Smart, caring sexy (or so I've been told) male. Very secure with myself and look for the same. Have a number of interests from music to sports to cooking, intimate dates and in depth discussions with someone who has their head on straight. I know what I like, but that does not mean that I'm rigid. There's always opportunities to grow and learn. Love sex and am very open in that area, but its not just about the physical. The best sex comes from the mutual respect and discussion about wants and desires. Sex is to be savored and indulged in, but that can only happen when the groundwork has been laid through open and honest communication.

My Ideal Person Seeking a woman who, like me is secure with herself and knows what she wants. I'm not looking for someone whose docile is bull headed, just a person who understands herself, is flexible and can carry on a conversation. Race is not important to me-the person inside is whats important. When it comes to sex, I like a person who will discuss their likes and wants. Too many times people don't or wont talk about sex. I want someone who, as we create a safe space with each other, that can and will talk about anything, knowing that they will not be judged by me, nor will I judge you. I'm not going to state a goal that I seek a long term relationship. I am relationship minded, but the best relationships are the ones that grow organically. Lets connect and start to know each other and if we click, lets take each other by the hand and start on a journey of discovery.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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