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The delusion of age, about age  

wyedeltavector 73M
3 posts
10/11/2021 7:51 am
The delusion of age, about age

I can only write this because I am living it. [ image ]
I've always been a sexually active person. Started late, for various reasons and didn't have sex until I was twenty. Then lookout, there was nothing stopping . I ran away to another city for a lovely wet lass. That didn't last long, and I was on to another.
Eventually I settled down, with one woman. Still, every night was my goal, and I managed to fulfil that goal.
Even later in my 40's I was sexually busy, with no lack of partners, married, single, and of all ages. I can only conclude that my sexual drive was surrounding with a pheromone or some kind of attractant, that drew them to me.
I even dabbled in bisexual play back then, though I wouldn't have gone for a man to suck my coc These things just happened. I had no objection to menages, in fact I really enjoyed the double attention.
I did settle down for almost thirty years with a second partner. But sex, was still a daily act between us barring an illness or forced physical separation.
So now, that I'm older and single, whats happening?
Has my sex drive diminished?
The answer is no, definitely not. I like to think I stay in physical shape. ( Minus some scars that Life gives us to prove we were there ).
But now that age thing ( ?? ) What happens when women your age no longer have the physical drive to enjoy sex, or even please a partner?
Well, I have found new partners and changed my lifestyle. Well, new partners is just a term. In fact it means men, now, find me attractive, and by becoming a dominant , ( possibly I've always been one ) I have a variety of possible partners wishing and eager to satisfy their figure,requirements.
I still am (heteroflexible ) though my female partners have dwindled to nothing except words and missed hookups.
I've come to the conclusion that male maturity, ( ageing ) is something that frightens women.
Men find the thought of some dominant male arousing, but women draw the line at physical encounters.
This is disappointing to me as I really miss the taste, smell, and feel of a woman. I miss hearing the moans, and feeling her body move with uncontrolled passion. I miss the wetness leaking and sometimes squirting from that beautiful ( pussy, cunt, beaver, vagina ). The feel of her sphincter muscles clenching as she cums hard, on my face hand or coc The enjoyment of pleasing a woman has been part of my life for many years, and I have come to realise that now that is all gone. Left to my memories and<b> fantasy.
</font></b>That apparently is male ageing, and though ( from experience ) I know there are men who think that at 55 or 60, its time to lose the hardon, boner, erection, it has really only made me conscious of how attraction and desires change with age.
I enjoy being the dominant male at times but ageing has taken away the option , of M/F sex.
There may be arguments about this, and of course cases that disprove it, but this is my experience and ( my blog ).
I am no longer disillusioned about age and attraction. I'm accepting what appears to be the inevitable.
Keep on enjoying that sexuality till you really can't anymore. Don't just pick an age and say OK, I'm done. Male or female, you can always satisfy yourself to keep that drive alive, My right hand hasn't dumped me yet,

Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
10/11/2021 10:08 am

Words well written! Welcome to Blog Land!!

wyedeltavector 73M

10/11/2021 10:50 am

Thank you Leegs2012

Leegs2012 49M
96134 posts
10/11/2021 12:11 pm

You're very welcome!

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