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In and Out --- WTF !!!!!  

yesoyes2021 69M
34 posts
5/31/2021 4:41 pm
In and Out --- WTF !!!!!

Texting quirks on my mind this afternoon:

Have you experienced what I call the "In and Out" syndrome where you are texting frequently with someone until suddenly they stop responding and you figure they dont care or lost interest amd moved on only to suddenly, out of the sky blue ,you get a text from them after weeks or even months only to simply say Hello , brief message to you and then disappear again.......WTHF????

Texting poor etiquette:

Pet peeve of mine is to be having a very active text conversation only to have them suddenly, mid - conversation, stop talking. What ever happened to common courtesy where you say something like " hey I enjoyed chatting but I have to go now " or "enjoyed chatting and would like to chat more later , bye".

How about I put my dick in you , fuck for about an hour but suddenly pull out, hop out of bed and run out the door without saying a word !!!!!!!!

13129 posts
5/31/2021 6:14 pm

fast, easy, cheap digital communication has cheapened human interaction

yesoyes2021 replies on 5/31/2021 7:15 pm:
I agree -- digital communications can leave a lot to be desired as far as quality, courtesy and respect

Oh_Daddy_Yes 58M
44 posts
5/31/2021 8:26 pm

I have encountered that just as you say. They are there responding and then nothing. It's hard to tell if they're interested through this medium.

If you encounter the IN and OUT and then a while later (weeks, months, etc.) receive a seemingly random 'hello', you can pretty much discount them as a fake profile, being run by a person with no intention of meeting, let alone interacting sincerely. Ultimately, they're just after your money.

Is there one seeking the arms and comfort of an older man?

Ultraviolet_Sol 42M  
622 posts
6/1/2021 1:47 am

You just have to sort of activate your will to be weird in those types of situations, perhaps. best of luck to you.

*. *. *

nsnguystill 70M
428 posts
6/1/2021 2:23 am

after twenty five generations of intense study... i have uncovered the truth to this dilemma. it is a radio wave emitted by the people of rudeassesville. once activated this wave sucks the user through their computer, transporting them to rudeassesville, where scientific studies are done on them. upon completion of the studies their mind is wiped clean, and they are returned to their computer...
they got involved with someone else, and after being dumped returned to their second choice
their computer crashed and it took them that long to save up for a new one
and yes i did experience this before on an occasion or two... but it did take your blog for me to ponder as to why they done me wrong.

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid

Brownie202 65F  
2680 posts
6/1/2021 2:46 am

So nobody can take care of a emergency? A important call can wait?

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

Purechocolate95 38M  
1 post
7/7/2021 4:55 pm

They have to be fake profiles. This has happen to me over and over. I thing they are there to make sure you don't cancel.

1deeptouch 70F  
114 posts
10/25/2021 7:16 am

Wow, high expectations. Saying bye would be nice. Sometimes one just need to run. Get to work, take a break, have a life. This is a case of remembering not to attach strings to things or people. We don't walk in each others moccasins.

yesoyes2021 69M

10/27/2021 7:14 pm

Not high expectations but simple courtesy. Not "strings attached " but merely the normal ebb and flow of a conversation . I think texting allows bad manners to take place because its a digital interacton versus a face to face interaction which allows for nuances and observations.
However ,I will continue to go with the flow because that is the 'norm" and I cant change that.....
Thanks #1 Fan,

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