Well the new has worn off, we have been in the lifestyle about 2 and a half years now and our only regret is that we didn't take the plunge sooner. We are long time married and very secure and very drama free. She has had a couple of boyfriends during our time in the lifestyle and would be open to finding another but if you come at her aggressive it aint happening. We do prefer same room and puppy pile s but with our security with each other hall passes and separate room play are also in our wheelhouse. Let's get some convo going but not forever, just enough to see if there is mutual interest in meting for a drink. Don't be shy, reach out!

My Ideal Person Age appropriate couples who enjoy great dinners, great drinks, and great convo!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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