running, I started getting phone calls (because in the days way before smart phones, I brazenly listed my own home phone in the ad (figuring no one would blindly respond to a pager number). And then after about another week, those phone calls turned into an avalanche with STRAIGHT mutual JO-curious guys calling from all over Southern California--morning, noon and night. These men had said they had never been with another guy other than maybe once jacking off with a boyhood friend, but my scenario sounded both masculine and erotic and they were open to trying it out. I then started discreetly meeting these guys who were of all legal ages and walks of life--most of whom one would never imagine in a million years would even touch another guys cock. And further discovered that that a lot of straight guys really privately liked doing this--I would lay down beach towels on my oversized living room sofa and we would play that way facing each other. Many guys then either called back wanting to meet up again or just drove to outside of my apartment building--horny--and waited in their cars for me to get back home. It was quite a crazy and unbelievable time, but that was when I started realizing that FROTTING privately appealed to a large sector of the straight male population. Ironically around that same time when I would try to meet gay guys from separate personal ads or phone lines to Frot, I would hear crickets. So instead of fighting the flow, decided to go with it and I am now a youthful, middle aged guy. So guys reading this please get over any false stigma you may have about FROTTING being "gay"--I wish it was for my own gay dating benefit. To this day I very rarely meet gay guys open to cock2cock play and many think it's weird that I am so into it and NOT turned on by anal play. I am masculine, friendly, sane, honest, likeable, reliable and available. To a lesser degree I can also enjoy some oral play, but never swallow jizz randomly, I practice safe sex and am very Covid cautious (and now am fully vaccinated). I don't have many quirks, but I do favor dudes with more masculine appearing natural pubic and other body hair (as opposed to the shaved or excessively trimmed pubescent look). On my looks/physical side, I am not young and fit, but not some troll either. I consider myself to be sort of a "Manly Ted Bear" and have a bull-type, large framed upper body with a keg instead of a six pack (and if you do happen to be bi or gay and open to meeting me, my body type can be great to cuddle with). And I know most guys out there are busy, married or partnered, but if you are single and open to mixing friendship with frotting that has always been a fantasy of mine. After you meet and hang out with me you will discover that I am a unique, genuinely nice and very cool guy.

My Ideal Person Because of my unique lifestyle having involved so many straight ("bi-lite") guys, like I said I have had the life-long pleasure of interacting with men of all ages and backgrounds. However, these days I seem more physically attracted to men with average, generally proportionate bodies, moderate to heavy body hair (especially hairy legs, hairy thighs, bushy pubes, treasure or happy trails, chest hair and facial hair) than I am to smooth, more boyish-looking men--as a general preference. But don't let that deter you if you are very interested regardless of the above.

But what remain the 2 most important things are PERSONALITY and--secondly (since I have become somewhat dick-centric) is a NICE LOOKING COCK meaning not necessarily gigantic, but not too small, nicely shaped and fairly straight without being overly curvy or veiny, no mushroom heads with narrow shafts, etc. I hate to tell you this, but there are a fair number of men out there--regardless of their overall looks--with ugly dicks--so with my frot orientation I have become more of a cock connoisseur, lol.

Yet again PERSONALITY (face and smile) and a NICE COCK can sometimes "trump" (pardon me for using such language) everything else about a person. Hope you don't mind my candor, humor and sincerity. I am not a bullsh*tter so when I say something, I truly mean it.