Imagine this; you log on to AFF. You see a decent guy, maybe 7/10. You're unsure of whether to reach out. You read his bio. You like it, and it's captivating. Fuck it; you send him a message. Boom! It's a match. You start talking. Conversations are engaging. He listens. He cares- He's genuine. You bring him home for the holidays. Your family loves him. A couple of years pass, and you get married. You found love in a hopeless place. Cool story. Well this is not going to happen. But, I can do so much more...😊 Despite looking for NSA I've noticed that I appreciate a good conversation with a woman before I meet with her. If we can't converse, then more than likely, nothing is going to happen. The IM function here is terrible on mobile so if we do message there I'm sorry if it's erratic. I prefer to message. I'm very much the "Jedi in the streets, Sith in the sheets" type (that reference is twofold btw, if you catch it, then we might hit it off). I don't have a type per se, what I like I like. If you're interested, I'd love to hear from you!